This week’s mess includes backne, breakups, and body lotion masquerading as soap. Stefani and Ray dive into four gloriously messy AITA questions: the guy who asked his sister-in-law to sunscreen his bacne, the girlfriend who gave her boyfriend the crop treatment (literally), the almost-stalker who let a stranger cry it out, and the man who’s been washing his hands with body lotion for three weeks straight.

After listening to these blunders, one thing will be clear: some people simply shouldn't be trusted with a photo app or a pump bottle. [Summer Garden Spritz w/ La Marca Prosecco]

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Love is hard. Boundaries are harder. And your boyfriend’s about to cry again. This week, the Biffs dive into three emotionally chaotic conundrums: what to do when the dating drought has you questioning if marriage is even in the cards, how to end things with your boyfriend without emotionally wrecking him, and how to draw the line with your dad’s new wife without blowing up the family group chat. Stefani and Ray bring their signature, emotionally honest (and very unlicensed) advice to the romantically bewildered and boundary-confused. [Enrico Serafino Grifo del Quartaro Gavi di Gavi, 2021]

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A psychic says dump him—so should she? This week, the Biffs dive into three very modern meltdowns, from The Independent's Dear Vix Column. trusting tarot over your own intuition, obsessing over your boyfriend’s ex (oops), and losing a friend to her walking red flag of a man. Stefani and Ray bring their signature best-friend banter and wine-fueled wisdom to the mess, offering emotionally honest (and very unlicensed) advice to the romantically bewildered. [Shimmer Francis Coppola Diamond Collection Sauvignon Blanc & Pinot Grigio Blend, 2024]

If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic abuse, you're not alone—and help is available. In the US, The National Domestic Violence Hotline offers free, confidential support 24/7. Call 800-799-SAFE (7233), text START to 88788, or chat online at thehotline.org. For our listeners in the UK, The National Domestic Abuse Helpline offers support for women on 0808 2000 247, or you can visit the Refuge website. There is a dedicated men’s advice line: 0808 8010 327.

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