• Your Body Speaks First
    Dec 20 2025

    Your body speaks first — long before burnout or exhaustion ever appear. This episode explores why women override their earliest signals and how to reconnect with your body’s truth, intuition, and inner wisdom.

    If you’ve been pushing through, this conversation will feel like a homecoming.

    Related Episode:Episode 19 — Your Body Knows Before Your Mind Admits It.

    #self-trust #women’sintuition #midlife transformation #embodiment #emotionalwellbeing #people-pleasingrecovery #journeytoself

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    Book your “Awaken the Shift” session and let’s get you one step closer to clarity, confidence, and that soul-deep YES.🔗 https://thesandybartlett.com/awakentheshiftOne shift can change everything.

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    00:00 Introduction: Listening to Your Body

    00:36 Welcome to Journey to Self

    01:04 The Sacred Temple: A Call to Return

    03:08 A Personal Story of Saying No

    04:52 Recognizing and Setting Boundaries

    05:28 Empowerment and Reflection

    06:42 Invitation to Join the Community

    07:27 Conclusion: Be True to Yourself



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  • The Power of a Simple “No”
    Dec 13 2025

    There comes a moment where your body tells the truth long before your words do.If you’ve ever said “no” and felt your chest tighten, your throat close, or your guilt rush in…today’s episode will meet you there.

    This one is about reclaiming the voice you learned to hide.

    Your “no” doesn’t need a reason.It needs respect.

    As you listen, notice the places where your body whispers,“I don’t want to explain myself anymore.”

    If you’re ready to practice saying no without shrinking or spiraling,Journey to Self: The Awakening is open — free for the first 50 women or until January 15, 2026.Everyone who joins now will be grandfathered into the Premium tier.

    Check it out HERE

    Until next time, be true to you.



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  • Breaking the Default Caretaker Pattern
    Dec 6 2025

    If you’ve spent years being the one who keeps everything running, today’s episode will feel like a deep exhale.We’re talking about what really happens when you become the “default caretaker”, not by choice, but by habit, conditioning, and everyone else depending on your consistency.This is the moment you finally notice the weight you’ve been carrying… and the first sign that something in you is ready to shift.You don’t have to hold it all.And you don’t have to disappear inside responsibility to be valued.

    #peoplepleasingrecovery #defaultcaretaker #womenselfworth #midlifewomenhealing #emotionallabor #mentalload #boundariesforwomen #stoppeoplepleasing #selftrustjourney #identityshift #healingforwomen #peoplepleaser #peoplepleasersupport #chooseyourselffirst

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    00:00 Introduction: The Invisible Weight

    00:33 Meet Sandy Bartlett

    00:56 The Loving Woman Oracle Card

    01:46 Embracing Support and Care

    02:28 Shifting Relationships and Self-Care

    03:33 Personal Reflection: The Default Caretaker

    04:47 Breaking the Caretaker Pattern

    05:53 Empowerment Actions and Membership Invitation

    06:58 Conclusion: Your Voice is Rising



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    7 mins
  • People-Pleasers Don’t Rest — They Recover
    Nov 25 2025
    I used to think exhaustion meant I was doing enough. That being tired was proof I was dependable. But eventually, my body made the decision for me. It stopped cooperating.In this episode, I share what recovery really looks like when you stop pushing and start listening to your body’s truth. It’s not about fixing yourself; it’s about finally feeling yourself.✨ If your body’s whispering for rest and you’re ready to learn how to actually listen, come sit with me inside Journey to Self: The Awakening. It’s where women like us learn to rest without guilt, speak without apology, and live in a rhythm that feels true.Journey to Self: The Awakening Membership: https://www.skool.com/journey-to-self...Take the People Pleasing Persona Quiz: https://thesandybartlett.com/peoplepl...Support the channel and never miss another episode or video. / @sandybartlettcoaching Get your free AI coach - Gutsy Gertie - to help you with people pleasing.https://thesandybartlett.com/gutsy-ge...Book your “Awaken the Shift” session and let’s get you one step closer to clarity, confidence, and that soul-deep YES.🔗 https://thesandybartlett.com/awakenth...One shift can change everything.Mailing List: https://thesandybartlett.com/mailinglistSecond Spring Awakening Coaching Program: https://thesandybartlett.com/secondsp...00:00 Introduction: The Weight of Expectations00:23 Meet Your Host: Sandy Bartlett00:43 Exploring the Crash: When Your Body Says Enough00:58 Intuitive Moment: Angels of the Four Directions03:29 Personal Story: The Season of Busy04:16 The True Meaning of Recovery05:19 Inner Reflection: Finding Your Pause06:10 Empowerment Action: Allowing Yourself to Rest06:39 Conclusion: Be True to You This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sandybartlett.substack.com
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    7 mins
  • Authority Addiction: Why People-Pleasers Hand Away Power
    Nov 22 2025

    This episode unpacks how “being agreeable” turns into self-abandonment in the doctor’s office. I share real stories of being dismissed by professionals — and the moment I chose to trust myself instead.If you’re ready to stop outsourcing your power and start hearing your body again, join Journey to Self: The Awakening.

    #journeytoself #SelfTrust #PeoplePleasingRecovery #WomenAndHealth #Boundaries #selfworthinlove

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    Book your “Awaken the Shift” session and let’s get you one step closer to clarity, confidence, and that soul-deep YES.🔗 https://thesandybartlett.com/awakentheshiftOne shift can change everything.

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    00:00 Introduction: The People Pleaser's Dilemma

    00:28 Understanding the Power of Intuition

    01:15 Intuitive Moment: Victim Mentality

    03:11 Personal Story: Trusting Your Inner Voice

    04:39 Reflection and Empowerment

    05:37 Empowerment Action: Reclaiming Your Authority

    06:10 Join the Journey to Self



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    7 mins
  • Episode 48 - What If Your Body’s “Problems” Were Actually Messages
    Nov 15 2025

    What if the signals your body sends aren’t random or inconvenient, but guidance from within?

    In this episode of Journey to Self: Power Beyond People Pleasing, I share how I spent years following expert advice and still felt something was missing. Deep down, I knew my body was trying to tell me something different.

    It wasn’t about pushing harder or fixing anything, it was about learning to listen. Once I began honoring the messages my body sent through sensations, emotions, and intuition, everything started to make sense.

    If you’ve ever second-guessed your inner knowing or dismissed what your body was saying, this conversation will help you rebuild that trust and recognize the wisdom that’s been with you all along.

    #midlifewomen #bodywisdom #selftrust #womensintuition #secondspring #selfdiscovery

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    00:00 Introduction: Listening to Your Body

    00:33 Welcome to Journey to Self Power

    01:02 Intuitive Moment: Planning and Action

    02:03 Understanding Your Body's Messages

    03:32 Inner Reflection: Fixing What Isn't Broken

    04:14 Whispers of Wisdom: Your Body as Your Best Friend

    04:43 Invitation to Deeper Conversations

    05:17 Conclusion: Honoring Your Body's Messages



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    6 mins
  • Why Women Keep Ignoring Their Body’s Wisdom
    Nov 8 2025

    When was the last time you really listened to your body?In this episode of Journey to Self: Power Beyond People Pleasing, I unpack why women are so often dismissed by doctors and how to rebuild self-trust. You’ll hear my personal story of medical dismissal and discover ways to honor your body’s wisdom again.

    ✨ Intuitive Moment: The Healing Light card — a reminder that healing is already within you.🎧 Listen now and begin trusting your body again.

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    #SelfDiscovery #WomenHealing #BodyIntuition #MidlifeAwakening #JourneyToSelf #SecondSpring #TrustYourBody #SandyBartlett #Empowerment #HealingEnergy

    00:00 Introduction: Trusting Your Inner Wisdom

    01:57 Personal Story: Ignored Symptoms

    03:32 The Unlearning: Reclaiming Your Voice

    04:15 Whispers of Wisdom: Listening to Your Body

    04:52 Empowerment Action: Practicing Body Listening

    05:22 Conclusion: Join the Journey to Self



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    6 mins
  • Episode 46 - What Happens When You Set Boundaries in Business?
    Nov 1 2025

    In this bonus episode, Sandy Bartlett sits down with business coach Suzy Wraines, founder of Starting a Business Simplified, for a powerful conversation on how people-pleasing patterns can sabotage new entrepreneurs.

    Together they unpack why so many women overwork, undercharge, and say yes too often and how learning to set boundaries is the secret to sustainable success. You’ll hear real stories from both Sandy and Suzy’s journeys, practical ways to write your own “business policies,” and why boundaries are an act of self-respect, not rejection.

    If you’ve ever felt guilty for slowing down or scared to disappoint a client, this conversation will remind you: your business can grow without self-sacrifice.

    Suzy Wraines is a healing-centered business coach and podcast host who helps medical professionals transition from clinical roles into purpose-driven entrepreneurship. Known for her grounded guidance and spiritual insight, Suzy specializes in supporting nurses, physician assistants, therapists, and holistic healers to start coaching, consulting, and other service-based businesses without second-guessing their worth or doing it all alone.

    🔗 Suzy Wraines – Starting a Business Simplified: https://www.startingabusinesssimplified.com/ Suzy’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/suzywraines/

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    Book your “Awaken the Shift” session and let’s get you one step closer to clarity, confidence, and that soul-deep YES. 🔗 https://thesandybartlett.com/awakentheshift One shift can change everything.

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    36 mins