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Okay, so here’s my take — and yes, I totally geeked out writing this: So, in this episode of Three for the Founders, these three guys from Phi Beta Sigma (it’s a fraternity, but not the wild “college movie” kind) start talking about what it actually means to “be a man” in 2025. And spoiler: it’s not just about being able to lift heavy stuff or never crying.

They talk about how old-school ideas of manhood can be kinda… broken? Like, they don’t leave space for feelings, therapy, or just saying “hey, I’m not okay.” And they explain how brotherhood means actually showing up for each other, not just fist-bumping and pretending you’re fine.

Honestly, it’s like they’re trying to upgrade masculinity so it works for real people instead of some cartoon version of a “tough guy.”

Action Items:

1. Think about what “being a man” actually means to you (even if you’re not a guy).
2. Talk to your friends about mental health without making it weird.
3. Ask your dad, uncle, or brother what they think about manhood — and actually listen.
4. Maybe… cry if you need to? No shame.

Questions to Think About:

• Who decided what “real men” are supposed to act like in the first place?
• Why is it easier for guys to talk about sports than their feelings?
• Can vulnerability be a kind of strength?
• What would happen if men stopped trying to “act tough” all the time?

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