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Part 4: Self Esteem: The Three Key Components to Successful Relationships

Part 4: Self Esteem: The Three Key Components to Successful Relationships

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 If we want to have to have deeper more meaninful relationships we need to start thinking more about our Self's and less about our relationship partner.  This goes against everything we know about relationships and is in direct contradiction to our theme here at Be the 3rd.  Yet, there are three key components of our communication process that never get the attention that they need, and they all require that we focus quite a bit of time thinking about these three aspects of ourselves.  Self-Awareness Self-Control  Self-Esteem  Once we start to focus and understand these three components of self, not only will our relationships with each other deepen and strengthen but so will our relationship with God.  This is the final episode in the series of Key Components to Successful Relationships. If you missed the others you can find them here: S1Ep9, S1Ep10, S1Ep11.   References: Beebe, S. A., Beebe, S., & Ivy, D. K. (2022). Communications: Principles for a lifetime (8th ed.). Pearson education Ince. Bennett, W. J., & Bennett, E. (2022). The book of virtues: A treasury of great moral stories. Simon & Schuster. Department of Sociology. (2021, June 11). Self Esteem. What is it?. www.umd.edu. www.umd.edu/sociology Holy bible. (2011). Zondervan. Mcleod, S. (2023, July 7). Maslow’s hierarchy of needs theory. Simply Psychology. https://www.simplypsychology.org/maslow.html Mussweiler, T. (2003). Comparison processes in social judgment: Mechanisms and consequences. Psychological Review, 110(3), 472–489. https://doi.org/10.1037/0033-295x.110.3.472   Eph 4:25-32 25 Therefore each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to your neighbor, for we are all members of one body.26 “In your anger do not sin”[d]: Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, 27 and do not give the devil a foothold.28 Anyone who has been stealing must steal no longer, but must work, doing something useful with their own hands, that they may have something to share with those in need. 29 Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. 30 And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. 31 Get rid of all bitterness, rage and anger, brawling and slander, along with every form of malice. 32 Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you. Exodus 20:2-17  And God spoke all these words: 2 “I am the Lord your God, who brought you out of Egypt, out of the land of slavery.3 “You shall have no other gods before[a] me.4 “You shall not make for yourself an image  7 “You shall not misuse the name of the Lord your God,8 “Remember the Sabbath day by keeping it holy.12 “Honor your father and your mother, 13 “You shall not murder.14 “You shall not commit adultery.15 “You shall not steal.16 “You shall not give false testimony against your neighbor.17 “You shall not covet. 1 Samuel 16:7 7 But the Lord said to Samuel, “Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.” Proverbs 6:16-19 16 There are six things the Lord hates,     seven that are detestable to him: 17 haughty eyes, a lying tongue, hands that shed innocent blood, 18 a heart that devises wicked schemes, feet that are quick to rush into evil, 19 a false witness who pours out lies, and a person who stirs up conflict in the community. 1 Cor 6:19-20 19 Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; 20 you were bought at a price. Therefore, honor God with your bodies. Find me on my socials. Be sure to like, follow, and share. Jackiemelvin.com bethe3rd.org (coming soon) Instagram Linkedin Facebook Twitter  
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