• From Unclear to Purpose- Kristin's Lessons from Ashley Iduda's Journey
    Dec 11 2025

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    In this episode of Happiness Unscripted, host Kristin DeSouza reflects on the inspiring journey of Ashley Iduda, who transitioned from a stay-at-home mom about to embark on a teaching career to her unscripted life filled with podcasting, makeup workshops, and coaching programs. Ashley's story emphasizes trusting oneself and taking the first step without seeing the entire path ahead. Kristin reflects on how her conversation with Ashley highlighted how embracing imperfections allows for authentic living and deeper fulfillment. By sharing her own experience, Ashley encouraged listeners to pursue their passions courageously and authentically.

    00:00 Intro

    00:54 Reflections from Ashley - First Steps

    02:09 You can handle the challenge

    03:13 You don't need to have it all figured out to begin

    06:59 An Unexpected Outcome - Giving others permission to be themselves

    09:56 Kristin's Self Reflection

    12:47 Kristin's Wrap Up

    15:08 Closing

    15:55 Outro

    Connect with Happiness Unscripted:

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    📱 Social Media:

    • facebook.com/HappinessUnscripted
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    Hey there friends! Just a friendly reminder that this podcast is all about sharing ideas and having fun conversations. I'm not an expert in this subject over here - jut a curious person exploring topics I find interesting. So please don't take anything said here as professional advice. When in doubt, chat with the real pros who know their stuff. Thanks for listening and hope you join us for the next episode! Now, let's dive in and get happy!

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    16 mins
  • Reflections from Ashley Iduda: Embracing Authenticity and Finding One's Self
    Nov 13 2025

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    Reflections from Ashley Iduda: Embracing Authenticity and Finding One's Self

    In this episode of Happiness Unscripted, Kristin DeSouza highlights the inspiring transformation of Ashley Iduda, who reclaimed her true self. Ashley's journey demonstrates the courage to acknowledge personal struggles, confront codependency, and combat shame to find genuine happiness. Her story underscores the importance of self-honesty, self-love, and embracing one's inherent worth. The episode concludes with practical advice for rewiring the mind for positivity and the value of spiritual encounters in nurturing self-acceptance and authentic living.


    Time Stamps

    00:00 Introduction to Happiness Unscripted
    01:43 Ashley's Journey to Authenticity
    03:21 The Power of Vulnerability
    07:08 Breaking Free from People Pleasing
    12:06 Confronting and Overcoming Shame
    16:14 A Spiritual Awakening
    24:10 Daily Practices for Happiness
    30:12 Embracing Inherent Worth
    34:09 Outro & Closing

    Connect with Happiness Unscripted:

    ✉️: happinessunscriptedpodcast@gmail.com

    🎙️: https://happinessunscripted.buzzsprout.com

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    • (Including Apple Podcast, Spotify, and more)

    📱 Social Media:

    • facebook.com/HappinessUnscripted
    • instagram.com/happinessunscripted/

    Hey there friends! Just a friendly reminder that this podcast is all about sharing ideas and having fun conversations. I'm not an expert in this subject over here - jut a curious person exploring topics I find interesting. So please don't take anything said here as professional advice. When in doubt, chat with the real pros who know their stuff. Thanks for listening and hope you join us for the next episode! Now, let's dive in and get happy!

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    35 mins
  • Exploring Trauma-Informed Coaching with Kena Siu
    Nov 6 2025

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    Exploring Trauma-Informed Coaching with Kena Siu

    In this episode of Happiness Unscripted, Kristin DeSouza hosts Kena Siu, a self-love and empowerment guide behind Midlife Butterfly. Kena specializes in helping women navigate through life's challenging transitions such as divorce, loss, and soul awakening using trauma-informed coaching practices like shadow work, inner child work, and somatic awareness. The discussion dives into what these practices entail, how they help in healing and personal transformation, and the importance of understanding and processing emotions to avoid physical manifestations of unresolved feelings. Kena also shares her experience as a digital nomad and how it enriches her life. The episode ends with practical advice on how individuals can begin their journey toward self-acceptance and holistic self-care.

    Timestamps

    00:00 Welcome to Happiness Unscripted

    00:49 Introducing Kena Siu: Self-Love and Empowerment Guide

    01:43 Catching up: Recap of part 1 & Launching into Kena's Coaching

    02:49 Understanding Trauma-Informed Coaching

    03:39 Exploring Shadow Work, Inner Child Healing and Somatic Awareness

    07:39 The Importance of Somatic Awareness

    17:43 Digital Nomad Lifestyle and Its Benefits

    20:37 Building Community and Retreats

    21:44 Midlife Butterfly: Programs and Offerings

    25:11 Final Thoughts and Encouragement

    29:49 Closing Remarks and Call to Action

    Connect with Kena Siu:

    🌐 midlifebutterfly.ca

    📱 Social Media: instagram.com/midlifebutterfly

    🎙️Podcast: midlifebutterfly.ca/podcast

    ✨ Offerings:

    • Freebie: The Midlife Butterfly Guide: 5 Practices for the Woman Going Through Life Transitions & Need to Heal Herself and Reclaim Her Power. midlifebutterfly.ca/theguide
    • Offer: Join her at the First You. A 3-Day Experience from November 19-21: https://midlifebutterfly.ca/firstyouexperience

    Connect with Happiness Unscripted:

    ✉️: happinessunscriptedpodcast@gmail.com

    🎙️: https://happinessunscripted.buzzsprout.com

    • Also where you normally listen 👂 to podcasts!
    • (Including Apple Podcast, Spotify, and more)

    📱 Social Media:

    • facebook.com/HappinessUnscripted
    • instagram.com/happinessunscripted/

    Hey there friends! Just a friendly reminder that this podcast is all about sharing ideas and having fun conversations. I'm not an expert in this subject over here - jut a curious person exploring topics I find interesting. So please don't take anything said here as professional advice. When in doubt, chat with the real pros who know their stuff. Thanks for listening and hope you join us for the next episode! Now, let's dive in and get happy!

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    31 mins
  • Kena Siu: Navigating Life's Transitions with Midlife Butterfly
    Oct 30 2025

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    Kena Siu: Navigating Life's Transitions with Midlife Butterfly

    In this episode of 'Happiness Unscripted,' host Kristin DeSouza talks with Kena Siu, the self-love and empowerment guide behind Midlife Butterfly. Kena shares her journey through significant life transitions, including multiple marriages, moving to different countries, and profound personal losses. She discusses how these experiences led her to launch the Midlife Butterfly brand and become a guide for women navigating midlife transformations. Kena emphasizes the importance of self-love, breaking free from old patterns, and embracing life's 'sacred in-between' moments. She also highlights the critical role of self-care, mindfulness, and creating new habits in achieving a fulfilling and joyful life.

    Timestamps:

    00:00 Opening

    00:49 Kena Siu's Introduction

    05:44 Kena's rich life, full of transitions

    09:50 Questioning everything

    13:35 "What do I have to shift to heal?"

    15:32 "I didn't love myself like I thought I did."

    17:32 Becoming your own best friend

    19:26 Little Tweaks can lead to a lifestyle of self-care

    21:36 Midlife Butterfly born from the 'messy middle'

    28:43 Using personal metamorphesis to help guide others

    35:26 Midlife Butterfly: Discovering who you are becoming

    39:39 The Sacred Inbetween: The space where we are always evolving and changing

    46:58 Outro

    47:29 Closing

    Connect with Kena Siu:

    🌐 midlifebutterfly.ca

    📱 Social Media: instagram.com/midlifebutterfly

    🎙️Podcast: midlifebutterfly.ca/podcast

    ✨ Offerings:

    • Freebie: The Midlife Butterfly Guide: 5 Practices for the Woman Going Through Life Transitions & Need to Heal Herself and Reclaim Her Power. midlifebutterfly.ca/theguide
    • Offer: Join her at the First You. A 3-Day Experience from November 19-21: https://midlifebutterfly.ca/firstyouexperience

    Connect with Happiness Unscripted:

    ✉️: happinessunscriptedpodcast@gmail.com

    🎙️: https://happinessunscripted.buzzsprout.com

    • Also where you normally listen 👂 to podcasts!
    • (Including Apple Podcast, Spotify, and more)

    📱 Social Media:

    • facebook.com/HappinessUnscripted
    • instagram.com/happinessunscripted/

    Hey there friends! Just a friendly reminder that this podcast is all about sharing ideas and having fun conversations. I'm not an expert in this subject over here - jut a curious person exploring topics I find interesting. So please don't take anything said here as professional advice. When in doubt, chat with the real pros who know their stuff. Thanks for listening and hope you join us for the next episode! Now, let's dive in and get happy!

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    48 mins
  • Embracing Self-Worth Through Faith with Ashley Iduda
    Oct 9 2025

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    Embracing Self-Worth Through Faith with Ashley Iduda

    In this episode of Happiness Unscripted, host Kristin DeSouza delves into a deep conversation with Ashley Iduda, a Christian women's empowerment coach and podcast host. Ashley shares her remarkable journey overcoming identity struggles, imposter syndrome, and feelings of insecurity through a transformative encounter with God's love. She emphasizes the importance of building a personal relationship with God, choosing to believe in one's worth as defined by biblical teachings, and focusing on being rather than doing. Ashley's story offers profound insights into moving from intellectual belief to heartfelt conviction and highlights practical steps, like daily reaffirmations and prayer, to help women embrace their true identity and confidence.

    Key Timestamps

    00:00 Welcome

    00:49 Intro on Ashley

    02:26 Recap of Ashley's experience with God

    06:30 Reflections on Ashley's experience with God

    11:28 'I am a Creation of God and I choose love'

    17:43 Choosing Trust

    20:44 Going all in on the journey

    25:40 A relationship with God is a relationship with a friend

    26:09 Focus on simply Becoming

    32:26 Outro-next episode

    Connect with Ashley

    📱 Social Media:

    • Instagram: @ashleyiduda
    • Facebook (faith, podcast + makeup lessons): Ashley Iduda
    • Facebook (makeup artistry + lessons): Ashley’s Business Page

    🎙️ Podcast:

    • Her Identity Project Podcast — available on Apple, Spotify & all major platforms
    • https://heridentityproject.buzzsprout.com

    👥 Contact

    • ✉️ Email: hello@ashleyiduda.com

    Offers:

    • 💄 Five-Minute Radiance: (Oct 2 & 4, only $17)
    • 💄 Grow in confidence & beauty from the inside out & get a quick, simple routine to feel like the best version of yourself.
    • 🌐: https://heridentityproject.kit.com/c8cd5f8cc9

    🗓️ Book a free call to explore makeup lessons & beauty coaching:

    • https://calendly.com/hello-ashleyiduda

    Connect with Happiness Unscripted:

    ✉️: happinessunscriptedpodcast@gmail.com

    🎙️: https://happinessunscripted.buzzsprout.com

    • Also where you normally listen 👂 to podcasts!
    • (Including Apple Podcast, Spotify, and more)

    📱 Social Media:

    • facebook.com/HappinessUnscripted
    • instagram.com/happinessunscripted/

    Hey there friends! Just a friendly reminder that this podcast is all about sharing ideas and having fun conversations. I'm not an expert in this subject over here - jut a curious person exploring topics I find interesting. So please don't take anything said here as professional advice. When in doubt, chat with the real pros who know their stuff. Thanks for listening and hope you join us for the next episode! Now, let's dive in and get happy!

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    34 mins