Episodes

  • You Are More Than What You Know

    You Are More Than What You Know
    Feb 24 2026
    Episode 85: You Are More Than What You Know

    What if the thing you think makes you valuable as a leader is actually holding you back? In this episode, David and William challenge the belief that great leaders must be the smartest person in the room—and explore what becomes possible when you let go of being the expert and step into being a coach. If you’ve ever felt pressure to know everything, this conversation might just change how you lead. The discussion goes beyond leadership tactics into identity, vertical development, and what happens when achievement, knowledge, and “having the answer” are no longer the foundation of self-worth. The result is a powerful invitation to rethink leadership—not as knowing more, but as creating space for others to bring their best thinking forward.

    Key Topics:

    1. Being “the expert” can quietly limit your leadership When leaders tie their identity to what they know, they often shut down collaboration, create fear around not knowing, and unintentionally center themselves instead of the team. Leadership effectiveness drops when knowledge becomes ego rather than a shared resource.

     2. Your job as a leader is not to have the answers Great leaders focus on asking better questions, facilitating conversations, and drawing out the knowledge already present in the room. Leadership is less about solving problems yourself and more about helping others solve them.

    3. Coaching unlocks ownership, speed, and better results The CFO story illustrates how shifting from subject‑matter expert to coach led to massive improvements—from shortening financial close cycles to exceeding sales goals—by empowering teams to think and act independently.

    4. Discomfort with “I don’t know” is an identity signal If not knowing an answer triggers fear, embarrassment, or self‑judgment, it’s often a sign that worth and identity are tied to knowledge. Recognizing this reaction is a powerful first step toward growth.

    5. Leadership development is also identity development The episode connects leadership growth to vertical development—moving from expert and achiever mindsets toward deeper self-awareness, authenticity, and purpose. Real influence comes from who you are being, not just what you know or achieve.
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    50 mins
  • Where Coaching Goes Wrong with Charlotte Jordan

    Where Coaching Goes Wrong with Charlotte Jordan
    Feb 17 2026
    What if the biggest barriers to coaching weren’t tools or talent — but clarity, trust, and courage? In this episode of Owlcast, David and William sit down with Charlotte Jordan, CEO of Coaching.com, to expose the biggest mistakes leaders and organizations make when building coaching cultures — and how to fix them fast. From misusing coaching to “fix” poor performers, to the wild‑west chaos of unstructured coaching programs, to the quiet power of manager‑as‑coach, Charlotte brings a rare 360° view of the coaching world. If you’re a leader, coach, or building a coaching culture, this conversation will change how you think about developing people.

    Key Topics:

    · Coaching fails inside organizations when there’s no clarity.
    Coaching becomes ineffective when companies aren’t explicit about what coaching is, what it is not, and what it should be used for. When organizations treat coaching as a catch‑all solution, it turns into a solution for nothing.

    · Using coaching to “fix underperformers” is a major pitfall.
    Charlotte calls out that many organizations put poor performers into coaching long after the decision has already been made to exit them. This turns coaching into a checkbox exercise rather than genuine development — and destroys trust.

    · Coaching cultures fail without aligned leadership.
    A sustainable coaching culture must include manager skill‑building, executive sponsorship, and clear modeling of coaching‑like behaviors. Visibility + credibility = sustainability.

    · Managers need coaching skills, not coach labels.
    The false divide between “manager” and “coach” keeps organizations stuck. Coaching is not a title — it’s a set of behaviors. Great leaders ask: “What are you working on, and how can I help?”

    · Decentralized, Wild‑West coaching creates chaos.
    Charlotte warns that unorganized coaching efforts across departments dilute definitions, confuse employees, and prevent impact measurement. Without structure, teams can’t tell what’s working — or if coaching works at all.

    · Measurement matters — even in early stages.
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    58 mins
  • Managing vs. Coaching: Stop managing tasks, start growing talent

    Managing vs. Coaching: Stop managing tasks, start growing talent
    Feb 10 2026
    Are you eliciting the best or the worst from your team? Most leaders fall into the trap of the "Manager Mindset"—focusing on control, task deadlines, and providing all the answers. In this episode of OWLCAST, David Morelli and William Oakley explore the profound shift from managing tasks to coaching talent. By understanding that your team's performance is a reflection of the environment you create, you can unlock productivity that is 4 to 6 times higher than traditional management results. It's time to stop "managersplaining" and start asking the questions that turn average performers into top talent.

    Key Topics:

    · Environment Elicits Self: Human beings aren't static; we show up differently depending on our environment. A leader's primary job is to set a "container" that invites a person's best self (creative, invested, kind) rather than their reactive self (defensive, disconnected, average).

    · The Control Paradox: Managing is often synonymous with control, but people crave autonomy. Ironically, the more you try to control a process, the more likely you are to stifle the very talent needed to execute it.

    · The Death of "Managersplaining": When you give an answer that an employee already knows, they tune you out. Instead of "spraying" information, use the Educator style to find the "information gap" and help them discover the answer themselves.

    · Who Owns the Problem?: In the Strategist style, the most important question is "Who is doing the problem-solving?" If the leader always provides the solution, the team takes zero risk and has zero accountability.

    · The "Move Across the Country" Test: Transformational leaders impact lives so deeply that their team members would consider uprooting their lives to continue working for them. This level of loyalty is earned through the Transformer style—coaching the person, not just the career ladder.

    · One-Question Coaching: Shifting to a coaching mindset doesn't require a total calendar overhaul. Start by asking just one good coaching question before diving into your regular meeting cadence.
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    1 hr
  • The RESPECT Routine: A Weekly Rhythm for Growth and Alignment

    The RESPECT Routine: A Weekly Rhythm for Growth and Alignment
    Feb 3 2026
    Are you crushing the week, or is the week crushing you? Many high-performers suffer from the "Sunday Scaries," feeling like their schedule is a chaotic force beyond their control. In this episode of OWLCAST, David Morelli and William Oakley introduce "The RESPECT Routine"—a 10-minute mental framework designed to help you reclaim ownership of your time. By applying the seven RESPECT styles to your own life as a pre-week and post-week reflection, you can transform a repetitive grind into a series of intentional "wins" and continuous personal discovery.

    Key Topics:

    · The "10x Effect" of Planning: Citing efficiency expert Brian Tracy, the hosts note that every 1 minute spent planning saves 10 minutes in execution. A 10-minute routine can net you 90 minutes of reclaimed time.

    · The Power of the Pause: New brain synapses and creative insights occur during the "pause" between activities. Taking the time to think deeply provides a "ROI on tuition" (learning from expensive or time-consuming mistakes).

    · Ownership vs. Dreadlines: Moving from "I need to" to "I am going to" shifts your mindset from meeting external standards to exercising internal control, reducing "Sunday Scaries."

    · Retrospective Depth: For those who naturally look out the "windshield" (the future), the post-week routine provides "deeper roots," ensuring lessons stick rather than being repeated over and over.

    · Versatile Application: This routine isn't just for individuals; it can be used as a dinner table conversation with children to build emotional intelligence or as a team icebreaker to boost morale and performance.
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    47 mins
  • Feedback with RESPECT. How to Make Feedback Stick, Not Suck

    Feedback with RESPECT. How to Make Feedback Stick, Not Suck
    Jan 27 2026
    It’s a trap! Feedback feels that way sometimes. A trap, a monologue, or various other modes that result in defensiveness and shut-down. In this episode of OWLCAST, David Morelli and William Oakley break down why traditional feedback (like the dreaded "feedback sandwich") often fails and introduce the RESPECT model. Derived from doctoral research on world-class coaches, this framework transforms feedback from a "delivery of bad news" into a dynamic conversation anchored in growth, empathy, and mutual goals.

    Key Topics:

    · The "Spirit" of Feedback: Feedback should be a two-way conversation aimed at behavior change or perspective shifts, not a one-sided monologue or a documentation of failure.

    · Context is King: People are highly receptive to feedback when it is clearly connected to something they care about (e.g., a promotion, a personal goal, or avoiding future frustration).

    · The Coachability ROI: Being able to receive feedback "like a champion" leads to more investment from leaders, better work opportunities, and higher job security.

    · Kill the Inauthentic Sandwich: Avoid the "good-bad-good" sandwich if it feels forced; instead, use the RESPECT styles to add "better ingredients" to your communication.
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    41 mins
  • Execution Insights: How to Be Coachable and Why it Matters

    Execution Insights: How to Be Coachable and Why it Matters
    Jan 13 2026
    In this episode of OWLCAST, hosts David Morelli and William Oakley pull back the curtain on a critical leadership truth: raw talent often takes a backseat to coachability. While many professionals focus solely on honing their technical skills, David reveals that when executives are faced with a promotion decision between a highly skilled but "uncoachable" expert and a less experienced but highly "coachable" learner, they choose the learner every single time. This episode serves as a vital gut-check for anyone looking to break through a career plateau by shifting their mindset from being an "island of expertise" to an "active seeker of growth."

    · Key Topics:

    · The Promotion Differentiator: Skill can be taught, but a lack of coachability is often a permanent roadblock. High-performers who reject feedback are often relegated to individual contributor roles where they can be "contained," while coachable individuals are accelerated into leadership.

    · The Implementation Loop: True coachability isn't just nodding and smiling (which David warns actually breaks trust). It is a three-step process: Absorb (acting like a sponge), Synthesize (connecting new info to what you know), and Circle Back (showing the coach that their investment led to action).

    · A Horticultural View of Growth: Using a pruning analogy, the hosts discuss how growth is often painful. Being coachable means allowing others to "cut away" ineffective habits or parts of your process so that more productive areas can flourish.

    · Choice Over Ability: David argues that coachability isn't an innate personality trait like math aptitude; it is a conscious choice. It requires the humility to accept that you don't have it all figured out and the curiosity to value someone else's perspective as "gold."

    · Hidden Benefits: Beyond promotions, coachable employees receive more leeway, greater independence, more dedicated time with leadership, and a "hedge" against layoffs because managers form an emotional attachment to the success of those they invest in.
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    44 mins
  • Execution Insights: Jim Huling on Leadership, Purpose, and Driving Results

    Execution Insights: Jim Huling on Leadership, Purpose, and Driving Results
    Jan 6 2026
    Jim Huling, best-selling co-author of The Four Disciplines of Execution, joins Owlcast to distill 25 years of execution wisdom. He reveals the biggest mistakes leaders make—from undervaluing execution's difficulty to spreading focus too thin—and shares profound insights on leadership, the inner life of an executive, and the critical need to instill a sense of meaning and purpose in team members. Drawing on his experience as a CIO, CEO, and global consultant, Huling emphasizes that true accountability is a non-punitive system of mutual reliance and support, best exemplified by the rock climbing ritual of being "on belay."

    Key Topics:

    · Execution is Harder than Strategy: Every strategy requires people to consistently apply a different action, meaning they must change their behavior. This behavioral change is the hardest part of execution and is often underestimated.

    · The Whirlwind vs. Focus: Most capacity (estimated at 80%) is already allocated to the "whirlwind"—day-to-day operations. Leaders only have a small percentage left for new initiatives. Dividing this small capacity among multiple goals makes failure nearly inevitable.

    · Identify Leverage (The "How"): Instead of increasing raw activity, focus on the "fewest actions that, if done really well, would have the biggest impact." (e.g., improving a hotel guest's arrival experience boosts all subsequent satisfaction scores).

    · No Involvement, No Commitment: Leaders must help team members understand why a goal matters. Giving people a voice in the process, even if they don't have the final vote, drives commitment over mere compliance.

    · Update the Playbook: Many senior executives fail today because they are still using leadership playbooks that are a "relic" of previous decades. Leaders must show humility and introspection to recalibrate their style for the current workforce.

    · Personal Growth is Required: "Every next level of leadership that you desire requires a next version of you." Leaders must continuously evolve their skills and approach to meet new challenges.
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    1 hr and 8 mins
  • Don’t Fix It: The Power of Letting Your People Struggle

    Don’t Fix It: The Power of Letting Your People Struggle
    Dec 23 2025
    Are you a 'fixer?' If your immediate response to a problem is to deliver a solution, you might be robbing your team of their greatest growth opportunity. On this episode of Owlcast, Dr. David Morelli and William Oakley discuss why your value isn't wrapped up in being the problem-solver. They explore the connection between struggle and growth, the hidden dopamine hit managers receive when fixing problems, and the single question that can revolutionize your team's capability. Learn the power of letting your people struggle—it leads to greater ownership, better metrics, and a lot less on your desk.

    Key Topics:

    • Your Value Isn't in Fixing: The impulse to solve a problem instantly comes from a desire to feel valuable (a personal dopamine hit) but often disengages the employee, who receives only "more work" crafted by the manager.

    • The High Cost of Fixing: Continually solving problems for your team creates learned helplessness and turns the manager into a bottleneck, forcing them to address the same issue multiple times, which is inefficient.

    • Struggle = Growth: Struggle is the professional equivalent of "time under tension" in muscle building. By letting people wrestle with problems and come up with their own solutions, you foster mindset growth, capability, and ownership.

    • Become an Enabler, Not a Fixer: Stop telling people what to do. Use coaching and the Strategist style to help employees solve problems for themselves or in partnership. Managers should ask the questions they would ask themselves (their "question hierarchy") to train their team's problem-solving ability.

    • Adjust the Tension: The appropriate amount of struggle must be adjusted for the individual. Leaders need awareness (of their own biases) and empathy (to understand the employee's current emotional/situational capacity) to prevent overstraining and ensure the struggle remains productive.

    • Recovery is Key to Growth: If you allow struggle, you must also provide a safe place for recovery. Validation, encouragement, and support act as the "recovery drink" after the "workout," helping the employee integrate the struggle into a positive, lasting growth experience.
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    53 mins