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Love After Loss: Becky and Matt’s Story

Love After Loss: Becky and Matt’s Story

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In this week's episode, I'm joined by Becky and Matt, a couple brave enough to share their story of finding love after loss.

Becky became a widow when her husband Steve died suddenly while they were on holiday. Steve's unexpected death left Becky heartbroken but determined not to let grief define her forever. Nearly two years later, she found herself ready to explore what came next, including the possibility of love again.

This episode is a lovely, thoughtful, and open conversation about the complexities of dating as a widow, and the courage it takes to open your heart again. Becky and Matt share their journey from a dating app match to moving in together, navigating everything from children's reactions to in-laws' acceptance. It's a story about resilience, hope, and the truth that love - even after devastating loss - is always worth the risk.

In this episode we talk about:

  • How Becky found her way from heartbreak to healing after Steve's sudden death
  • The moment she knew she was ready to date again - and why it felt like the right time
  • Practical wisdom about online dating as a widow, from profile tips to handling rejection
  • How Matt approached dating someone who had been widowed, and what he learned
  • The importance of keeping your deceased partner real - not putting them on a pedestal
  • How they navigated introducing children, meeting in-laws, and creating space for everyone
  • Why Matt chose to move into Becky's home, and what that gesture means
  • How grief and new love can coexist beautifully - "I am who I am because of Steve"
  • The gift of experiencing two great loves in one lifetime

Resources and Links

Join the Widows Membership: karensutton.co.uk/the-widow-membership

Explore my retreats and coaching: karensutton.co.uk

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