In this episode of Love Liaisons, Kathryn and Marina explore ethical non-monogamy (ENM), polyamory, and the idea that monogamy may not be the only—or even the most natural—relationship model. They share personal stories, cultural perspectives, and statistics about ENM, discussing why more people are questioning traditional monogamy.

Key Highlights:

•Defining ENM: The differences between polyamory, swinging, and open relationships.

•Sharing experiences in polyamory and why some people believe monogamy is a societal construct.

•Attachment & Polyamory: Insights from Polysecure by Jessica Fern, exploring how attachment styles influence non-monogamous relationships.

•Contrasting Viewpoints: why monogamy has worked for many of our married friends.

•Debunking Myths: Addressing common misconceptions like “ENM is just an excuse to sleep around.”

•Final Takeaways: Encouraging listeners to explore relationships that align with their values—monogamous or not.

Resources & Recommended Reading:

•Books:

•Polysecure by Jessica Fern – Examines how attachment theory applies to ENM.

•The Ethical Slut by Dossie Easton & Janet Hardy – A foundational guide to navigating non-monogamy ethically.

•Online Resources:

•More Than Two – Guide to polyamory.

•National Coalition for Sexual Freedom – Advocacy for alternative relationship structures.

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