• Finding the Right Therapist
    Dec 9 2025

    Dr. Raquel Martin helps a listener navigate the search for a therapist, breaking down how to find a provider who understands your background, goals, and needs.

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    17 mins
  • Being Black, Military, and Raising LGBTQ+ Kids
    Dec 2 2025

    An active-duty soldier opens up about balancing identity, service, and family. Dr. Raquel Martin unpacks what it means to be Black in the military while raising LGBTQ+ kids, and how self-awareness and purpose help maintain connection.

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    17 mins
  • Understanding White Curiosity and Racial Boundaries
    Nov 25 2025

    Dr. Raquel Martin answers a listener's question on the psychology of white curiosity, unpacking how social privilege and racial dynamics shape boundaries and behavior.

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    25 mins
  • Learning to Love After Trauma
    Nov 18 2025

    In this Mailbag episode, Dr. Raquel Martin explains how to build love and connection after growing up unseen, unheard, or unloved, and why self-compassion is the first step.

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    13 mins
  • Grief Isn't Something You Get Over
    Nov 11 2025

    Grief isn't linear, and it's not something you just "get over." Dr. Martin discusses the long arc of grief in Black communities, from personal loss to generational trauma, and how we can make space for its full expression.

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    22 mins
  • The Danger of Pray It Away Culture
    Nov 4 2025

    When religious beliefs are used to silence pain, it's called spiritual bypassing. Dr. Martin discusses how Black faith spaces can hold both healing and harm, and why therapy and faith can coexist.

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    21 mins
  • Black Kids Are Not Little Adults
    Oct 28 2025

    From schools to home life, Black children are often denied the innocence and support others receive. Dr. Martin explores how adultification harms mental health and how reparenting can start the healing process.

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    25 mins
  • Burnout From Performing Blackness
    Oct 21 2025

    What happens when being "Black enough" becomes a performance? Dr. Martin unpacks the mental health cost of masking, code-switching, and respectability politics, and why reclaiming your identity is an act of liberation.

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    25 mins