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Killing It in Public. Collapsing in Private?

Killing It in Public. Collapsing in Private?

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Are you chasing success while quietly falling apart behind closed doors?

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In this raw and transformational episode of Unlocking Greatness, Ryan confronts a painful but powerful truth: too many high-performing men are admired in public yet crumbling in private. If you're winning in business but losing in your marriage, family, or faith, this conversation will hit home.

You’ll discover:

  • Why image is easy, but integrity is hard
  • How public success can mask deep private disconnection
  • The danger of outsourcing your worth to performance metrics
  • Why your wife and kids are the real scoreboard
  • Three daily habits to help you realign with who God created you to be

Ryan also shares personal stories from seasons of deep misalignment—where outward success came at the cost of internal peace. He outlines how the Closing the GAP framework helps men live aligned rather than admired, offering a redemptive path forward.

Three practical steps to apply today:

  • Grounded in Faith: Start each day in Scripture
  • Authentic in Action: Intentionally compliment your wife
  • Purposeful in Pursuit: Put your phone away and be present at dinner

If you've been performing publicly and avoiding truth privately, it’s time to close the gap and lead from a place of wholeness.

And check out the links below to learn more about how we can help you achieve greatness.

Take the Five Pillars of Greatness Assessment Today - https://coach.ryanjamesmiller.com/the-five-pillars-assessment

Become a Man of Greatness by downloading our workbook - https://coach.ryanjamesmiller.com/men-of-greatness-workbook

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