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A seven-question survey to reveal identity loss and start your midlife reinvention

For Men After 50 — feeling like you’re playing a role instead of living your life? This episode of Midlife Man Rising helps answer a simple question: Is this your life…or someone else’s?

I’m Nelson Pahl, an experiential psychologist that helps midlife men reclaim identity, face hidden identity loss, and begin true personal reinvention. In this episode I walk you through a quick, clear 7-question survey that exposes whether you’re living a borrowed life...and gives you the honest signal you need to start changing course.

Topics in this Episode

• Male Role Expectations Impact Self-Expression (0:53)
• Men After 50 Often Live by Societal Conformity (1:07)
• 7-Question Self-Survey for Men After 50 (1:57)
• What Your “Yes” Answers Mean (3:31)

Healing Links

28-Day Challenge: Resurrection Camp

Supporting Links

Empirical Research: Masculinity & Social Conformity Pressures
Empirical Research : Male Role Conformity and Mental Health

Next Episode: Men After 50: Breaking Free from Your Father's Expectations (Midlife Resurrection Series - Part 5)

About the Host

Nelson Pahl, Ph.D. is an experiential psychologist that helps midlife men move from midlife crisis depression to midlife reinvention. Through his proprietary approaches — Resurrection Camp, the Six Stones Retreat Arc, and his Legacy Lab — he guides men after 50 through identity loss, midlife transformation, and personal reinvention.

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Transform anger into personal reinvention and midlife growth.

For many men after 50, midlife brings an unexpected weight: anger. But beneath that frustration is often grief, identity loss, and the pressure of outdated roles. The truth? Anger isn’t your enemy—it’s energy. And if you learn to channel it, that energy becomes fuel for your midlife transformation.

In this episode of Midlife Man Rising, Dr. Nelson Pahl—an experiential psychologist that helps midlife men reclaim identity and reinvent themselves—shares 5 healthy ways to channel your midlife anger. Instead of wrecking your relationships or your health, these strategies help you move, create, speak, protect, and release in ways that spark personal reinvention.

You’ll learn how to:

• Move your body to metabolize hidden anger
• Turn rage into creativity and expression
• Talk it out instead of bottling it up
• Set boundaries that protect your energy
• Use ritual to release the weight of the past

If you’re a midlife man wrestling with anger, this episode will show you how to redirect that fire into strength, clarity, and forward momentum. Because your midlife crisis isn’t the end—it’s the opening to a powerful reinvention.

Topics in this Episode

• Turning Anger Into Energy (0:55)
• 5 Healthy Ways to Channel Midlife Anger (1:15)
• Using Movement to Release Tension (1:23)
• Anger as Creativity and Expression (1:51)
• Talking It Out vs. Bottling It Up (2:03)
• Boundaries as Self-Protection (2:16)
• Rituals for Releasing Midlife Grief (2:27)

Healing Links

28-Day Challenge: Resurrection Camp

Supporting Links

Empirical Research: Masculinity & Social Conformity Pressures
Empirical Research : Male Role Conformity and Mental Health

Next Episode: Men After 50: 7 Signs You're Living Someone Else's Life (Midlife Resurrection Series - Part 4)

About the Host

Nelson Pahl, Ph.D. is an experiential psychologist that helps midlife men move from midlife crisis depression to midlife reinvention. Through his proprietary approaches — Resurrection Camp, the Six Stones Retreat Arc, and his Legacy Lab — he guides men after 50 through identity loss, midlife transformation, and personal reinvention.

How midlife men can face identity loss, release old roles, and begin true personal reinvention.

For men after 50, a so-called midlife crisis often feels like restlessness, irritability, or a vague emptiness. But what if your midlife funk isn’t about cars, careers, or escape — but about grief and identity loss?

In this episode of Midlife Man Rising, experiential psychologist Nelson Pahl, Ph.D. reframes the midlife journey as an opportunity for growth, not decline. You’ll learn how the hidden grief of outdated roles and old identities can trigger what feels like midlife crisis depression, and why facing it head-on can open the door to midlife reinvention.

Discover how to:

• Recognize when your “crisis” is really grief in disguise
• Use one transformative question to release outdated identities
• Begin the process of personal reinvention after 50
• Shift from midlife funk to midlife transformation

If you’re a midlife man stuck between who you were and who you’re becoming, this episode gives you clarity, courage, and a starting point. Stop surviving and start rebuilding with proven tools for midlife men ready to evolve.

🎧 Listen now — and if you’re ready for deeper change, join Nelson’s 28-day program, Resurrection Camp, to reclaim your identity and create your midlife makeover.

Topics in this Episode

• Recognize When You’re Escaping Instead of Surrendering (0:53)
• Discover How Midlife Opens Opportunities for Personal Redefinition (1:13)
• Ask Yourself the One Question that Can Change Your Life (1:51)
• Understand Why an Opposing Value System May Emerge (2:23)
• Learn Why Identity Reconstruction is Essential (3:19)
• Try a Simple Practice to Begin the Shift (4:05)
• Choose Who You Become: Conscious Individuation (4:54)

Healing Links

28-Day Challenge: Resurrection Camp

Supporting Links

Empirical Research: Midlife Transformation, Not Crisis
Clinical Research: 3 Case Studies of Male Midlife Crisis
Jungian Research: Midlife Individuation
Professional Article: Identity as Dynamic Process

Next Episode: Men After 50: 5 Ways to Channel Your Midlife Anger(Midlife Resurrection Series - Part 3)

About the Host

Nelson Pahl, Ph.D. is an experiential psychologist that helps midlife men move from midlife crisis depression to midlife reinvention. Through his proprietary approaches — Resurrection Camp, the Six Stones Retreat Arc, and his Legacy Lab — he guides men after 50 through identity loss, midlife transformation, and personal reinvention.