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Episode 8—Banging My Head Against a Brick Wall

Episode 8—Banging My Head Against a Brick Wall

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 Episode 8—Banging My Head Against a Brick Wall Episode 8 of From the Shadow to the Light explores the painful cycle of feeling stuck and making external progress while battling internal struggles. Chapter 8—Banging My Head Against a Brick Wall, delves into the reality of being a “dry drunk”—physically sober but emotionally unchanged—while chasing professional success and unhealthy relationships as distractions from more profound wounds. Join me as I unravel the lessons hidden in frustration, self-sabotage, and the search for true healing. Show Notes Episode Title: Banging My Head Against a Brick Wall Episode Number: 8 Welcome to Episode 8 of From the Shadow to the Light, where we dive into Chapter 8 of my memoir, Struck by Lightning: My Journey from the Shadow to the Light. Many people believe that quitting alcohol or achieving external success automatically leads to healing. But what happens when you make progress on the outside while still feeling trapped on the inside? This episode explores that struggle—where professional milestones, personal relationships, and spiritual seeking all seem to lead to the same emotional dead ends. From excelling in a male-dominated industry while battling unresolved anger to seeking validation through toxic relationships, my journey highlights how addiction doesn’t always look like drinking. The real battle was deeper, and despite my best efforts, I kept running into the same patterns, over and over—until I realized the real change had to come from within. If you’ve ever felt like you’re making all the right moves but still end up in the same painful cycles, this episode is for you. Reflective Questions Theme 1—Navigating Professional Challenges as a Dry Drunk Have you ever achieved something significant in your career, only to find your success overshadowed by biases or discrimination? How did that make you feel?Can you recall a time when you had to prove yourself over and above your colleagues due to biases? What was the outcome? Additional Questions: How do you maintain your self-worth in environments that test your confidence and question your capabilities?How have past unresolved emotions influenced the way you react to challenges in your professional life?What strategies can help you separate professional success from personal self-worth? Theme 2—Personal Relationships and Self-Discovery Have you ever found yourself in relationships that mirrored other dependencies or addictions in your life?How do you cope with the fear of being alone or the need for constant emotional validation? Additional Questions: How do you maintain your self-worth in environments that test your confidence and question your capabilities?How have past unresolved emotions influenced the way you react to challenges in your professional life?What strategies can help you separate professional success from personal self-worth? Theme 3—The Seeker Archetype and the Quest for Self-Discovery Have you ever felt like a Seeker, constantly searching for answers or trying to fill a void within yourself? How has this quest influenced your relationships and personal growth?In what ways have your attempts at self-help or spiritual exploration revealed deeper issues you were not initially aware of? Theme 4—The First Saturn Return: A Time of Existential Transformation How have you navigated the pressure to change or evolve during significant life transitions? What coping mechanisms have you found effective?Reflect on a time when you felt a deep need to question or alter your path. What drove these changes, and how have they shaped who you are today? Theme 5—Navigating Health Challenges: Ocular Convergence Spasms Have you ever encountered a health issue that seemed to reflect deeper life stresses? How did you address both the physical symptoms and their emotional counterparts?What strategies have you employed to maintain your health when faced with chronic conditions or unexpected health challenges? Theme 6—Loss of Billy: Navigating Grief and Sustaining Faith Have you ever placed hope in a new relationship or situation, only to have it unexpectedly taken away? How did you cope with that loss?How have significant losses impacted your journey in recovery or personal growth?In times of deep personal crisis, how has your faith or core beliefs provided support or been challenged? Conclusion As we close Episode 8, we reflect on the patterns that keep us feeling stuck and the courage required to break them. The journey to healing is not just about quitting a habit or chasing external success but about confronting the deeper wounds that drive our behaviors. May this episode serve as a reminder that real change We hope this episode helps you reflect on your journey and uncover meaningful insights. Be sure to click the community link below and look for additional resources to support your transformation. Thank you for listening to From the Shadow to the Light. JOIN ...

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