Episodes

  • THE ADHD PARTNER SURVIVAL GUIDE: 10 hacks for a happier relationship

    THE ADHD PARTNER SURVIVAL GUIDE: 10 hacks for a happier relationship
    Sep 10 2025
    Being in love with an ADHDer is equal parts chaos, comedy, and connection. In this episode of LATE BLOOMERS, Rich and Rox dive into The ADHD Partner Survival Guide: 10 strategies for a happier relationship.

    From time blindness to forgotten anniversaries, we share the hacks that have saved our sanity (and our marriage). Expect raw honesty, plenty of laughter, and a few “oh my god, that’s us” moments along the way.

    Whether you’re the ADHDer, the long-suffering partner, or both, this episode will help you feel seen — and maybe even a little more hopeful about love in the madness.

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    31 mins
  • MENTAL HEALTH 101: What “well” actually looks like (and how we measure up)

    MENTAL HEALTH 101: What “well” actually looks like (and how we measure up)
    Sep 3 2025
    Ever wonder if your brain’s thriving or just surviving? In this episode of LATE BLOOMERS, Rox and Rich dive into Nancy McWilliams’ 10 qualities of mental health and grade their own messy minds. From secure attachment to zest for life, nothing’s off limits as they swap stories of Rox’s chaotic boozy uni days and Rich’s deer-in-headlights youth.


    Their scores? A wild mix of wins and “still growing.” Rox finds safety with Rich but still wrestles with self-esteem, while Rich loves their purpose-driven life but questions his grit when things crumble. Along the way they tackle why ADHDers and neurodivergents often feel “less than,” and how therapy, love, and environment can change the soil you’re planted in.


    Raw, funny, and painfully relatable, this episode isn’t a perfect checklist—it’s a no-shame checkup. If you’ve ever wondered “Am I actually okay, or just really good at faking it?” this one’s for you.

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    33 mins
  • THE LAZY LIE: Is it laziness or ADHD? How to spot the difference

    THE LAZY LIE: Is it laziness or ADHD? How to spot the difference
    Aug 26 2025
    Is laziness real, or is it one of the biggest lies told about ADHD? In this episode of LATE BLOOMERS, Rich and Rox tackle the “lazy lie” head-on. They explore why being called lazy never motivates anyone, and why shame only fuels procrastination, anxiety, and self-doubt instead of getting things done.

    From homework left to the last minute, uni rooms infested with flies, and dodged coffee duties, they swap hilarious and raw stories that show how “lazy” is almost never the truth. With banter, and brutal honesty, they pull apart the difference between actual laziness (vibing on your phone while someone else makes the coffee) and executive dysfunction: the invisible ADHD struggle that looks like laziness but feels like quicksand.

    If you’ve ever called yourself lazy, or been crushed under the weight of that label, this episode is for you.
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    27 mins
  • ANTI-SOCIAL BUTTERFLY: The neurodivergent urge to never leave the house

    ANTI-SOCIAL BUTTERFLY: The neurodivergent urge to never leave the house
    Aug 20 2025
    Welcome to LATE BLOOMERS, where Rox and Rich get real about being anti-social butterflies and navigating social life with neurodivergent brains. Rox shares ADHD chaos like double-booking disasters, missing weddings, and the social anxiety that often keeps them home.

    Rich admits to dodging small talk, pulling Irish Goodbyes, and choosing the dog over most invites unless it’s Green Day. Together they explore the exhaustion of parties that feel like performances, the guilt of cancelling plans, and why home feels like the safest place.

    If you have ever cheered when plans fell through or left a gathering completely drained, this episode is for you.

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    30 mins
  • HEALING HURTS: The hidden heartbreak of leaving your old self behind

    HEALING HURTS: The hidden heartbreak of leaving your old self behind
    Aug 12 2025
    In this honest and unfiltered episode of LATE BLOOMERS, Rich and Rox share the side of healing no one talks about—the part where it feels lonely, awkward, and nothing in your old life fits anymore.

    Sobriety meant losing friends who only knew them as drinkers. Changing priorities meant some family relationships shifted or ended. Even work and identity had to be rebuilt from scratch.

    They talk about the grief of outgrowing people you thought would be in your life forever, and how clarity can make old dynamics impossible to return to. But they also share the small wins, the peace, and the self-respect that come with sticking it out.

    If you’re in the messy middle of getting better, this episode is a reminder that the loneliness won’t last—but the growth will.
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    28 mins
  • NEUROTYPICAL NONSENSE: Unmasking the madness of normal

    NEUROTYPICAL NONSENSE: Unmasking the madness of normal
    Aug 6 2025
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    What even is normal? In this hilarious and heartfelt episode, Rox and Rich dive into the absurd, confusing, and often unspoken rules of neurotypical behaviour.

    They unpack why some people relax by drinking in loud bars, the strange obsession with small talk, and the exhausting pressure to follow a rigid life roadmap. Rich questions the morality assigned to messiness, and Rox explains why “fitting in” always came at the cost of authenticity. They break down social hierarchies, unspoken rules, and why direct communication often feels like rebellion.

    If you’ve ever felt like you missed the memo on how to be “normal,” this episode will make you feel seen — and probably make you laugh.
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    29 mins
  • ADDICTED TO EVERYTHING: How addiction starts, why it sticks, and how to let go

    ADDICTED TO EVERYTHING: How addiction starts, why it sticks, and how to let go
    Jul 30 2025
    In this episode of LATE BLOOMERS, Rich and Rox dive into the messy reality of addiction—far beyond the stereotypes of vodka bottles and rock bottoms. From alcohol and gambling to phone scrolling, comfort eating, and chasing validation, we explore the many ways addiction hides in plain sight.

    We talk openly about our own experiences with compulsive behaviors, the childhood trauma that fed them, and the shame that kept them alive. We unpack why it’s so hard to stop: the relief it brings, the shame it creates, and the terrifying thought of life without it.

    We also share what actually helped us heal. From the moment we admitted there was a problem, to the small, brave steps that pulled us out of the cycle—one day at a time. This episode isn’t just about sobriety; it’s about self-understanding, compassion, and change.

    If you’ve ever wondered, why can’t I stop doing this thing I hate?—this one’s for you.
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    30 mins
  • ADHD HACKS: Strategies that work with your brain, not against it

    ADHD HACKS: Strategies that work with your brain, not against it
    Jul 23 2025
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    We’ve tried every productivity system out there — and most of them made us feel worse. So in this episode of LATE BLOOMERS, Rich and Rox share the ADHD hacks that actually helped. No shame, no pressure — just real strategies that work with your brain, not against it.

    From “the 300 second rule” to “lesser-of-two-evils,” these are the weird little tricks that finally made a difference in our day-to-day lives. I

    f you’ve ever felt like a broken human in a productivity-obsessed world, this one’s for you. Expect honesty, laughter, and 8 practical tools to try today.
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    30 mins