Jordon Gilmore

Friendship Series – Part 3

Main Text: John 15:12–15

• Jesus calls us friends, not just servants.
• Friendship with Jesus is both a gift and an example for how we should live with one another.

Key Recap from Previous Messages

1. Friendship is a gift from God.
2. We are called friends of God.
3. Jesus is the perfect example of friendship.
   • True friends know and understand each other.
   • They genuinely like each other.
   • They share common interests.
   • They desire to spend time together.
   • They help and protect one another.

Transition to Human Friendships

• God designed us for companionship (Gen. 2:18 – “not good for man to be alone”).
• Friendship runs as a theme throughout the whole Bible—from Genesis to Revelation.
• C.S. Lewis: “Friendship is unnecessary … it gives value to survival.”

Challenges with Friendship

• Many resist friendship due to hurt, fear, or personality defense mechanisms.
• We often default to family ties (“blood is thicker than water”), but Proverbs reminds us:
  • “A friend sticks closer than a brother” (Prov. 18:24).
  • “Better is a neighbor nearby than a brother far away” (Prov. 27:10).
• Real friendship requires vulnerability and effort.

Biblical Example: David & Jonathan (1 & 2 Samuel)

• Unlikely friendship: Jonathan (royal heir, trained warrior) & David (youngest shepherd boy).
• Despite natural rivalry, Jonathan loved David “as his own soul.”
• They formed a covenant, symbolized when Jonathan gave David his robe, armor, and weapons.
• Their friendship endured family conflict, jealousy, and political tension.
• David later honored Jonathan’s son (2 Sam. 9) because of this covenant.