Episode 69 - When "Please" Becomes Pressure: Understanding Requests vs. Demands and Why it Matters
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Episode 69 - When "Please" Becomes Pressure: Understanding Requests vs. Demands and Why it Matters
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Discover the powerful distinction between requests and demands that can transform your relationships by honoring each other's autonomy and choice.
• Requests honor the possibility of hearing "no" without emotional fallout
• How we respond to someone's "no" reveals whether we're making requests or demands
• True requests are rooted in openness while demands are rooted in control or expectation
• Four key elements to help distinguish between requests and demands
• Ask yourself: "Can I handle a no without punishing them emotionally?"
• When someone asks something of you, explain the need that prevents you from saying yes
• Even in close relationships, we're allowed to ask for anything but aren't entitled to everything
• Dr. Marshall Rosenberg: "Please do as I request only if you do it with the joy of a child feeding ducks"
Resources:
Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life: Life-Changing Tools for Healthy Relationships by Marshall B. Rosenberg PhD
Related Episodes:
Episode 22 - Communicate Without Conflict: Non Violent Communication Basics for Everyday Life
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