In this episode of Hitched & Unhinged, we’re diving into the surprising dark side of empathy—when caring too much turns into toxic empathy. We get real about moments when our compassion caused more harm than help, and even share times we were the toxic ones (yikes!). It’s honest, hilarious, and full of grace as we explore how to love people well without losing ourselves in the process.

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We’re calling a truce in the so-called “battle of the sexes” and flipping the script. From everyday miscommunications to big-picture differences, we explore why men and women were never meant to compete—but to complement. With laughs, real talk, and a faith-filled lens, we’re unpacking how partnership beats rivalry every time.

00:00 Intro

01:19 Which gender should be in charge?

02:15 Extreme Forms of Patriarchy and Matriarchy

07:43 Do Women Need Men?

15:15 Parental and/or Partner Influences on Gender Roles

16:14 The Importance of Daddy Dates

17:04 Biblical Interpretation on Patriarchy and Matriarchy

25:29 Toxic or Timeless

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Is love at first sight a fairy-tale dream or a recipe for disaster? In this episode of Hitched & Unhinged, we dive deep into the age-old debate—breaking down the the romance and the red flags. Is instant attraction the real deal, or just a beautifully wrapped illusion? Tune in as we unpack the truth, share our own takes, and decide once and for all: is it toxic or timeless?

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In this episode of Hitched & Unhinged, we’re airing out the dirty laundry—literally! We share how a simple household chore put our marriage to the test, dive into the surprising truth about splitting the bill while dating, and unpack a powerful life lesson from an incredible woman who was married for 57 years. Get ready for laughs, surprises, and some seriously wise relationship advice!

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Chaos or faith? Honeymoon spontaneity or planned events? Richard and Sade reflect on their opposing feelings as they headed into wedding week and their honeymoon.

00:00 Announcements & Intro

3:05 Honeymoon Planning Chaos

6:21 Asking For Directions, Men Vs Women

11:10 Moving to NYC Straight From Honeymoon & Wedding

13:35 Top 5 Honeymoon Moments

16:01 Bali Culture

17:30 Atelier Playa Mujeres in Mexico

21:17 Travel Tips

25:16 Living Together For The First Time

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Your time is coming! Trust, there are pros of getting married older in life. We as newlyweds share what NO ONE told us about getting married, as well as a bit of our journey dating with intentionality God's way, last name change problems as a modern day woman, & family traditions.

0:00 Welcome To “Hitched & Unhinged”
5:54 Why Didn’t Anyone Warn Me?
6:53 Post-Wedding Highs
9:59 Angel and Devil’s Cocktail of Hormones
13:18 Name Change Drama & Family Traditions
19:16 Living Life God’s way vs My Way
21:41 The Pros of Getting Married Later In Life, Dating With Intentionality
30:28 Listen to Your Elders: Preview Dating Advice from Elderly TikTok Stars Betty&Barb

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