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QUICKIE: Why Discretion & Judgment Matter in Non-Monogamy

QUICKIE: Why Discretion & Judgment Matter in Non-Monogamy

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📍 Show Notes

1. Opener & Trigger

  • Quick disclaimer on mature content
  • Adam shares being hurt by judgment on social media (a “vomit emoji” left on their celebratory post)

2. The Impact of Judgment

  • How such reactions drive people “back into the closet”
  • Comparing lifestyle judgment to what LGBTQ+ people experience

3. Discretion vs Authenticity

  • Why some choose to stay hidden
  • Prize the power and impact of openness and advocacy

4. Life-Strengthening Benefits

  • Stories on how ethical non-monogamy has improved communication and personal growth
  • Their experience facing and overcoming shame

5. Cultural & Religious Conditioning

  • The role of upbringing and religious beliefs in shaping moral judgments
  • Adam’s thoughts on his seminary background and shifting perspectives

6. Visibility & Acceptance

  • The mainstream rise of swinging thanks to social media and LGBTQ normalization
  • The value of staying true to oneself and celebrating non-traditional relationships

7. Season Updates & Community Ask

  • New website launch: www.beyond-monogamy.com (featuring episodes, blog posts, voicemail feature, and future plans like video & guests)
  • Encouragement to share with “vanilla” listeners who may just be curious
  • Upcoming season updates and attendance at the Port Aransas Beach Takeover
✅ Key Takeaways
  • Judgment from others often stems from personal insecurities or societal conditioning
  • Open non-monogamy can foster growth, connection, and emotional resilience
  • Visibility matters—not just for the hosts, but for listeners exploring their own path
  • Community support plays a therapeutic role in navigating lifestyle choices
🔗 Connect & Support
  • Visit: www.beyond-monogamy.com for full episodes, blogs, and a voicemail feature
  • Stay tuned for new season content, refreshed branding, video interviews, and guest voices
  • Love the episode? Share it with friends or vanilla listeners—interest doesn’t equal participation!

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