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Oh Shit, Am I a Martyr? he Real Reason You’re Burnt Out, Bitter, and Done Fixing Everyone’s Life

Oh Shit, Am I a Martyr? he Real Reason You’re Burnt Out, Bitter, and Done Fixing Everyone’s Life

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Let’s just call it what it is: martyrdom is the silent killer of alignment. And the worst part? Most people have no idea they’re doing it — because it looks like love, like loyalty, like being a “good person.”

In this episode, we’re diving into the sneaky, subconscious ways the martyr complex shows up in your everyday life — in work, relationships, parenting, and even how you talk to yourself. We’ll get real about the conditioning that taught you to put everyone else first and why constantly giving from an empty tank will never get you the love or peace you’re craving.

If you’re exhausted from being the dependable one, the over-giver, the fixer, or the one who “never asks for anything,” this is your wake-up call.

We’re going all the way in — breaking down what giving from lack actually feels like, what a heart-centered life really means (no fluff), and how to start putting yourself first without guilt. Because alignment doesn’t come from sacrifice. It comes from truth. And it’s time to get radically honest.

Let’s unhook from the story that suffering is noble — and start rewriting the one where your needs matter too.


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