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Episode 31: Mitigating Life with a Narcissist – Tools for Surviving, Not Just Coping

Episode 31: Mitigating Life with a Narcissist – Tools for Surviving, Not Just Coping

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Living with someone who has narcissistic traits — whether it's a partner, a parent, or someone else close to you — can feel like constant emotional warfare. In this episode of Almost Oblivious, Autumn Baker shares practical, solution-based strategies to help reduce conflict and protect your mental and emotional peace when leaving isn’t yet an option.

Drawing from recent training with Stepping Stones of Life and personal experience, this episode offers clear communication tools, boundary-setting techniques, and calming responses that can help you survive day to day — and remind you that you are not alone.

⚠️ Please note: These strategies are meant to help mitigate, not eliminate, the effects of narcissistic abuse. If your safety is at risk or you feel overwhelmed, you do not have to navigate this alone.

🛠️ In This Episode:

  • Understanding narcissistic behavior and common patterns

  • Ground rules for emotional protection

  • Real-life examples of communication shifts to reduce conflict

  • The Grey Rock Method

  • Why these tools won’t always work — and why that’s not your fault

  • A reminder: You deserve peace, and help is available


📚 Resources & Support:

  • The Grey Rock Method- https://psychcentral.com/health/grey-rock-method
  • Stepping Stones of Life – https://steppingstonesoflife.org/

  • The National Domestic Violence Hotline
    📞 Call 800-799-SAFE (7233)
    💬 Or text "START" to 88788

    🌐 www.thehotline.org


  • Love Is Respect – Especially for younger victims or those unsure🌐 www.loveisrespect.org


  • Almost Oblivious Community on Facebook – Connect with others and share your story


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