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Join me for the very first silly, experimental episode of everything EOL. It's a bit fun the girls and I recorded at Xmas to test the equipment and explore the concept of Compassion.

What does compassion truly look like in our everyday lives? Drawing the curtains back on my own family dynamics, this heartfelt conversation with my three daughters reveals the beautiful, sometimes messy reality of how we care for one another.

Through candid dialogue that bounces between laughter and serious reflection, we discover the unique compassion languages each family member speaks. Shania shares how being "outside the situation" allows her to support her sister during emotional moments. Rachel opens up about vulnerability and the comfort that comes from the right person checking in. Sarah demonstrates her love through practical gestures—offering dinner, drinks, and tangible support when words fail.

The conversation uncovers a profound truth: compassion wears many faces. For some, it's the gift of presence during difficult times. For others, it's acts of service that speak volumes. We joke about having "the empathy of a wooden spoon," yet reveal the depth beneath surface reactions—how understanding sometimes "takes a while to sink in" but arrives with genuine care.

Most touching are the single words each daughter chooses to describe being good to others: "proud," "warm," and "selfless." These simple terms capture the essence of compassion's reciprocal nature—how giving to others fulfills something essential in ourselves.

Whether you're navigating family relationships or seeking to better understand your own compassion style, this intimate glimpse into our pajama-clad philosophy session offers valuable insights on the healing power of showing up for each other. What's your compassion language, and how might understanding it transform your connections?

For those interested in what Palliative care looks like at home there is "The Last Kiss" (Not a Romance)
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