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In today’s episode, we’re diving deep into a topic that so many women silently struggle with: the guilt that comes with setting boundaries—especially when we’ve been taught, modeled, or conditioned to prioritize others over ourselves.

Over the past month, I’ve spoken with countless women and conducted social media polls to explore how boundaries impact relationships, and one recurring theme emerged: fear. Fear that setting boundaries will damage our relationships. Fear of being seen as selfish. Fear of being abandoned or judged. And, most of all, a heavy dose of guilt—that big G word that creeps in when we start prioritizing our own needs.

In this heart-centered conversation, I’m breaking down:

• Why setting boundaries triggers guilt, especially if you’ve never seen it modeled or practiced

• How cultural conditioning (particularly in South Asian communities) adds layers of complexity when it comes to asserting ourselves

• Why pushback, shaming, and guilt-tripping from others often signal that boundaries are exactly what’s needed

• How guilt is not a sign that you're doing something wrong—but rather a sign that you're doing something new

• The physical and emotional sensations guilt can bring up—and how to work with them, not against them

• My own journey with boundary guilt, how I traced it back to feelings of unworthiness, and the small but powerful steps I took to redefine love and self-worth

You'll hear real talk about the loneliness that can come from standing up for yourself, the discomfort that bubbles up when you step into unknown emotional territory, and the inner dialogue that can make or break your healing journey. And most importantly, you’ll get a compassionate reminder that you are allowed to set limits. You are allowed to be disappointed in others and still protect your peace. You are allowed to grow, even if it makes others uncomfortable.

Whether you’re just starting your boundary journey or are deep in the practice but still wrestling with guilt, this episode is for you. Together, we’ll unpack:

• How to explore the root of your guilt

• How to identify where it lives in your body

• How to rewrite the internal script that says you must sacrifice your needs to be worthy of love

• How to build resilience so that what once felt like “literal death” becomes something you do with ease

Setting boundaries isn’t about shutting people out—it’s about letting the right people in. The ones who love and respect you for you. And while guilt may always be part of the process, it doesn’t have to control your choices. It can be your guide, your teacher, and eventually, your liberation.

If you need support navigating your own feelings of guilt or want coaching on building your boundary muscle, send me a message on social media or reach out via email at n.singh@inspiredbyneha.com. You don’t have to do this alone.

You are not selfish for setting boundaries. You are brave. You are healing. And you are so deeply worthy.

With love and endless hugs,
Neha 💛

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