Overcoming porn isn’t just about saying “no” harder, installing filters, or trying to white-knuckle your way through temptation. Real freedom comes when you heal the root — the wounds beneath the surface that porn has been covering up.

In this powerful conversation, Coach Frank talks with Drew Boa, founder of Husband Material, pastoral sex addiction professional, podcaster, and author of the new book Outgrow Porn. Drew has walked with thousands of men through their healing journeys and brings a fresh, biblical, and deeply compassionate perspective on what it really takes to outgrow porn.

Coach Frank & Drew dive into topics most men never talk about; sexual fantasies, inner child healing, shame, purity culture, relapse, and what it means to live fully alive as the man God created you to be.

If you’ve ever felt trapped in cycles of guilt and failure, this episode is going to set you free with a new way of thinking about your struggle.

About Drew Boa

Drew Boa is the founder of Husband Material, host of the top-ranked Husband Material Podcast, and a Pastoral Sex Addiction Professional (PSAP). With over a decade of experience, Drew has helped thousands of men worldwide heal from sexual brokenness and reclaim their God-given identity. His new book, Outgrow Porn, blends neuroscience, psychology, and biblical truth to equip men to heal at the deepest level, not through shame and control, but through love, compassion, and Christ-centered transformation.

Connect with Drew:

Website - https://www.husbandmaterial.com/

Retreat - https://www.husbandmaterial.com/retreat

Book (Outgrow Porn) - https://www.drewboa.com/outgrow-porn

Listen to episode 22 of The Super Human Life w/ Drew - https://sites.libsyn.com/188300/ep-22-helping-men-of-god-quit-porn-w-drew-boa

Listen to episode 255 of The Rebuilt Man podcast w/ Drew - https://sites.libsyn.com/495683/how-to-heal-the-inner-child-outgrow-porn-the-coaches-corner-w-drew-boa-ep-255

Key Takeaways From This Episode

• Getting free from porn is like breaking up with a long-term partner; there’s grief, but also new life on the other side.
  
  

• Your sexual fantasies tell a story, and when you understand that story, you unlock the key to healing.
  
  

• Pornography hijacks the brain’s reward system as a “supernormal stimulus.” Recognizing this helps you rewire your brain.
  
  

• Healing the boy within is essential to freeing the man you were created to be.
  
  

• Connection and safety are not optional, they’re vital for breaking free from addiction.
  
  

• Shame is the fuel that keeps men stuck. To heal, you must replace condemnation with curiosity and compassion.
  
  

• Relapse is not failure, it’s feedback. Every slip points to what still needs healing.
  
  

• Drew’s OBC Method (Locate, Love, Lead) offers a framework to guide men in inner child healing.
  
  

• Purity culture often created toxic shame around sexuality. The answer isn’t repression, it’s redemption.
  
  

• Living a Super Human Life means embracing the full spectrum of emotions God designed us to feel.

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