In this episode of Parent Like a Psychologist, we explore Low Demand Parenting by Amanda Diekman — a compassionate and practical approach gaining attention among parenting circles and neurodivergent communities. Drawing from Diekman’s lived experience as a late-diagnosed PDA autistic woman, pastor, parent coach, and mother of neurodivergent children, the book offers a roadmap for parents raising kids who struggle to meet typical expectations.

I unpack the six-step framework Amanda outlines — from assessing and dropping demands to creating safety and building a low-demand life — and share real-world examples to make it tangible (yes, even the dreaded “put on your shoes” scenario). We’ll discuss how this approach differs from permissive parenting, the boundaries it maintains, and why connection-based parenting sits at its heart.

Alongside the strengths, I also offer a reality check: what to consider if you can’t completely drop demands due to work, school, or other commitments, and the emotional resilience this approach requires from parents. You’ll hear about:

• How low demand parenting can lower stress and restore calm at home

• Practical adjustments to demands without sacrificing safety or values

• The difference between permissive parenting and intentional, low-demand choices

• Ways to work with your brain and nervous system as a parent

• Why professional or peer support can be key when implementing change

Whether you’re a parent of a child with high anxiety, strong demand avoidance, or you simply feel like every request turns into a meltdown, this episode provides tools, perspectives, and encouragement. Take what works for your family, leave what doesn’t, and remember — parenting differently takes courage, but it can also bring relief, connection, and hope.

Episode Notes & Links:

Amanda Diekman’s Information:
📖 Low Demand Parenting – The Book
📸 @lowdemandamanda on Instagram

Resources for Families:
🔹 Problem Solving with Your Child – Free Guide

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In this powerful and validating episode of Parent Like a Psychologist, I’m joined by the insightful Lisa Chan — former Pediatric Occupational Therapist and creator of the Chaos to Calm course — to unpack what’s really going on beneath the surface of our kids’ challenging behaviors, and what parents can do when traditional parenting approaches just aren’t working.

Together, we explore the critical skills that so many neurodivergent children struggle with — sensory overwhelm, executive functioning, and emotional regulation — and how these difficulties are often misunderstood as laziness, defiance, or disorganization. Lisa shares her practical, compassionate approach that helps families move from constant conflict to deeper connection.

In this episode, we talk about:

• Why your child’s behavior isn’t your failure — or theirs

• How executive functioning struggles show up in everyday life (and how to support them)

• The real reason your mornings feel like chaos — and how to shift the dynamic

• Why slowing down is not a weakness, but a necessity for both kids and parents

• How early support builds long-term independence (without creating dependence)

• The emotional toll of a world not designed for neurodivergent kids — and how parents can buffer that

If you’re raising a child with ADHD, autism, sensory differences, or emotional regulation challenges — and feeling like you're stuck in a cycle of meltdowns, nagging, or guilt — this episode will help you breathe a little easier. You are not alone, and you are not doing it wrong. It’s time to shift the approach.

Links & Resources:

• 🌐 Lisa's website: thelisachan.com

• 📚 Free tools & guides: thelisachan.com/resources

• 🎓 Chaos to Calm parenting course: thelisachan.com/course
  
  

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In this powerful and practical episode of Parent Like a Psychologist, host Leanne Tran, psychologist and parent, explores the unique challenges autistic children face in school environments—and how parents can advocate effectively for the support their kids need.

Drawing on her dual perspective as both a psychologist and a parent, Leanne unpacks:

• Why primary schools can be overwhelming for autistic kids—sensory overload, social fatigue, executive functioning struggles, and masking expectations

• The invisible signs of stress your child might be experiencing, even if everything looks "fine" at school

• What meaningful and proactive support looks like in a school setting, including visual schedules, sensory accommodations, movement breaks, social/emotional support, and flexible transition planning

• How to talk to your child’s teacher and school in a collaborative, empowered way (without feeling like “that parent”)

This episode is not about generic checklists—it’s about individualising your child’s support plan based on their real needs and strengths.

Leanne also shares a free downloadable guide to help parents start school-based conversations and advocate for their child's wellbeing. You can find it here: https://learn.leannetran.com.au/free

Whether your child is already diagnosed, you're in the process of assessment, or you're simply trying to figure out how to help them feel less overwhelmed at school, this episode is full of compassionate advice and actionable steps.

Tune in to feel empowered, informed, and ready to help your child not just survive—but thrive—in the classroom.

The guide for advocating for your child with confidence is here:
👉 https://learn.leannetran.com.au/free

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