Cheating isn’t the biggest relationship killer—money is. I reveal the hidden financial red flags that can quietly destroy trust and security, and how to protect yourself before it’s too late.

I share my own experience of ignoring the warning signs and what it cost me, plus the subtle clues you might be missing: lavish spending on a modest income, secretive money habits, repeated requests for “loans,” inconsistent stories about debt, and more.

You’ll learn:

• How to spot financial instability early
• Why joint expenses should never mean giving up control
• How to protect yourself with solid planning and prenups
• Why honest money talks are as vital as conversations about intimacy

Whether you’re dating, remarried, or in a long-term relationship—especially in midlife—this conversation will help you protect both your heart and your wallet.

Because healthy money habits aren’t just smart… They're sexy.

Timestamps:

00:00 – Why financial red flags matter more than you think

00:25 – Money & sex: the two hardest conversations

00:55 – My personal story of ignoring the signs

01:35 – Lavish spending vs. real income

02:05 – Secretive behavior & repeated requests for money

02:40 – Why you should talk about credit scores

03:05 – Inconsistent debt stories & hidden bankruptcies

03:35 – The danger of “my money, your money” control

04:00 – Protect yourself with planning & prenups

04:40 – The importance of professional financial advice

05:05 – “Open books, open hearts”: building transparency

05:40 – Keep money talks going for a healthier relationship

06:10 – Final takeaway: healthy money habits are sexy

Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.

This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.

Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:

Email: karen@taboototruth.com

Website: https://www.taboototruth.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruth

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcast

Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.

This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.

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