Let’s be honest—growth isn’t always glamorous. In this episode, I tackle a raw and real truth about leadership, entrepreneurship, and building anything worthwhile: it’s going to suck sometimes. Whether you’re transitioning into a leadership role, breaking out of a corporate rut, or chasing a dream that feels just out of reach, the path forward will require more grit than glamor.

I share my take on why most people stay stuck at the same level year after year, and how those who break through are the ones willing to get uncomfortable, take a step back, and put in the work that no one sees. This one’s a wake-up call for anyone looking to lead, grow, and truly level up in life and business.

Timeline Summary

[0:00] - Introduction

[0:37] - Why we require leaders to start in the trenches

[1:15] - The myth of only doing what you “enjoy”

[2:20] - You want to lead? Prove you’re willing to do the work

[2:56] - Most people aren’t built for entrepreneurship—and that’s okay

[3:33] - In business, you are the player and the coach

[4:20] - Why you haven’t broken through yet: ego and resistance to discomfort

[5:09] - The truth about what it takes to be in the top 1%

[5:47] - Read Ego Is the Enemy, and embrace the long road

[6:01] - Show up, do the hard thing, and keep doing it—for a decade

Key Takeaways

1. Leadership begins with service – True leaders must first prove they’re willing to do the work they expect from others.

2. Success demands sacrifice – If you’re not willing to “embrace the suck,” you’ll never earn the results you want.

3. Ego is the biggest barrier to growth – Set it aside, take the long road, and stay in it longer than everyone else.

Links & Resources

• Recommended reading: Ego Is the Enemy by Ryan Holiday

• Follow me on social media for more insights and updates

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