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Episode 3: You Can't Come to my Birthday Party!

Episode 3: You Can't Come to my Birthday Party!

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Episode 3: You Can't Come to my Birthday Party: Learn how to respond with these and other playground woes, what to do if your child is the one doing the excluding and some suggestions for the modern day parenting dilemma: should you invite the whole class to the birthday party

Summary: In this episode, the hosts discuss the challenges children face with social rejection, particularly in the context of playdates and birthday parties. They emphasize the importance of teaching children resilience and problem-solving skills when dealing with rejection. The conversation also covers the etiquette of inviting classmates to birthday parties and how to handle situations where children are excluded from play. The hosts provide practical tips for parents to help their children navigate these social dynamics effectively. takeaways
  • Understand that rejection is a common experience for children.
  • Parents should check their own emotional responses to their child's rejection.
  • Encourage children to express their feelings about rejection.
  • Teach children problem-solving skills for social situations.
  • Role-playing can help children navigate social dynamics.
  • It's important to include all children during playdates at home.
  • Establish family rules about inclusion during playdates.
  • Discuss the importance of smaller birthday parties as children grow older.
  • Help children understand that not being invited to a party is not a crisis.
  • Share personal stories of rejection to normalize the experience.
Sound Bites
  • "This is going to happen."
  • "How did that make you feel?"
  • "It's a problem that is solvable."
Chapters Chapters
  • (00:00:00) - Understanding Rejection in Childhood
  • (00:17:49) - Navigating Playdates and Social Dynamics
  • (00:27:43) - Birthday Party Etiquette and Social Skills
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