WELCOME BACK TO ANOTHER EPISODE OF MAN VS MARRIAGE!

Where do you start when change feels overwhelming?

In this episode of the Where Do I Start series, Quincy Moran focuses on Personal Responsibility and introduces the 5R Principle — the framework he used to challenge himself, grow, and take ownership of his attitude, actions, and responses.

This episode is not about blame.

It’s about responsibility.

Personal responsibility begins when you decide your circumstances will not dictate your attitude, and when you stop allowing others to have emotional control over you.

Personal responsibility starts here.

Not with others — with me.

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• What personal responsibility actually means
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• Why attitude matters more than circumstances
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• The decision to focus on what you can affect
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• Why being the example matters
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• The 5R Principle: Reliable, Resourceful, Resilient, Relentless, Remarkable
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Reliable

Being dependable, consistent, and trustworthy in word and action — especially when it’s inconvenient.

Resourceful

Finding solutions instead of excuses. Using what you have, where you are.

Resilient

Enduring difficulty, recovering from setbacks, and continuing forward without quitting.

Relentless

Committing to the work repeatedly, even when progress feels slow or unseen.

Remarkable

Living with character, discipline, and ownership — consistency that leaves an impact.

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• “I didn’t want my circumstances to dictate my attitude.”
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• “I didn’t want others having emotional control over me.”
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• “I committed to focusing on what I can affect.”
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• “I’ve been taught the best advice you can give is to be the example.”

WELCOME BACK TO ANOTHER EPISODE OF MAN VS MARRAIGE

This week we continue with our Man vs Marriage — “Where Do I Start?” Series

Anything meaningful takes time — and that’s a good thing.

If it came quickly, it would never have the power to transform you.

You’ve heard me say it before:

When you don’t know what to do, do what you know — and what you know are the tools we provide you every single week.

Those tools are intentionally and practically illustrated throughout this entire “Where Do I Start” series.

This journey isn’t a sprint.

It’s not a $19.99, 30-day, money-back-guarantee sham job.

This is a purpose-driven, transformational journey where you design and build the life and marriage you truly want.

In this episode, we tackle the big question:

“How long will this take?”

We break down how timelines actually work, why consistency matters more than motivation, and how intentionality drives lasting results.

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• Intentionality is a primary key.
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• Commitment to consistency — especially when you don’t feel like it — is mandatory.
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• Defining a timeline for change matters, but only as a framework, not a deadline.
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• The standard of excellence, when pursued at its truest point, is transformative.
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• The ripple effect is real: your change influences everything and everyone around you.
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Imagine your life as a movie or a book.

Step outside yourself and watch the main character — YOU — move through the story.

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• You know what the main character wants.
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• Ask: Does this choice move them closer to their goal?
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• If they keep making the same choices they’re making now… what story does that create?
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• What path must the character define?
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• What choices align with that path?
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This tool reveals your next steps with clarity and honesty.

Why do we care so much — even without knowing you personally?

Because we used to be you.

That uniquely qualifies us to share our journey, offer the tools that changed our lives, and show you what is possible.

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• Ep 367 — Where Do I Start?
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• https://player.captivate.fm/episode/e80195a9-e052-4349-a5f2-3304f0dcb4bf
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• Ep 368 — Who Do I Want to Be?
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• https://player.captivate.fm/episode/d3d62044-d9e3-49e9-a5d6-64c47c073ebf
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• Ep 370 — What Do You Want?
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• https://player.captivate.fm/episode/85610dc7-8daa-4b8b-9912-2634971d1b9e
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• Ep 371 — How Does This Work?
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• https://player.captivate.fm/episode/79927215-1b9b-442b-9fc5-794ec790ffdf
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Quincy...

WELCOME BACK TO ANOTHER EPISODE OF MAN VS MARRIAGE!

This week, we lock in the foundation of the Where Do I Start series — Episodes 1 through 4 — and challenge you with the true non-negotiable for success in life and marriage: Are You All In?

This series is not closing — it’s just getting started.

Here’s your quick guide to the journey so far:

📌 Episode 367 — Where Do I Start

https://player.captivate.fm/episode/e80195a9-e052-4349-a5f2-3304f0dcb4bf

📌 Episode 368 — Who Do I Want To Be?

https://player.captivate.fm/episode/d3d62044-d9e3-49e9-a5d6-64c47c073ebf

📌 Episode 370 — The Culmination Episode

https://player.captivate.fm/episode/85610dc7-8daa-4b8b-9912-2634971d1b9e

📌 Episode 371 — Are You All In?

https://player.captivate.fm/episode/79927215-1b9b-442b-9fc5-794ec790ffdf

Quincy shares real-life moments where he wasn’t fully committed — moments where his words and actions didn’t match — and what those seasons cost him as a husband, father, and leader.

If you’ve felt stuck in cycles of starting, stopping, and restarting… this episode will show you why.

This conversation challenges you to align your actions with your intentions and become the man your family deserves.

PLUS — Quincy unveils a brand-new personal development tool:

A transformative framework showing how every decision creates waves of impact across your marriage, your children, your mindset, and your legacy.

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This episode isn’t a recap… it’s the key to victory.

This week on Man vs Marriage, we take a strategic, calculated look at the first three episodes of our new series “Where Do I Start?”

Instead of rehashing content, we uncover the core structure that ties Episodes 1–3 together—the methodical blueprint for building:

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• The Man you were created to be
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• The Marriage you always envisioned
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• The Life you promised on the day you said “I do.”
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In this episode, Quincy reveals one of the most impactful tools we’ve ever shared on this show—

a tool 15 years in the making—brought to life through an emotional, powerful moment between Jeanne and Quincy.

We connect the dots between:

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• Where Do I Start?
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• Who Do You Want to Be?
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• What Do You Want to Build?
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This episode gives men a practical path forward—

no fluff, no theory—

just clarity, direction, and the power to rebuild yourself and your marriage from the inside out.

If you’ve felt stuck… overwhelmed… or unsure where to begin,

this is your starting point.

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Marriage = Rebuilding Us — “Where To Start” Episode 3: What Do You Want?

Welcome back to another episode of Man vs Marriage!

In this episode, we broaden your horizon as you begin to build the framework for rebuilding your relationship. We’ve given you Episode One and a Bonus Episode loaded with exercises designed to get you to this moment in time — learning how to define what you truly want.

The exercise in this episode changed my life in a major way — and if you’re willing to do the work, I have great confidence it can change yours too.

👉 Start here:

🎧 Episode 1: Marriage — Where Do I Start?

🎧 Bonus Episode: Rebuilding You — Focus and Gratitude Exercises

1. Learn the tools for discovering what you want in life and marriage.
2. Identify where and why you tend to be stuck where you are.
3. Prepare to stand back and look at the bigger picture as this journey becomes more and more clear.

📣 Call to Action

If this episode brought you value — like, follow, and share Man vs Marriage with a friend who’s ready to build the marriage they’ve always wanted.

Your support helps this community of men grow stronger together.

📬 Contact:

Quincy Moran

📧 quincy@manvsmarriagepodcast.com

🌐 www.manvsmarriagepodcast.com

https://youtu.be/H4lnfI3xJzQ

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Welcome back to another episode of Man vs Marriage!

### 🎧 BONUS EPISODE — *Marriage: Where Do I Start?*

Homework Follow-Up

This bonus episode is a direct follow-up to our November 3rd release, *“Marriage — Where Do I Start?”* If you listened to that episode, you know we didn’t just talk about change — we challenged you to *take action.*

Today, we’re walking through your homework and showing you how to put it into practice so you can build real connection and momentum in your marriage.

💪 **Your Homework This Week:**

1. **Focus on what you can affect** — your **attitude**, **effort**, and **actions**. These are the daily keys that shape your marriage.

2. **Observe your inner dialogue.** What do you say to yourself when challenges arise or when you and your spouse have hard conversations? Ask yourself honestly:

* Am I punishing my spouse on purpose?

* Am I hurting them emotionally on purpose?

3. **The Gratitude Exercise:** For **7 days**, speak out loud **one thing you’re grateful for** each day. Words have power — use them to build connection.

4. **Reality Check Exercise:** Finish this sentence: *“At this point in my life, I am here... vs. I thought I would be here...”* Reflect on what that means and what you can do next.

These small, intentional steps will create real movement — not just in your relationship, but in *you.*

🎙️ **Listen. Reflect. Apply.**

💬 **Share your results:** [Quincy@manvsmarriagepodcast.com](mailto:Quincy@manvsmarriagepodcast.com)

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❤️ **If this episode brought you value — help us spread the word.**

👉 Like, follow, and share **Man vs Marriage** with someone who needs to hear this message. Your support helps us reach more couples who are ready to rebuild, reconnect, and rise together.

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Welcome back to another episode of Man vs Marriage!

One of our most downloaded series ever is “Where Do I Start?” — and there’s a reason it hits home for so many. Jeanne and I know that question all too well.

At about 10 years into our marriage — with 8 kids running around — we hit a breaking point. We were tired, disconnected, and just surviving. We weren’t communicating, we felt alone, misunderstood, and disappointed in what our marriage had become.

Maybe that sounds familiar to where you are today.

You might be thinking, “Of course I want to fix my marriage — that’s obvious. But honestly… I just don’t know where to start.”

We get it. We’ve been there.

In this episode, Jeanne and I are giving you simple direction and a few practical tools to help you take that first real step toward healing and reconnection — even if you’ve tried before and it didn’t seem to work.

There is hope for your marriage. Let’s find it together.

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• Answers to the question "How Can I fix my Spouse"?
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• Does my wife know where to start in fixing our marriage ?
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• One of the MOST important factors in finding where I can begin to make a difference
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• Encouragement for those who feel like they’ve tried it all
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If this episode speaks to you, don’t stop here — hit subscribe, share this episode with your spouse, and start the conversation.

Visit manvsmarriagepodcast.com for more tools, videos, and real conversations that can help you transform your marriage.

And remember: you’re not alone in this. Every great comeback starts with one simple step — deciding to begin.

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