• 597 - What are Asexuality and Aromanticism (with Patrick Bex)?
    Sep 29 2026

    We're excited to welcome Patrick Bex to the show this week to talk about asexuality and aromanticism! Patrick is an aroace advocate, content creator, and author best known for his Fluently Aspec social media platforms that educate about aromantic and asexual experiences.

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    Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.

    Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by ⁠Josh and Anand⁠

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    53 mins
  • 596 - Relationship OCD and Non-monogamy (with Sheva Rajaee MFT)
    Sep 22 2026

    Today we're diving into the world of OCD, specifically relationship OCD, with Sheva Rajaee.

    Sheva is a licensed marriage and family therapist, director of The Center for Anxiety and OCD, and the author of the book Relationship OCD. She is globally recognized for her work treating and addressing chronic doubt, commitment phobia, and anxiety in romantic relationships.

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    Skillshare is an online learning community with thousands of classes for creators. Everything from graphic design and video editing to photography, writing, and business. Get a free month of Skilllshare at ⁠multiamory.link/skillshare⁠

    Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.

    Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by ⁠Josh and Anand⁠

    Follow us on Instagram ⁠@Multiamory_Podcast⁠ and visit our website ⁠Multiamory.com⁠.

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    56 mins
  • 595 - Does My Metamour Owe Me Their STI Results? - Listener Q&A
    Sep 15 2026

    We've got another Q&A episode this week, and this time we're answering two listener questions about sexual health and STI protocol among non-monogamous partners. Generally speaking, non-monogamous folks have better communication around safer sex and STI risk, but sometimes communication breakdowns happen and that's what we're covering today!

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    Quality lube is essential for good sexual experiences. Try our absolute favorite, ⁠Uberlube⁠ and get 10% off plus free shipping with promo code MULTIAMORY

    Get 10% off sexual health supplements at vb.health with promo code MULTI.

    Whatever you want to learn, MasterClass has something for you, taught by experts in their fields. Support the show and get an exclusive 15% offer at ⁠multiamory.link/masterclass⁠

    Skillshare is an online learning community with thousands of classes for creators. Everything from graphic design and video editing to photography, writing, and business. Get a free month of Skilllshare at ⁠multiamory.link/skillshare⁠

    Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.

    Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by ⁠Josh and Anand⁠

    Follow us on Instagram ⁠@Multiamory_Podcast⁠ and visit our website ⁠Multiamory.com⁠.

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    47 mins
  • 594 - Open Up Your Relationship in X Easy Steps
    Sep 8 2026

    Today we're diving into the internet's favorite genre of relationship advice: open up your relationship in X easy steps! We spent time gathering advice and tips from journalists, therapists, forums, coaches, and Reddit to try to gather some common knowledge and put it together into our own version of a guide to open up a relationship.

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    Skillshare is an online learning community with thousands of classes for creators. Everything from graphic design and video editing to photography, writing, and business. Get a free month of Skilllshare at ⁠multiamory.link/skillshare⁠

    Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.

    Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by ⁠Josh and Anand⁠

    Follow us on Instagram ⁠@Multiamory_Podcast⁠ and visit our website ⁠Multiamory.com⁠.

    We are a proud member of the ⁠Pleasure Podcasts⁠ network.

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    51 mins
  • Summer Break
    Sep 1 2026

    Hey everyone, we’re taking this week off!

    Here's where you can find us (or a version of us) while we're away:

    Hang out in our private Discord community → multiamory.com/join

    Join Dedeker on retreat in Italy → multiamory.com/retreat

    Work with Emily — she has a few open slots for coaching clients right now. Reach out to grab one at multiamory.link/emcoaching

    We'll be back next week with a brand new episode. Thanks for listening, and we'll see you soon!

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    2 mins
  • 593 - The Lost Science of Flirting
    Aug 25 2026

    Today we're diving into the science of flirting! Nowadays, flirting feels harder than it used to be, and we're going to be bringing some of the research to light about why that is. Flirting isn't a lost art, it's actually an invisible one - we only pick up on someone flirting with us about 28% of the time. We're going to discuss what a "no" looks like, why mirroring and the concept of a gaydar doesn't actually hold up, and what actually DOES help, according to the research.

    Join our amazing community of listeners at ⁠multiamory.com/join and get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community!

    Whatever you want to learn, MasterClass has something for you, taught by experts in their fields. Support the show and get an exclusive 15% offer at ⁠multiamory.link/masterclass⁠

    Skillshare is an online learning community with thousands of classes for creators. Everything from graphic design and video editing to photography, writing, and business. Get a free month of Skilllshare at ⁠multiamory.link/skillshare⁠

    Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.

    Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by ⁠Josh and Anand⁠

    Follow us on Instagram ⁠@Multiamory_Podcast⁠ and visit our website ⁠Multiamory.com⁠.

    We are a proud member of the ⁠Pleasure Podcasts⁠ network.

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    1 hr and 8 mins
  • 592 - Intimacy When Sex Is Off the Table - Listener Q&A
    Aug 18 2026

    Today we're tackling another listener question about intimacy that doesn't involve sex. Whether it's a physical reason or just a desire to be intimate without having sex, we all want to connect this way sometimes. We're going to talk about some techniques from sex therapy, the science of great sex, and why non-sexual touch can be so beneficial.

    If you want to have one of your questions answered on a future Q&A episode, consider joining our Supercast community!

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    Whatever you want to learn, MasterClass has something for you, taught by experts in their fields. Support the show and get an exclusive 15% offer at ⁠multiamory.link/masterclass⁠

    Skillshare is an online learning community with thousands of classes for creators. Everything from graphic design and video editing to photography, writing, and business. Get a free month of Skilllshare at ⁠multiamory.link/skillshare⁠

    Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.

    Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by ⁠Josh and Anand⁠

    Follow us on Instagram ⁠@Multiamory_Podcast⁠ and visit our website ⁠Multiamory.com⁠.

    We are a proud member of the ⁠Pleasure Podcasts⁠ network.

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    51 mins
  • 591 - Shift Anxious Attachment with Your Body, Not Your Brain (with Orit Krug)
    Aug 11 2026

    We're excited to welcome Orit Krug back to the show to talk about anxious attachment from a somatic perspective! We'll be discussing relationship anxiety, the research there is on body-based intervention, and a demo on what addressing these anxieties looks like.

    Find more about Orit and her work on her website, follow her on Instagram, access free somatic meditations there, and visit multiamory.com/retreat to learn more about the somatic retreat in Italy that Orit and Dedeker will be co-hosting in September 2026!

    Join our amazing community of listeners at ⁠multiamory.com/join and get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community!

    EVERYONE who signs up to our giveaway will receive a FREE Rose suction toy with their @bellesaco order! bbvibes.com/multiamory #bbpartner

    Get 10% off sexual health supplements at vb.health with promo code MULTI.

    Whatever you want to learn, MasterClass has something for you, taught by experts in their fields. Support the show and get an exclusive 15% offer at ⁠multiamory.link/masterclass⁠

    Skillshare is an online learning community with thousands of classes for creators. Everything from graphic design and video editing to photography, writing, and business. Get a free month of Skilllshare at ⁠multiamory.link/skillshare⁠

    Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.

    Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by ⁠Josh and Anand⁠

    Follow us on Instagram ⁠@Multiamory_Podcast⁠ and visit our website ⁠Multiamory.com⁠.

    We are a proud member of the ⁠Pleasure Podcasts⁠ network.

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    1 hr and 5 mins