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Ill Advised with Stefani & Ray

Ill Advised with Stefani & Ray

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Ill Advised with Stefani and Ray is a comedy-advice podcast where friendship meets life’s messiest situations. Each week, the BiFFs dive into classic and modern advice columns — from the sincere & genuine to the unhinged & absurd — and serve up their own brand of thoughtful, unfiltered advice, the way only a best friend could. If you like living through someone else’s drama, emotional deep-dives, and laughing through life’s inconveniences, this one’s for you. Join the BiFFs — Stefani & Ray — as they dig into advice columns and dish out their own insights with humor, heart, and a whole lot of therapy under their belts. Come for the laugh. Stay for the advice. Therapy-adjacent, wine-fueled, and probably ill advised.Copyright 2025 All rights reserved. Social Sciences
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Episodes
  • 132 - A British Southerner From Canada
    Aug 28 2024

    Stefani and Ray visit Susan Writer's column, Ask Someone Else's Mom, this week. The Biffs read about potentially rigged, by-chance encounters with former flames; an inter-familial rivalry that has two uteruses vying for first; and a long-distance open relationship without rules on track for marriage. [Patrice Grasset Vin de France 2021 Chenin Blanc]

    Send us your questions, feedback, &/or wine recommendations to illadvisedthepodcast@gmail.com.

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    57 mins
  • 131 - Best of the Biffs (Part VII)
    Aug 21 2024

    In this week's episode, relive some of the Biffs' favorite moments of Ill Advised. From episode 78 - How to Kidnap Us, a man's self-proclaimed stupid face is putting his wife off to sex with him. In episode 11 - God Damn It, Kourtney, her partner's weight gain has a woman questioning the future of her relationship. And from Episode 22 - Dick, Thom, & Beelzebub, a woman's lackluster sex life leaves her wondering if she can have extramarital affairs while staying with her husband.

    Send us your questions, feedback, &/or wine recommendations to illadvisedthepodcast@gmail.com.

    Find sources/credits for this and all of our episodes in our show notes at www.illadvisedthepodcast.com

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    1 hr and 10 mins
  • 130 - I Can Pretend it's a Manhole
    Aug 14 2024

    Out of the Vault: This week, the Biffs bring you an episode with unaired segments from previous recordings. From Reddit’s AITA, a father wonders if laughing at his son’s self-sabotage makes him an asshole. From Metro.co.uk, a man promises to suppress his homoseuality in exchange for shelter with his wife and their children. And from Ask Amy, a woman starts a Facebook dating profile after her husband does, but is asked to shut it down when she receives more attention.

    Send us your questions, feedback, &/or wine recommendations to illadvisedthepodcast@gmail.com.

    Find sources/credits for this and all of our episodes in our show notes at www.illadvisedthepodcast.com

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    41 mins

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