Welcome back to the Women’s Coach, where we dive deep into what it really means to lead more and manage less. I’m your host, Marilyn Dollar—leadership coach, high performance strategist, and, yes, wearer of many hats (including mom and dog mom!). In today’s episode, we’re tackling a powerful and often overlooked challenge facing high-performing women: Are we truly living by our values, or are we just saying we are?

I’ll take you behind the scenes of a transformative experience in my own journey: attending the “Becoming You” workshop and certification with Susie at NYU. We’ll unravel the concept of core values—not virtues like honesty or trustworthiness, but the driving forces that shape your work, joy, and impact. And, I’ll introduce you to the “Four Horsemen of Values Destruction”—those sneaky forces that pull us off course: economic security, expedience, expectations, and life events.

Together, we’ll look at real-life stories—from my own path and from the women I coach—exploring how these invisible snares can keep us from living authentically and making the changes we crave. More importantly, I’ll share insights and practical advice for regaining clarity, recalibrating your priorities, and leading from the center of your own life.

If you’ve ever wondered “Whose life is this, anyway?” or felt stuck in someone else’s version of success, this episode is your starting point for change. Let’s get clear on what matters most—before life forces your hand. It’s time to become the leader in your own story. Let’s begin.