Ever looked around at your life and thought… is this really it? You’ve got it all, your career, your family — but deep down, you’re still searching for more. More joy. More time for you.

And worse? You feel guilty for even thinking it.

In this episode of The Selfish Snob, Dr. Onaysia Martinez — identity liberation + catalyst coach — unpacks why high-achieving women feel stuck even after “making it,” and how to stop letting external validation dictate your worth.

✨ In this episode, you’ll learn: • How your mindset is shaped by generational expectations and performance-based worth • Why mindfulness is essential to personal development and career clarity • The cost of tying your identity to achievements, roles, and being “the strong one” • How to redefine leadership from the inside out in a way that feels good to you

If you’ve ever said: 🔎 “I want more, but I feel selfish even thinking about it” 🔎 “I don’t know who I am outside of my job and accomplishments” 🔎 “I’m scared to want something different — what will people think?”

...this episode was made for you.

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