• Facing The Trickster Archetype – Chaos, Sabotage, and the Shadow Within
    Sep 8 2025

    I dive into the archetype of the Trickster—the part of us that thrives on chaos, sabotage, and disruption, yet also carries the medicine of transformation.

    I explore how the Trickster shows up in mythology, film, and our daily lives, and why learning to embrace him can free us from stagnancy. You’ll discover how to build a relationship with this shadow energy and use it as a source of creativity, humor, and growth.

    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

    00:01 – Introduction to the Trickster Archetype

    02:38 – The Joker as Chaos Embodied

    03:47 – Loki, Hermes, and Bugs Bunny

    05:29 – Chaos as Medicine

    07:29 – The Trickster Breaks Taboos

    10:16 – Growth Through Disruption

    12:02 – The Trickster in Religion and Myth

    14:08 – Denying vs. Embracing the Trickster

    16:54 – Trickster Heroes: Iron Man and Jim Carrey

    19:21 – Recognizing the Trickster Within

    21:44 – Confronting the Inner Saboteur

    23:40 – Why We Need the Trickster Today

    25:08 – Closing Reflections

    ***

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    26 mins
  • Why Quitting Weed is Hard (And A Proven Place To Quit For Good)
    Sep 4 2025

    I break down why quitting weed is so damn hard and the science behind it. From brain rewiring and withdrawal to the skyrocketing potency of today’s cannabis, I explain the real reasons people struggle. I also share a proven step-by-step strategy to help you prepare, manage cravings, and quit for good. If you’ve tried before and slipped back, this roadmap is for you.

    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

    00:00 – Why quitting weed is hard

    01:09 – Reason #1: Brain rewiring

    05:02 – Reason #2: Withdrawal is real

    06:58 – Reason #3: Potency of modern weed

    10:25 – Reason #4: New side effects

    12:42 – Reason #5: Social acceptance & access

    13:45 – Stage 1: Prepare & track usage

    16:56 – Stage 2: Managing withdrawal

    22:13 – Stage 3: Therapy & nervous system support

    24:38 – Step 4: Reward progress

    27:16 – Medical support options

    28:22 – Final thoughts & accountability

    ***

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    Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/

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    30 mins
  • The Labors of Hercules: Ancient Lessons for Today’s Men
    Sep 1 2025

    Connor sits down with storyteller Jameson Olsen to dive into the myth of Hercules and uncover its relevance for modern men. From the legendary labors to the tragedy that shaped his journey, Jameson unpacks how these ancient myths reflect the struggles of responsibility, temptation, betrayal, and redemption men face today.

    They explore the crossroads between vice and virtue, the weight of personal choices, and the timeless lessons hidden in myth. This conversation challenges men to confront their own trials, learn from archetypal stories, and find meaning in bearing the burden of life’s hardships.

    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

    00:00 - Introduction

    00:36 - Retelling ancient stories for modern times

    02:57 - The trials of Hercules and lessons for men

    04:52 - The Choice of Hercules: virtue vs. vice

    08:15 - Modern vices and distractions

    13:13 - Hercules’ origins and fatherless upbringing

    15:43 - Tragedy: Hera’s curse and the loss of family

    20:25 - Redemption through the labors

    22:57 - The Nemean Lion: confronting the impossible

    29:27 - The Hydra: breaking destructive patterns

    40:16 - Cleaning the Augean stables

    44:40 - The mares of Diomedes: consequences of carelessness

    48:42 - Hippolyta’s belt and the gender divide

    54:07 - Bearing the heavy burden of disaster

    58:22 - Redemption, atonement, and moving forward

    01:03:20 - Using stories as mirrors for personal growth

    01:06:05 - Where to find Jameson Olsen

    ***

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    1 hr and 7 mins
  • Why Most Men Are Invisible to Women (And How to Fix It)
    Aug 28 2025

    I dive into why many men feel invisible to women in the dating world and relationships, exploring the concept of sexual marketplace value. I break down the reasons behind this invisibility and share practical steps to stand out, from auditing your personal presentation to building a strong social network. Join me as I discuss how focusing on self-improvement naturally boosts your attractiveness and visibility to women.

    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

    00:00 - Introduction to Male Invisibility

    00:52 - Understanding Sexual Marketplace Value

    03:11 - Why Most Men Are Invisible

    04:43 - The Choice Paradox in Dating

    05:32 - The Storefront Analogy

    07:23 - Importance of Presentation

    09:20 - Value Dynamics for Men and Women

    11:44 - Social Networks and Social Skills

    13:12 - Actionable Steps to Stand Out

    14:41 - Building Scarcity in Interactions

    16:38 - Investing in Long-Term Assets

    19:17 - Improving Physical Presence

    20:38 - Signaling Value, Not Selling

    22:09 - Overcoming Mediocrity

    ***

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    Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/

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    23 mins
  • Becoming the Authority Within : Men’s Work Session
    Aug 25 2025

    Listen to this episode for a raw and powerful conversation about loss, grief, and reclaiming self-trust. Together, we explore how childhood wounds shaped his sense of worth and authority, and what it means to step into becoming the true authority of your own life.

    This is a deeply moving dialogue about forgiveness, healing, and learning to finally trust yourself.


    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

    00:00 Welcome and introduction

    00:49 Confronting grief and loss

    07:10 Childhood trauma and its impact

    14:30 Speaking to his mother

    22:50 Reclaiming voice and feelings

    29:10 Inner child connection

    33:00 Choosing a new authority

    36:28 Owning self-worth and power

    44:12 Reflections on authority and healing

    47:39 Closing thoughts

    ***

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    Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/

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    49 mins
  • The Masculinity Modern Men Have Forgotten
    Aug 21 2025

    I explore the character of Aragorn from The Lord of the Rings as a model of virtuous masculinity. I break down how he embodies the protector, the healer, and the humble king, and what that means for us as men today. Aragorn shows us how strength and gentleness, ambition and humility, can coexist—and why the world needs more of that balance right now.

    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

    00:00 – Introduction

    00:27 – The hands of the king

    03:13 – The protector king

    06:22 – The humility of power

    08:24 – Strength with purpose

    11:11 – Brotherhood and bonds

    13:39 – Magnanimity and greatness

    16:55 – Humility at the Black Gate

    18:26 – Strong and gentle

    19:23 – Redefining greatness

    22:04 – Closing thoughts

    ***

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    23 mins
  • Facing Shame, Finding Strength & Leadership: Men’s Work Session
    Aug 18 2025

    I sit down with Roger for a powerful conversation about intimacy, leadership, and the courage it takes to be fully honest in a relationship. We explore how childhood wounds can carry into adult partnerships, and the work it takes to break free from old cycles of shame and avoidance. Roger opens up with deep vulnerability, and together we unpack what it means to step into responsibility and create real connection.

    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

    00:00 – Opening & Welcome

    00:52 – Roger’s Relationship Struggles

    04:08 – Intimacy & Connection Challenges

    07:56 – The Cycle of Avoidance

    13:29 – Childhood Roots with Mom

    20:05 – Healing the Inner Boy

    28:22 – Facing the Partner with Honesty

    35:30 – Learning to Be Okay with Disappointment

    42:35 – Separating Self from Validation

    47:29 – Commitments for Change

    52:19 – Micro Moments of Leadership

    53:18 – Closing Reflections

    ***

    Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth

    Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/

    Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment

    Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship

    Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance.

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    54 mins
  • Why Your Shadow Self Keeps Destroying Your Love Life (Jungian Philosophy)
    Aug 14 2025

    I dive into how your shadow self might be quietly sabotaging your love life — and what you can do about it. Drawing from Jungian philosophy, I explore why we’re drawn to partners who embody the very traits we’ve disowned in ourselves. I share practical ways to spot your shadow at work in your relationship and how to begin integrating it for deeper connection and intimacy.

    SHOW HIGHLIGHTS

    00:00 Welcome & Jung’s insight on fate

    00:50 Your shadow’s hidden intelligence

    02:37 What is the shadow?

    04:20 How to know when your shadow is active

    07:13 The nice guy/people pleaser dynamic

    09:18 Nature abhors a vacuum in relationships

    11:57 Relationships as mirrors for self-reclamation

    14:17 Steps to integrate your shadow

    15:19 Closing thoughts & final Jung quote

    ***

    Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worth

    Pick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/

    Heard about attachment but don’t know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To Attachment

    Check out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your Relationship

    Build brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance.

    Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they’re looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | Spotify

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    17 mins