We’re asking a powerful question: Is "it" optional or essential? What is "it?" Tune it to find out as we explore how the concept of "NECESSITY" can help you lead your teen more effectively, especially if they’re navigating high-stakes performance in sports or the performing arts. You’ll leave with tools that shift your mindset from transactional to transformational and from parenting...to coaching!

We’re diving into the deep end of the pool to get a bit uncomfortable. Yep, in the deep water we'll find out how the high performance habit of necessity creates clarity and most importantly, a deeper, better connection with your teen. This episode will challenge and encourage you to rethink what it means to be a high-performing parent.

The Timestamps

00:00 Is "it" Optional or Essential?

02:33 Understanding Purpose in Parenting

05:22 Exploring the 'Why' By Going Several Levels Deep

08:25 The Importance of Self-Reflection

11:19 Transformational vs. Transactional Parenting

14:08 The Golden Circle--Simon Sinek

16:40 Practical Exercises for Parents

19:20 Engaging with Your Teen

Takeaways

-What is really essential?

-Understanding your purpose as a parent is crucial.

-Courage is needed to confront personal shortcomings.

-Focusing on progress (the gain) is important.

-The 'why' behind parenting choices shapes actions.

-Transformational parenting builds deeper connections.

-Transactional parenting can create pressure on children.

-Going several "levels deep with 'why' questions leads to deeper insights.

-Engaging with your child's perspective is valuable.

-Self-awareness enhances parenting effectiveness.

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