Episodes

  • Pilot (Audio Enhanced)

    Pilot (Audio Enhanced)
    Dec 14 2022

    This is the pilot episode of the podcast. But I enhanced the audio using Adobe's new AI audio enhancer. I think it did a really good job.

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    15 mins
  • 2021 Reflections

    2021 Reflections
    Dec 29 2021
    2021 - The year that was; the best of times and the worst of times. As we close out the year and the season, we thought to reflect on the past year: the wins, losses, joys and sorrows. Grateful to have made it out alive. We hope you'll take some time to reflect too, and be grateful for the pockets of sunshine through the stormy year. Wishing you a Happy 2022!
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    28 mins
  • Decide, Don't Slide

    Decide, Don't Slide
    Nov 15 2021
    Ever found yourself in a situation and wondered how you even got there? Ever noticed how often we just slide and glide through life, going through the motions, going with the flow? Think of the satisfaction that could come from being intentional and deciding the course your life takes, and not allowing it to just happen to you? This week we talk about being active and willing participants in our lives. Taking control and making decisions about the life we want, and not just sliding through it.
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    27 mins
  • Staying Compatible by Staying Yourself

    Staying Compatible by Staying Yourself
    Nov 10 2021
    Sometimes in relationships, we can lose ourselves over time and before we know it, the person we were before we fell in love is completely gone, and in essence, the person our partner fell in love with is gone too. This week we talk about how to be in a relationship and not lose yourself; how to be part of a "we" without losing "me".
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    27 mins
  • Submission ≠ Subservience

    Submission ≠ Subservience
    Oct 14 2021

    A round (well square) table discussion with our friends, Sipho and Thando Hobane, a young married couple like us, on the rather controversial topic of submission. What is it? Does it mean losing one's self? Is it unconditional or earned? Is it a thing in the 21st century?
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    40 mins
  • Vulnerability - baring one's soul!

    Vulnerability - baring one's soul!
    Sep 29 2021
    In this episode, we talk about vulnerability - baring one's soul to another, at the risk of being hurt, but in the hopes that we won't be. We review how we (often subconsciously) fail at it, and the reasons why, from personal experience. Our overall lesson is that we should do better at making ourselves vulnerable to the people we love, because vulnerability is the gateway to true companionship!
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    26 mins
  • Marriage: Expectations vs. Reality (our experience)

    Marriage: Expectations vs. Reality (our experience)
    Sep 23 2021
    When we look forward to marriage, we all build up these expectations about what it's going to look like, what the date nights will be like and the long weekends. Unfortunately, sometimes expectations don't become reality. In this episode, we chat about a few of our individual expectations that didn't necessarily become reality. Enjoy!
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    31 mins
  • You can't 'FIX' people!

    You can't 'FIX' people!
    Sep 14 2021

    We've all looked at someone and thought, "I know exactly what they need, I know just how to fix them!". But do we? Can we fix people? Sadly, the answer is no. We can inspire, educate and support them towards change, but we humans simply cannot fix people.
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    22 mins