An old and very valuable African tradition we unintentionally lost, which we are currently heavily paying the price for is youth mentorship.  See! In the African traditional custom, the family which normally went beyond the parents and children, and included aunties and uncles, would gather outside and sit around a fire to share stories. 

The women would normally sit around the fire in the kitchen with their grandmothers, while the elders sat outside, mentoring the young men.  The African Three-legged stool is where as young African women, we were taugh how to sit properly with our legs closed together.  My maternal grandmother used to tell me that the fire would put ugly marks, which she called “Mbala” on my inner thigh.  Truth be told, the only marks I ever got, were here painful pinches whenever I forgot to sit properlywith my legs put together.  To date am very careful how I sit.

The entertainment mainly through the television and social media with all its benefit, has replaced mentorship in many homes. Mentorship has completely been removed from many homes, especially today for the young person who is not really involved in church programs, youth clubs, or professional clubs.  Today many young people are clueless on the many life skills that used to be passed on around a fire in many African homes.  In this series of African Youth in Agribusiness, I hope to share my stories to inspire young people as an African Mother, wife, trader, especially as a woman in technology to cause Africa to think differently especially about Africa’s Agricultural markets and trade.