What’s wrong with Christian men? In this powerful For The Record Husband Edition livestream, Sterling Record is joined by Imrhan Kirnon, Ben Mundeke, and Quason Matthews for a raw, unfiltered conversation about manhood, marriage, faith, and accountability.

With 70% of the For The Record audience being single women, many ask: “What’s wrong with the men?” This episode dives into that question head-on.

We talk about:

• The challenges Christian men face in marriage and singleness

• The role of husbands as leaders, protectors, and providers

• How pride, lack of accountability, and immaturity affect Christian men today

• Healing from “father wounds” and “mother wounds” before marriage

• Practical wisdom on communication, temptation, lust, and staying faithful

• What we wish we knew as single men before becoming husbands

💡 Expect transparency, honesty, and biblical wisdom as these husbands share their journeys and challenge men and women alike to rise higher.

Whether you’re single, married, or just curious about relationships and faith, this conversation will bring hope, clarity, and practical guidance for navigating love and marriage God’s way.

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In this candid and vulnerable conversation, Mr. and Mrs. Record tackle the theme of facing your demons — from unhealthy internal voices to toxic relationships, unhealed traumas, and the power of self-awareness.

They share personal stories of breaking cycles, setting boundaries, and confronting the hard truths about themselves and others. Whether it’s navigating marriage challenges, managing friendships, or learning when to let go, this episode is packed with honesty, humour, and practical wisdom for anyone ready to grow.

Key Talking Points:

Why a healthy internal voice is critical for emotional well-being.

How self-awareness transforms relationships, careers, and decision-making.

The trap of helping others at the expense of your own mental health.

Signs you’ve chosen people or environments based on a broken self-image.

How to discern covenant relationships from seasonal ones.

The danger of seeking approval — from people or from God — through over-serving.

Why knowing the condition of your heart is essential before giving advice.

Most people think becoming a Christian automatically breaks every generational curse. But what if the patterns in your bloodline are deeper than you realise… and prayer alone isn't enough?

In this raw and honest episode of For The Record, we dive into the truth about generational curses — the ones that show up in marriages, parenting, money, mindsets, and even ministry.

We discuss how trauma, pride, culture, and disobedience often reinforce the very patterns we pray to escape. @sterlingrecord and @HayleyMulendax explore their own experiences confronting inherited dysfunction and choosing to break cycles that were normalised in their families.

They also discuss the biblical mandate to be the one who rises, even when it costs you comfort, acceptance, and tradition.

Whether you're the first to get married, the first to build wealth, or the first to prioritise emotional health and obedience to God — this episode will speak to the burden and the blessing of being the curse breaker in your family.

In this episode, we talk about:

• Why generational curses still affect Christians
• The lie that prayer alone will fix everything
• How repeated patterns in families are often spiritual and emotional
• The connection between trauma and generational cycles
• Why obedience, accountability, and therapy are needed to fully break the curse
• How parenting, presence, and identity are shaped by what you don’t heal
• The cost of being the first one to walk in freedom

f you’ve ever said: - “Why does this always happen in my family?” - “I’m scared my marriage will end like my parents’ did.” - “This is just who I am…”

This episode is your wake-up call. Jesus gave you authority, but it’s up to you to apply it. This is what most people never talk about — until now.

There are Christians silently breaking down under the weight of stress.

Some are serving in church until they collapse. Others are burnt out, overwhelmed, and still showing up every Sunday with a smile. In this honest conversation, Sterling & Hayley open up about the silent epidemic of stress among believers — from toxic friendships to over-serving, financial pressure, and the dangerous ways people cope. If you’ve ever felt like you're drowning emotionally while staying faithful spiritually… this is for you.

Topics we cover in this episode:

Why Christians are getting sick from stress

The pressure to be “strong” in church Serving without boundaries

Unhealthy coping habits (no one talks about)

Real ways to recover & rebuild

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Wondering what to do in your single season?

Feeling forgotten or frustrated while waiting on God?

In this episode of For The Record, Sterling and Hayley share honest, biblical, and practical encouragement for Christian singles navigating life before marriage.

Whether you’re tired of waiting, tempted to settle, or just trying to stay focused — this conversation is packed with wisdom, laughter, and truth about why your singlehood season has purpose.

🛠️ In This Episode: What to do in your single season Why singleness is not a curse How to grow spiritually while waiting God’s plan for your identity, not just your relationship Purpose, preparation, and staying set apart This isn’t just dating advice — it’s a mindset shift. 🙌 ⏱️

Question for You: What has God been teaching you in your single season?

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What do you do when God says MOVE?

In this episode of For The Record, we share the real-life steps we took when God called us to leave the UK and move to Dubai—and why it’s bigger than just switching countries.

Whether you’re facing a new season, a career change, a shift in relationships, or a spiritual transition, this episode gives you practical and biblical wisdom on how to move when God says it’s time.

We cover:

✅ Why God’s telling is different from God’s timing

✅ How to prepare practically AND spiritually for your next season

✅ The dangers of calling foolishness "faith"

✅ How to avoid “Casino Christianity” when it comes to giving and breakthrough

This is not just about relocation—it’s about obedience, stewardship, and knowing how to walk into the season God has for you the right way.

Key Topics Covered:

What happens when God calls you to move?

How to plan without losing faith The difference between obedience and recklessness

The mistakes we made—and how you can avoid them

Moving forward without demonising your past season

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When Hearing God Goes Wrong: Did God Speak… or Was That Just My Trauma?

Have you ever been absolutely sure you heard God… only to end up hurt, confused, or even broken?

In this vulnerable episode of For The Record, @HayleyMulendax & @sterlingrecord open up about the moments when our emotions, wounds, or past experiences sounded a lot like God's voice — but weren’t.

From stories of toxic relationships we thought were divinely confirmed, to the pressure of prophetic circles and emotional Christianity, this conversation is raw, honest, and necessary.

We explore:

How trauma can distort what we think God is saying

The consequences of mistaking our pain for divine instruction

How to discern between revelation and projection

Why some “God moments” are really just emotional impulses

The role of biblical truth, community, and healing in hearing God clearly

Hayley’s personal journey of inner healing, spiritual burnout, and prophetic missteps

Why emotional Christianity is replacing biblical Christianity for many

Whether you're questioning if what you “heard” was from God, recovering from church hurt, or wrestling with your own discernment — this episode is for you.

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Have you ever prayed a prayer so deep that it felt like your heart was breaking?

At 15, Sterling was depressed, suicidal, and completely broken.

He had never met his dad. I didn’t even know what he looked like. Every single night, he cried out to God saying: “If you’re real, please let me meet my dad.” He felt worthless, abandoned, and hopeless.

Fatherlessness shaped his identity, choices, and his beliefs about himself. But then, something miraculous happened. In this episode of For The Record Podcast, He share his raw, honest, and powerful testimony of:

- Growing up without my father and the depression it caused

- The suicidal thoughts that nearly ended my life

- The incredible divine encounter that reconnected him with this dad in the most unexpected way From hopelessness to discovering his true Heavenly Father

- The long journey of forgiveness that took almost a decade to heal his heart

If you’ve ever felt abandoned, rejected, or wondered if God hears your prayers… this is for you. God can take your deepest pain and turn it into your greatest testimony.

Comment below: What’s a prayer that God answered for you in an unexpected way?

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