Do you feel like you've done everything right, but still feel empty inside? That bone-deep emotional tiredness that no amount of sleep can fix? The quiet disconnection from yourself and what truly matters?

If you're in your 40s, 50s, 60s, or beyond—someone who's spent their life taking care of others, holding it all together, but somewhere along the way lost touch with themselves—this episode is for you.

Dr. Elisha Goldstein addresses something he's heard countless times from clients, friends, and family: "I don't think I'm broken, but I do feel like I abandoned myself a long time ago."

The truth? You're not broken. You've just learned protective patterns that once kept you safe but may now be keeping you stuck.

Dr. Goldstein shares the invisible moments where we silence our needs, override our bodies, and stay busy to avoid what's really there. More importantly, he offers practical "tiny shifts" from his upcoming book that can gently guide you back home to yourself.

In this episode, you'll discover:

✅ Why self-abandonment happens in small, invisible moments over time

✅ How saying yes when you mean no became a survival strategy

✅ The three tiny shifts that can bring you back to yourself

✅ Why naming your patterns is the beginning of changing them

✅ How to speak to yourself like someone you love

✅ Why you're never too old or too far gone to reconnect with your life

⏱Timestamps:

00:00 – The Invisible Moments We Lose Ourselves

01:00 – You're Not Broken: Understanding Self-Abandonment

02:00 – How We Abandon Ourselves in Small Ways

03:00 – Protective Patterns That Keep Us Hostage

04:00 – Tiny Shifts for Emotional Health

05:00 – Shift #1: Recognize Your Emotional Loop

05:44 – Newsletter Break

06:24 – Shift #2: Use Your Breath to Ground

07:00 – A Personal Story of Overwhelm

08:00 – From Survival Mode to Strength

09:00 – Real Stories of Transformation

10:00 – You're Not Too Old to Change

11:00 – Starting with One Breath

11:47 – Closing & Resources

🌱Ready to stop abandoning yourself? This episode is just the beginning. Dr. Goldstein's upcoming book Tiny Shifts (2026) explores the small pivots that create the biggest impacts on your stress, relationships, and longevity.

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If you've ever felt stuck knowing what to do but struggling to actually do it—this conversation will give you both hope and practical wisdom.

Dr. Elisha Goldstein sits down with Eric Zimmer, host of The One You Feed podcast, for an honest exploration of change, self-sabotage, and emotional steadiness. Eric brings both professional insight from interviewing hundreds of experts and the raw authenticity of someone who went from homeless heroin addiction to hosting one of the most impactful podcasts on personal growth.

🔹 In this episode, we explore:

The moment hope returned in Eric's darkest period—and why "keep coming back" became his mantra

Why the Two Wolves parable serves as a daily compass

The truth about why we struggle to receive good things and take compliments

Eric's Six Saboteurs of Self-Control—the hidden patterns that keep us stuck

Why "little by little" beats dramatic change every time

The difference between structural change and emotional resistance

How AI is changing our relationship with intelligence and intimacy

Why there's no "right" path for everyone—and how to find what works for you

💡 Key Insight: Change happens "little bit by little bit"—even dramatic transformations are built on thousands of small daily decisions.

⏱ Chapters:

00:00 A Life in Ruins: My Story of Addiction

00:24 The Struggle of Self-Improvement

01:00 Introducing Eric Zimmer: A Journey of Transformation

04:25 The Power of Hope in Recovery

13:04 The Two Wolves: A Guiding Compass

19:52 Overcoming Self-Doubt and Resistance

32:43 Overcoming Resistance: Just Start

33:31 Newsletter Invitation

34:11 Awareness and Action: Bridging the Gap

34:57 Diagnosing Resistance and Procrastination

38:08 The Role of Self-Compassion and Growth Mindset

42:57 Small Steps to Build Motivation

45:12 AI and Emotional Health

57:50 Reflections on Emotional Health and Personal Growth

01:04:08 Conclusion and Community Invitation

01:06:28 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

🔗 Resources

✨ Get Eric's Six Saboteurs of Self-Control (Free)

🎧 The One You Feed Podcast: Available on all platforms

🌱 Dr. Goldstein's Tools:

Therapeutic Coaching (Free Consult)

Newsletter & Free Guide

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What if the key to feeling more grounded, connected, and emotionally resilient wasn't about being perfect or calm—but about being prepared?

In this powerful episode of the Emotional Longevity Podcast, Dr. Elisha Goldstein sits down with Dr. Emily Anhalt, clinical psychologist, founder of Coa, and author of "Flex Your Feelings," to explore what it really takes to ride the edge of emotional discomfort without shutting down or checking out.

From breaking an emotional sweat to navigating modern challenges like AI companions and digital communication, Emily reveals the research-backed framework that transforms how we approach mental health, treating it more like going to the gym and less like going to the doctor.

In this episode, we explore:

• The 7 traits of emotional fitness and why self-awareness is just the beginning
• "Breaking an emotional sweat" - how discomfort becomes your greatest teacher
• Why preparation beats perfection for handling life's inevitable challenges
• The power of playfulness and how it signals safety in relationships
• Resilience redefined - bouncing forward instead of bouncing back
• Modern communication challenges including AI, emojis, and authentic connection
• Imposter syndrome decoded - when external praise doesn't match internal dialogue
• Personal stories of early career struggles and the gifts hidden in rejection

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Get Your Free 5 Prompt AI Guide

Learn more about Dr. Emily

• Website
• Instagram
• Speaking: Available for corporate speaking engagements
• "Flex Your Feelings" - Available wherever books are sold

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If you’ve ever watched a child (or yourself) struggle with focus, motivation, or follow-through and thought, “They know what to do—so why can’t they do it?”—this episode will change how you see ADHD.

Dr. Elisha Goldstein sits down with Michael McLeod, speech pathologist and founder of GrowNOW ADHD, to explore a powerful shift in understanding: ADHD is less about attention and more about performance under pressure, deeply tied to emotional regulation and inner safety.

In this eye-opening conversation, they explore:

• Why emotionally sensitive kids often shut down—not act out
• How typical ADHD strategies miss the emotional root
• What to do before you try reward charts or productivity hacks
• Simple mindset shifts that help children build internal trust
• Why "connection before correction" leads to lasting growth
• Whether you're a parent, teacher, or adult navigating ADHD yourself, this episode will give you tools, validation, and a fresh path forward.

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Ever feel like your brain is just... fried? You’re not alone—and it’s not a personal failure. It’s your nervous system trying to keep up in a world that never shuts off. In this solo episode of The Emotional Longevity Podcast, Dr. Elisha Goldstein breaks down why we get stuck in emotional loops of anxiety, fatigue, and self-doubt—and how to interrupt them with one small, research-backed shift. If you're stuck in overthinking, checking your inbox 100 times a day, or constantly bracing for what's next—this episode is your reset. Dr. Goldstein shares: What “anxious loops” really are (and how they form) The neuroscience of burnout and identity fusion Why naming your loop can instantly give you more space and choice A 3-step daily reset grounded in behavioral science to rewire calm, clarity, and control These are tiny shifts that build real momentum—and might just save your brain from the burnout spiral.

In this episode, we explore:

• Why Your Brain Feels Fried
• The Anxiety Loop Explained
• When Preparation Becomes Obsession
• Identity Fusion and “I’m Just an Anxious Person”
• The Tiny Shift That Breaks the Loop
• How to Practice the Reset Daily

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You don’t need to get rid of your anxiety to feel better.

In today’s solo episode of The Emotional Longevity Podcast, Dr. Elisha Goldstein challenges the myth that anxiety is a problem to fix—and shows you how to see it for what it really is: a protective, human process that you can learn to live with, not fear.

This episode will help you:

• Understand the real purpose of anxiety (and why it’s not a flaw)
• Spot when anxiety becomes harmful—and how to stop it from running your life
• Defuse from the “I’m just an anxious person” identity
• Practice 3 research-backed tools to create space from anxiety and reclaim your sense of agency
• Learn the bus driver metaphor to remember: anxiety may be along for the ride, but you’re still in control

If you’ve ever thought, If I could just get rid of this anxiety, everything would finally feel better, this episode is your wake-up call. You don’t have to be free from anxiety—you can be free with it.

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Can AI actually help with anxiety?

In this solo episode of The Emotional Longevity Podcast, Dr. Elisha Goldstein explores how artificial intelligence, when used with intention, can support emotional health. With five guided prompts rooted in psychology and mindfulness, you'll learn how to use AI as a reflective tool - not a replacement for therapy, but a support system that can increase clarity, calm, and self-compassion.

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed or stuck in anxious loops, this episode offers you practical ways to pause, reframe, and come back to yourself - using a tool that’s already in your pocket.

Dr. Goldstein shares:

• Why AI can be a surprising ally in managing anxiety
• How to use 5 research-backed prompts to support your emotional well-being
• The science behind emotional labeling, reframing, and nervous system regulation
• How self-compassion and daily structure shift your relationship to anxiety
• These aren’t just ideas—they’re tiny shifts you can try today.

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This One Shift Can Change Your Life Trajectory | Dr. Gregory Walton on Belonging, Belief & Growth

Episode Overview:

What if the biggest shifts in your life didn’t require radical change—but just a new way of seeing your challenges?

In this episode of the Emotional Longevity Podcast, Dr. Elisha Goldstein sits down with Dr. Gregory Walton—Stanford professor, belonging researcher, and co-author of Ordinary Magic—to explore the life-changing science behind tiny psychological shifts.

From a 4-year-old’s moral outrage to groundbreaking work on belonging, growth mindset, and emotional spirals, Greg reveals how simple interventions—like reframing feedback or affirming connection before conflict—can reshape relationships, motivation, and even educational equity.

We dive into research-backed micro-interventions, including how to help kids believe in themselves, why self-worth is the hidden engine behind behavior change, and how storytelling and support can reverse downward spirals.

This conversation is packed with powerful strategies to build emotional resilience—and to spiral up.

In this episode, we cover:

• The emotional power of “ordinary magic”
• How small shifts in mindset change real-world outcomes
• The truth about self-worth, belonging, and motivation
• Why most conflict is about love, not logistics
• How to build psychological safety in relationships
• What the “Lifting the Bar” study reveals about second chances
• Real strategies to unlock growth, even after failure

Connect with Gregory Walton:

Ordinary Magic available wherever books are sold

• Website

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