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I Don’t Have It All Figured Out—and That’s the Point

I Don’t Have It All Figured Out—and That’s the Point

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We’ve been told since we were kids that we’re supposed to know what we want to do with our lives. Pick the perfect path. Stick to it. Hit all the milestones by a certain age—degree, career, marriage, house, “success.” But here’s the truth no one talks about enough: real life doesn’t follow a checklist… and that’s actually where the magic happens.

In this raw and relatable conversation, Lauryn, Hannah, and Aylen get real about the pressure to have it all figured out—and why so many millennials don’t actually start feeling aligned until their 30s. We’re sharing our own stories, the cultural timelines we’ve had to unlearn, and the ways we’re redefining success on our own terms.

If you’ve ever felt “behind,” wondered if you missed your shot, or questioned if you’re the only one still figuring it out—you’re not. This episode will remind you that your timeline is yours to honor.

Take a deep breath, grab your favorite cozy drink, and join us as we release the pressure, embrace the unknown, and find the freedom in not having it all figured out. 💛

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