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Episode 9: Let Them! Playing the Game

Episode 9: Let Them! Playing the Game

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 In this episode, we’re calling one of the most powerful plays in your dating playbook: combining the viral “Let Them” theory with the strength of putting yourself first. If you’ve been chasing love, second-guessing your worth, or lowering your standards to keep someone on the roster — it’s time to get back in control. Chavonne breaks down what it means to lead with confidence, protect your peace like a solid defense, and stop running after teammates who won’t show up. Because in dating, just like football, you don’t chase the ball — you call the play.

What You’ll Learn:
  • Why “letting them” reveal themselves is your greatest filter
  • How putting yourself first is a winning defensive move
  • The difference between confidence and control
  • Why rejection is a turnover, not a tragedy
  • How to lead the game without losing yourself
Key Quotes:
  • “You’re not sitting on the sidelines — you’re choosing to play smart.”
  • “Let them sit on the bench if they’re not ready for the field.”
  • “You don’t fall apart. You fall back — and let them show you they were never the right teammate.”
Power Takeaways:
  • Stop trying to intercept red flags — let them unfold
  • Boundaries protect your peace, not your loneliness
  • Lead the relationship with clarity and calm, not desperation
  • You don’t have to prove your worth — just protect it
Join the Team: 📸 Tag @womansplaybookfordating with your “Let Them” moment
💌 Need help staying grounded when the game gets messy? Write in to womensplaybook4dating@gmail.com
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