What do you do when someone you love is in active addiction?
Do you leave? Do you stay?
How do you love them without losing yourself?

In this episode, we flip the mic a little. Jay asks Jennifer real, unfiltered questions about what it was like to be the spouse of someone in active alcoholism — before the recovery, before the healing, in the thick of it.

This isn’t a formula. It’s a conversation.
And it’s one a lot of people need to hear.

💬 In this episode, we talk about:

• • What it actually felt like to love someone in active addiction

• • Why Jennifer stayed — and what would’ve made her leave

• • The moment she realized she needed her own recovery

  • What helped (and what didn’t) when she was trying to support Jay

• • Encouragement for anyone who’s still in the middle of it

• Whether you're walking through this yourself or you love someone who is, this episode offers truth, hope, and real permission to take care of your own heart in the process.

  
  

  🔗 Resources Mentioned:

  👉 Find a Celebrate Recovery group near you: ⁠https://www.celebraterecovery.com/locator⁠

  👉 Find an Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) meeting near you: ⁠https://www.aa.org/find-aa⁠

  👉 Find a Narcotics Anonymous (NA) meeting near you:

  https://na.org/meetingsearch/

  👉 Need support for codependency? Check out CoDA: https://coda.org/find-a-meeting/

  
  

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  New episodes every Wednesday.Share this one with a couple walking through hard things.We're still recovering — and we’re rooting for you. 🖤

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