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Muslim Couple Conversations

Muslim Couple Conversations

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White guy marries a Pakistani girl. It's a mess. Or maybe not.Will Islam Spirituality
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  • Muslim scammers, charities and “representation”
    Jul 20 2025

    00:00 – This video is not sponsored by Pirelli

    00:13 – Is more power more better?

    01:30 – The problem with wanting power at any cost

    09:39 – Does representation change anything? Discussing Mo Salah, Zidane, Riz Ahmed, Sadek Hamid, Abbas Zahedi and Hamja Ahsan

    22:49 – Why do people still believe in representation?

    27:22 – How to stay in check: Removing veils and slowing down

    31:05 – Good examples

    31:36 – Amatullah: how a group of young Muslim women organising soup kitchens turned an islamophobic city council into allies

    33:56 – Rabiah Mali and the Rabbani Project: how a bunch of friends are sensibilising Muslims to the environment where big charities have failed

    38:17 – Rumi’s Cave

    40:00 – What can we do? Preventing harm and correcting people: techniquesIdeas about alternative ways of giving zakat

    45:16 - Recap

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    WHO ARE WE?

    William is a Sociology Researcher at the University of Warwick working on Muslim experiences in Europe and North America.Javayria works in Higher Education and has a History degree from SOAS in South Asian History

    REFERENCES:Sadek Hamid’s Academia page:https://oxford.academia.edu/DrSadekHamidAbbas Zahedihttps://abbzah.com/ Hamja AhsanDocumenta Fifteen: https://documenta-fifteen.de/en/lumbung-members-artists/hamja-ahsan/Wikipedia: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hamja_Ahsan Amatullahhttps://amatullah.fr/ Rabbani Project and Pearls of Islamhttps://www.therabbaniproject.com/ https://www.pearlsofislam.co.uk/about-us Rumi’s Cavehttps://www.rumis.org/ Young Muslim Change-Makers: Grassroots Charities Rethinking Modern Societies. London: Routledge, 2017https://www.routledge.com/Young-Muslim-Change-Makers-Grassroots-Charities-Rethinking-Modern-Societies/Barylo/p/book/9781138054158Bulhan, Hussein A. 2015. “Stages of Colonialism in Africa: From Occupation of Land to Occupation of Being,” Journal of Social and Political Psychology, 3(1): 239–56. “Neo-Liberal Not-For-Profits: The Embracing of Corporate Culture in European Muslim Charities,” Journal of Muslim Minority Affairs, Volume 36, number 3, August 2016, pp 383-398My presentation at Zaytuna:Muslims in the West: Embodying the Change – Zaytuna Collegehttps://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BfrCbsJDf-YThe Study about Mo Salah reducing IslamophobiaAlrababa'h, Ala', William Marble, Salma Mousa, and Alexandra A. Siegel. 2019. “Can Exposure to Celebrities Reduce Prejudice? the Effect of Mohamed Salah on Islamophobic Behaviors and Attitudes.” SocArXiv. May 31https://osf.io/preprints/socarxiv/eq8ca/

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    48 mins
  • Don't Chase Validation! Select Friends Using 3 Qualities
    Jul 13 2025

    00:00 – Intro

    00:49 – Being privileged doesn’t make you immune

    02:35 – if you find yourself in an environment in which you beg for validation

    04:30 – Javayria about Code Switching

    06:38 – Using power to include others

    07:40 – Metacolonialism: when code-switching becomes permanent

    12:32 – Extravert vs Intravert

    16:15 – How I got manipulated to give someone £3,000 to be accepted

    18:31 – Confidence vs Arrogance and why arrogance gets people ahead

    20:02 – Blending and staying safe vs being yourself and filtering out people?

    22:01 – What about Muslims working in structures that openly practice racism?

    23:43 – What is considered as “normal” is changing: how IQ became obsolete

    25:28 – People we seek validation from also seek validation, and create harmful spaces

    27:00 - How to tell the difference between someone solid and someone who’s hot air?

    29:55 - Three Cs: Compassion, Critical Thinking and Commitment.

    32:43 - The most beautiful people are those who overcome the most difficult things in life

    36:33 - How not to wake up when you’re 40 and realise you’ve wasted your life

    Subscribe to my newsletter for Live conversations and events near you: https://william-barylo.kit.com/b11fac1fdc

    WHO ARE WE?

    William is a Sociology Researcher at the University of Warwick working on Muslim experiences in Europe and North America.Javayria works in Higher Education and has a History degree from SOAS in South Asian History

    REFERENCESBulhan, Hussein A. 2015. “Stages of Colonialism in Africa: From Occupation of Land to Occupation of Being,” Journal of Social and Political Psychology, 3(1): 239–56.Friedman, Sam, and Daniel Laurison. The Class Ceiling : Why it Pays to be Privileged, Bristol Policy Press, 2019.

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    44 mins
  • How Islam Is Taught in Europe vs Pakistan?
    Jul 6 2025

    00:00 – Intro

    02:07 – How we were taught Islam

    16:27 – Why people leave the religion

    17:22 – Why people are two-faced?

    23:43 – What are the causes of mislearning?

    - South Asian Culture?- Salafism?- British Culture?

    30:14 – What if Islam was taught chronologically?

    35:47 - RecapSubscribe to my newsletter for Live conversations and events near you: https://william-barylo.kit.com/b11fac1fdc WHO ARE WE?

    William is a Sociology Researcher at the University of Warwick working on Muslim experiences in Europe and North America.Javayria works in Higher Education and has a History degree from SOAS in South Asian HistoryREFERENCES

    Hadith about the cathttps://sunnah.com/bukhari:2365

    Moving in and Out of Islam, edited by Karin van Nieuwkerk, University of Texas Press 2018https://utpress.utexas.edu/books/van-nieuwkerk-moving-in-and-out-of-islam

    Young, Muslim and Criminal by Mohammed Qasim, Bristol University Press, 2018https://policy.bristoluniversitypress.co.uk/young-muslim-and-criminal

    MBS about how the funding of mosques and madrassas was seen by the US as a defense against the Russians and Iran during the Cold Warhttps://www.washingtonpost.com/world/national-security/saudi-prince-denies-kushner-is-in-his-pocket/2018/03/22/701a9c9e-2e22-11e8-8688-e053ba58f1e4_story.html

    https://moderndiplomacy.eu/2018/04/19/the-saudi-export-of-ultra-conservatism-in-the-era-of-mbs-an-update/

    https://www.newsclick.in/saudi-crown-prince-america-asked-us-spread-ideology-isis

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    44 mins

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