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QUEERNECKS

QUEERNECKS

By: BECK ASHWOOD
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Queernecks is a show hosted by queer folks from the hills and hollers of Central Appalachia, or wherever remote, rural, and impoverished queer people have to make their own spaces, fun, joy, and just generally make do. We're generally funny and lighthearted, but the lives we've lived haven't always been easy, so you may hear the occasional thing that shocks you. But more than anything else you'll hear resilience.Copyright 2025 BECK ASHWOOD Social Sciences
Episodes
  • #7 They call me Boytitties
    Jul 14 2025

    Dash and Beck explore various themes including social dynamics, family memories, the experience of Midwestern goodbyes, the lifespan of pets, near-death experiences, and the impact of generational trauma. They share personal anecdotes about their pets, discuss the significance of truth or dare games in their youth, and reflect on how their backgrounds have shaped their perspectives. The conversation highlights the complexities of human-animal relationships and the emotional connections that arise from shared experiences. In this engaging conversation, Dash and Beck explore the complexities of queer identity, family dynamics, and cultural divergence. They share personal anecdotes about their experiences growing up, navigating relationships with their families, and the impact of media representation on their identities. The discussion delves into the role of humor in queer culture and activism, reflecting on historical moments that shaped the community. They also touch on the significance of food and Appalachian culture, particularly the nostalgic tradition of making snow cream. Throughout the conversation, they emphasize the importance of empathy and the absurdity of societal norms, creating a rich tapestry of insights and reflections.

    Takeaways

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    The Midwestern goodbye can be confusing.

    Pets often have shorter lifespans than we expect.

    Near-death experiences can shape our fears.

    Truth or dare reveals social dynamics among friends.

    Generational trauma impacts life expectancy.

    Language evolves as we grow and change.

    Unconditional love from pets is profound.

    Family memories shape our identities.

    Social dynamics influence our interactions. Navigating queer identity often leads to a divergence from family expectations.

    Cultural differences can create a sense of isolation within families.

    Media representation plays a crucial role in shaping queer identities.

    Humor is a vital aspect of queer culture and resistance.

    Historical activism has shaped the current landscape of queer rights.

    Empathy has diminished in contemporary societal interactions.

    Food traditions, like snow cream, connect us to our roots.

    Personal growth often involves reconciling past experiences with present identities.

    The absurdity of societal norms can be a source of humor and strength.

    Queer culture thrives on creativity and resilience.

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    Midwestern goodbye, pets, near-death experiences, truth or dare, generational trauma, social dynamics, family memories, life experiences, language evolution, unconditional love, queer identity, family dynamics, cultural divergence, media representation, queer humor, activism, empathy, Appalachian culture, snow cream, personal growth


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    58 mins
  • #6 I hope you got air conditioning
    Jul 7 2025

    Dash and Beck discuss a variety of topics ranging from personal experiences with pets during Independence Day celebrations to the complexities of liberalism and racism in America. They share personal anecdotes about their educational journeys, the importance of community spaces, and the beauty of summer memories, including the magic of lightning bugs. The conversation also touches on the role of allies in anti-racism efforts and the need for support in communities facing crises.

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    Takeaways

    Pets react differently to fireworks than humans do.

    Local events can be a mix of fun and frustration.

    Social gatherings often reflect community dynamics.

    Online interactions can lead to misunderstandings.

    Liberalism can be complex and often misinterpreted.

    Racism is a pervasive issue that requires active engagement.

    White privilege complicates discussions about class and race.

    Allies play a crucial role in anti-racism efforts.

    Community support is vital during crises and disasters.

    Education shapes our identities and experiences.

    Chapters

    00:00 Fireworks and Furry Friends: Celebrating the Fourth

    04:28 Street Parties and Small Town Shenanigans

    08:17 Online Drama: Navigating Social Media Discourse

    11:55 The Complexities of Liberalism and Class

    15:51 Supporting Communities: Action Beyond Words

    19:26 Navigating Identity: Coming Out and Family Dynamics

    21:58 Education: From Struggles to Success in Grad School

    22:44 The Impact of School Experiences on Identity

    27:03 Creating Community: The Need for Non-Bar Spaces

    31:07 The Role of Creativity in Education

    35:57 Career Aspirations and Friendships

    42:41 Summer Adventures and Fond Memories

    51:03 New Chapter

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    Independence Day, pets, community events, online drama, liberalism, racism, white privilege, anti-racism, education, personal growth, summer memories, lightning bugs

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    51 mins
  • #5 Politics and The Hereafter
    Jun 30 2025

    Dash and Beck explore a range of topics from personal academic challenges and the impact of loss to reflections on Pride Month and cultural identities. They share stories about family dynamics, the influence of weather on life, and delve into the complexities of the prison industrial complex. The discussion also touches on ghost stories and personal experiences with loss, culminating in a historical overview of the Hatfield-McCoy feud and its implications for Appalachian identity.

    Takeaways

    Navigating academic challenges can be deeply personal and complex.

    Personal loss can significantly impact one's motivation and mental health.

    Pride Month serves as a time for reflection and celebration of identity.

    Cultural identities are shaped by regional differences and personal experiences.

    Family dynamics often reveal generational stories and histories.

    Weather and environment can profoundly affect daily life and mental well-being.

    The prison industrial complex is a significant issue in American society.

    Ghost stories often reflect personal experiences with loss and memory.

    The Hatfield-McCoy feud illustrates the complexities of Appalachian history and identity.

    Community and connection are vital in navigating personal and societal challenges.

    Chapters


    00:00 Pride Month Reflections and Personal Stories

    02:05 Cultural Identities and Regional Differences

    06:01 Family Dynamics and Generational Stories

    08:06 The Impact of Weather and Environment on Life

    11:08 The Prison Industrial Complex and Its Implications

    13:55 Ghost Stories and Personal Experiences with Loss

    16:45 The Hatfield-McCoy Feud: History and Legacy

    01:08:13 New Chapter

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    academic challenges, personal loss, Pride Month, cultural identities, family dynamics, weather impact, prison industrial complex, ghost stories, Hatfield-McCoy feud


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    45 mins

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