In this deeply moving episode of Glowing Through It, Ashley sits down with Monique to share the story of Deano Valdez—a devoted father, husband, Marine, son and friend who went missing from Santa Fe, New Mexico. Through heartfelt memories and honest conversation, Monique paints a vivid picture of Deano’s life, the pain of his absence, and the strength of a family and community determined to bring him home.

This episode goes beyond headlines, focusing on truth, awareness, and the real impact of missing persons cases. Listen as Monique offers advice for families facing similar tragedies, highlights the importance of community support, and calls for greater compassion and action.

If Deano’s story moves you, please share this episode, keep his name alive, and help spread awareness. Every voice matters in the search for answers and hope.

Resources and ways to help are included in the show notes below.

Help Find Deano Valdez Facebook Page Link : https://www.facebook.com/share/g/17GF9LUdBY/?mibextid=wwXIfr

Amazon Wishlist For The Valdez Family Link : https://www.amazon.com/registries/gl/guest-view/1Z2JDUEQIR1KW?ref_=cm_sw_r_apin_ggr-subnav-share_6HT95QPR4TVSZFCG9JNT&language=en-US&fbclid=IwdGRjcANuGGNleHRuA2FlbQIxMQABHsXLsbt2A62fNV46hRWDow1GI-AsYvXNv2HKO1xuQIve3EMckdzUhwPbIJK6_aem_k53r2c8SyICz3dog4yi2Gw

GoFundme Bring Deano Home: Supporting Vikki and Her Family Link: https://www.gofundme.com/f/bring-deano-home-supporting-vikki-and-her-family

Angels’ Voices Silenced No More Reward Fund Link: https://givebutter.com/deanovaldez

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Are we chasing perfection that doesn’t even exist? In this episode, we dive deep into the world of unattainable beauty standards—where filters, photo edits, and social media illusions are shaping how we see ourselves and each other.

Special guest Gretchen Andrew joins me to reveal how her Facetune portraits go beyond the surface, exposing the invisible scars that social media leaves on our mental health. Through her art, Gretchen challenges the fantasy of flawless beauty and sparks a conversation about the real impact of digital distortion.

Join us as we unpack the hidden mental health costs of comparing ourselves to faces and bodies that have been digitally modified beyond reality. Why do we set our expectations based on people who don’t even exist? How does this constant exposure impact our self-worth, confidence, and well-being?

If you’ve ever felt the pressure to look “perfect” or wondered how these impossible standards are affecting our minds, this is the conversation you can’t afford to miss. Tune in for honest stories, expert insights, and a much-needed reality check on beauty in the digital age.

Hit play and join the movement toward authenticity, your mental health will thank you!

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Episode Description – Part 2

In this powerful continuation, Ashley Knight and Erica dive even deeper into faith, healing, and the courage to question tradition. Part 2 explores the meaning of “Amen,” the origins of spiritual practices, and the tension between church teachings and personal experience. The conversation tackles controversial topics like yoga, indigenous spirituality, and the role of women in faith communities, all while challenging listeners to think for themselves and embrace open-mindedness.

Ashley and Erica share personal stories of transformation, discuss generational trauma, and reflect on the importance of building a relationship with God that transcends dogma. The episode’s emotional core centers on the metaphor of the church as the bride, the responsibility to speak up for what’s right, and the healing power of community.

Whether you’re questioning old beliefs or seeking inspiration to live more authentically, this episode offers raw honesty, spiritual insight, and a call to bridge divides with compassion.

Tune in for:

• Honest dialogue about faith, tradition, and personal growth
• The intersection of indigenous and Christian spirituality
• The “bride” metaphor and what it means for community responsibility
• Stories of healing, courage, and reclaiming spiritual power

Listen now and join the conversation!

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In “Honest to God: Unfiltered Reflections on Church and Self,” Ashley Knight returns with a raw, rebranded conversation that pulls no punches. Joined by guest Erica, this episode dives deep into the complexities of faith, community, and personal growth, without the filters or facades!

Ashley and Erica share candid stories about questioning church traditions, navigating spiritual judgment, and the struggle to find authenticity in a world full of expectations. From wrestling with anger and doubt to embracing the messiness of healing, they explore what it means to show up as your true self... inside and outside the pews.

Expect honest talk about the pressures of “looking the part,” the pain and hope found in spiritual journeys, and the courage it takes to break free from fear-based teachings. If you’re ready for a conversation that’s as real as it gets, this episode is your invitation to reflect, question, and grow... honest to God.

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In this heartfelt episode of "Glowing Through It," Ashley sits down with Josh Blair to honor the life and legacy of his brother, Michael, on what would have been his birthday. Together, they share stories of love, laughter, and loss; exploring the deep bonds of family, the unique ways we carry those we've lost, and the lessons grief teaches us about living boldly and loving deeply. From cherished memories and family traditions to the symbolism of dragonflies and the healing power of creativity, this conversation is a moving tribute to Michael and a reminder that grief is the proof that love was real. Whether you’re navigating your own journey of loss or seeking inspiration to live with more heart, this episode offers comfort, connection, and hope.

Tune in for an honest, uplifting conversation about remembering, healing, and finding joy... even in the midst of sorrow.

If anyone wants to share the Bubba/Bubs/Michael love, and support Josh’s tie with his brother, visit http://wingedearthworks.com/ and sign up to be notified when pottery pieces are officially ready for sale. 💛🌻

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Navigating Tragedy and Co-Parenting Challenges

In this episode, the host, Ashley, returns with guest Cecilia to discuss recent tragedies in their community, including the heartbreaking death of a child and a tragic car accident involving local coaches. They also delve into the complexities of co-parenting, sharing personal experiences and challenges, and offering insights into maintaining a healthy environment for their children despite difficult circumstances.

We would love to hear from you and have you share your personal stories with us! If you are interested in being a guest on Esthetician Eavesdrop, send Ashley a DM on instagram @esthetican.eavesdrop.podcast_

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In this follow-up episode, we dive deeper into the shocking revelations that have shaken a local church community. Following a brief hiatus to let the initial shock settle, this episode aims to uncover the truth behind the hypocritical actions of a pastor caught in a scandalous affair. Hear personal testimonies, read anonymized DMs from affected church members, and explore the intricate dynamics at play in this unfolding drama. We'll also discuss broader issues of trust, repentance, and the misuse of power in religious settings.

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In this shocking episode of Esthetician Eavesdrop, we delve into a story of immense scandal that rocked a local church. Join us as our host speaks with a guest about the disturbing revelations concerning a pastor's double life, filled with hypocrisy, deceit, and breach of trust. We expose the torrid affair, financial misconduct, and the resulting emotional devastation of the congregation and the pastor's family. Tune in for a gripping and raw discussion that challenges the very fabric of trust and faith in religious leadership.

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