Divorce has a way of cracking us open, forcing us to confront truths we may have avoided, and reshaping the way we move through the world. In this episode of Divorce Happens, I sit down with Amanda Goetz—two-time founder, four-time CMO, and author of the upcoming book Toxic Grit—to talk about the lessons she learned while navigating her own high-stakes divorce. From financial shocks to emotional entanglements, Amanda shares candidly about the missteps, the strategies, and the breakthroughs that helped her reclaim her power.

With honesty and clarity, Amanda reveals what it was like to be a successful executive making over $200,000 a year while still finding herself financially manipulated during her divorce. She discusses the importance of knowing where your money is, the hard-earned wisdom of choosing mediation over drawn-out litigation, and the gut-punch reality of how numbers on tax returns can shape your entire settlement. But she doesn’t stop at the legal and financial: Amanda also opens up about the emotional hooks of divorce, from learning to respond with “facts, not emotions” to creating rituals that sever lingering ties of control.

What emerges from our conversation is not just a survival guide but a framework for transformation. Amanda encourages listeners to embrace divorce as a cocoon moment—a chance to explore new versions of themselves, step into main character energy, and learn which people and practices help them rise to higher frequencies. Her story is proof that while divorce breaks us open, it also invites us into a new, more expansive chapter of life. If you’ve ever wondered how to navigate both the chaos and the clarity of starting over, this episode will leave you with hope, courage, and actionable wisdom.

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Divorce has a way of pulling everything to the surface—the grief, the guilt, the relief, the fear, and the hope. In this episode of Divorce Happens, Olivia sits down with relationship expert and EFT tapping practitioner Lizzy Gobst to explore what happens when all those emotions collide, and how to create space for them without being swallowed whole. Lizzy reminds us that mixed feelings don’t cancel each other out—they’re proof that we’re human, healing, and moving forward in our own time.

With a background in communication coaching and emotional regulation, Lizzy brings both warmth and practicality to the conversation. She explains the science and simplicity of EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique), a method that uses tapping on acupressure points to soothe anxiety, shift subconscious patterns, and reconnect us to agency. Through stories of her clients—and her own life—she illustrates how tapping can transform “stuck” moments into opportunities for insight, whether it’s navigating difficult conversations with an ex, handling paperwork that sparks dread, or untangling old family patterns that resurface post-divorce.

At its core, this episode is about reclaiming calm in the chaos. Lizzy offers listeners permission to hold contradictory feelings—grief alongside gratitude, fear alongside excitement—while also equipping them with a tool to quiet spirals in real time. The conversation is grounding, hopeful, and filled with tangible reminders that healing isn’t about erasing the past, but about creating new patterns that help us live fully in the present.

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The first truth Meredith Beardmore learned in divorce was deceptively simple: she wasn’t “crazy”—she was intuitive. In today’s conversation, Meredith—a therapist, author, and creator of the YouTube channel Men With Mare, where she offers therapeutic reactions to lyric-driven songs—walks us through the moment her body knew what her brain was not yet allowed to say out loud. The arguments that looked small from the outside (like whether her son should get ear tubes) were flares on the horizon. The real fire, she later discovered, was fueled by hidden drug use, financial fallout, and betrayal. That’s when the second truth arrived: when a partner becomes an adversary, protecting your child means protecting your own knowing.

Meredith tells the story without varnish. She moved from New York City back to Ohio for family support, charged therapy to credit cards, and watched the numbers climb while her shame tried to keep pace. She names aloud what so many listeners whisper to themselves: freedom is expensive. Debt stacks, timelines stretch, and at every turn there’s unsolicited commentary from the sidelines—neighbors praising “bike rides,” strangers doubting emotional abuse because it leaves no bruise. But fast doesn’t equal free, and every hard choice became, in her words, “a down payment toward my peace.”

And then the third truth: grace. Grace for the version of you that didn’t have all the information, grace for the professional who didn’t predict the plot twist, grace for the parent who is doing it all—because she was doing it all even before she left. Meredith’s memoir, The Plan B Chronicles: Divorce Defines Liberation, braids survival writing with therapeutic tools and pop-culture echoes to offer clarity without cliché. Listeners will leave with two grounding shifts: trust your intuition even without “proof,” and treat every practical step—therapy, safety planning, strategic boundaries—as an investment in future you. It will get better. You are stronger than you know.

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The first friendships to change after divorce aren’t always the loud ones—they’re the quiet ones that stop texting back. In this episode, Olivia sits down with psychotherapist and relationship specialist Stevie Blum to name that ache and offer language for it. Stevie works with high-achieving women navigating life transitions, anxiety, and perfectionism, helping them “rewire” unhelpful patterns and design lives aligned with their higher selves. Together, they map the overlooked grief of friendship during divorce: the early rush of check-ins that fades, the isolation of being the first in your circle to separate, and the sting of well-meaning but misguided advice.

Stevie offers a compassionate toolkit for moments when you feel dropped by your people. She explains the spotlight effect—how we overestimate the space we occupy in others’ lives—and why depersonalizing helps. She shares how to turn a complaint into a clear request (“It would mean a lot if you checked in on Fridays” or “Please include me when your family does Saturday plans”), and gives boundary scripts for friends who keep saying the wrong thing. When a repair isn’t possible, she introduces her gentle sequence: solve, reframe, accept—and reminds us that acceptance isn’t approval; it’s choosing not to fight what’s true.

Threaded through is Stevie’s wave metaphor for big feelings: stop thrashing, let the water roll over you, and trust there is another side. Listeners will leave with hope and practical language—assume best intent, ask for what you need, offer friends “the gift” of feedback—and a reframe that heals both directions: “Everyone’s doing the best they can…and they can do better.” Vulnerability can deepen certain friendships, reveal unexpected allies, and rebuild the confidence you’ll use everywhere else—from texting your best friend to asking your lawyer for what you deserve.

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The end of a marriage can feel like a storm—messy, disorienting, and all-consuming. But what if, instead of letting the wreckage define you, you saw it as the start of a completely different chapter? In this episode of Divorce Happens, I sit down with Michelle Dempsey-Multack, certified divorce and co-parenting specialist, trauma and resilience coach, and bestselling author of Moms Moving On. Known as the “OG Divorce Queen,” Michelle has helped thousands of people not just survive divorce, but create a future they’re proud of—one that prioritizes peace, personal growth, and the well-being of their children.

Drawing on her own divorce and years of working with clients, Michelle shares the hard-earned lessons that can completely shift the way you navigate separation. She reminds us that divorce is an adult’s choice, but a child’s lived experience—and that how we show up after the split matters far more than the split itself. Through candid stories and actionable advice, she challenges us to take ownership of our role in conflict, let go of the need to “win” against an ex, and see the potential for transformation in the midst of heartbreak.

This conversation is equal parts grounding and hopeful, offering listeners a blueprint for co-parenting without resentment, healing without losing yourself, and raising children who don’t have to recover from their parents’ divorce. You’ll walk away with a fresh perspective on ego, boundaries, and why choosing peace over power can change everything. Whether you’re knee-deep in the process or on the other side looking to rebuild, Michelle’s insights will leave you feeling less alone—and more equipped to move forward.

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Some divorces are quiet, others are catastrophic. For Sarah May, it was the latter—a marriage that imploded in betrayal and emotional abuse when she was just 24, followed by a decade-long healing journey she never expected. In this deeply moving episode, Sarah shares how that early unraveling forced her into a reckoning with her own story: her codependency, her childhood wounds, and the patterns that made dysfunction feel like home. Through tears, therapy, and truth-telling, she slowly rebuilt herself—not for a partner, not for the outside world, but for the girl inside who had always longed to feel safe.

Sarah is an author, yoga teacher, Reiki practitioner, and intuitive healing guide whose debut memoir She Journeys: A Memoir of Heartbreak and Homecoming is a stunning reflection on how we reclaim ourselves after devastating loss. In this conversation, she joins Olivia to explore the hard-won wisdom she carries now—the kind that only comes from surviving what you once thought might break you. Together, they talk honestly about the trap of blame, the long road to self-responsibility, and the radical act of forgiving both yourself and the women who were part of the harm.

Listeners will walk away with powerful mindset shifts: that healing doesn’t mean letting others off the hook—it means setting yourself free. That self-forgiveness is more powerful than any apology. And that yes, you will love again—but only after you learn to love yourself first. This episode is a balm for anyone who’s ever looked around the ruins of a life and wondered, “How do I begin again?” The answer, as Sarah shows us, is: one brave, honest page at a time.

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When your world falls apart, the idea of starting over can feel both impossible and overwhelming. In this emotionally rich episode of Divorce Happens, Olivia Howell sits down with Taylor Beck, certified ADR divorce coach and intuitive guide, to explore what it really means to move forward when you're feeling stuck in the wake of a life-changing separation. With warmth, humor, and hard-earned insight, Taylor shares her compassionate approach to coaching women through the fog of divorce—helping them reconnect with their intuition, reclaim their power, and take one small, courageous step at a time.

Taylor has helped countless women navigate the pivotal moments before, during, and after divorce—from making the decision to leave, to reentering the dating world, to establishing co-parenting boundaries. Drawing from her extensive experience and her work through Revive + Rise Coaching, she emphasizes the importance of sustainable rituals, nervous system care, and somatic healing. Whether it's making your bed, going for a walk, or playing your favorite song in the morning, Taylor reminds listeners that transformation starts with the tiniest of choices. Her message is clear: healing doesn’t require perfection—it just requires presence.

Listeners will walk away from this episode with a renewed sense of hope, permission to slow down, and the reminder that healing is nonlinear—and deeply personal. Taylor offers a powerful mindset shift: temporary pain is worth enduring when it leads to permanent peace. If you’ve been feeling paralyzed in your post-divorce life, this conversation is your sign to begin again—with grace, clarity, and support at your side.

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No one tells you that the real work begins after the divorce papers are signed. You’ve survived the legal battle, maybe even the emotional minefield—but now, you're left with silence, a new reality, and a nervous system that doesn’t know what safety feels like anymore. In this powerful episode of Divorce Happens, host Olivia Howell sits down with Madison Rose, CEO of Better Half to Whole and a somatic practitioner specializing in divorce recovery, to talk about what healing really looks like after divorce.

Madison brings a refreshing blend of compassion and practicality to the table, walking us through how divorce recovery starts with the smallest things—drinking water, brushing your hair, figuring out what to eat when everything feels unfamiliar. She explains how trauma from divorce doesn’t just live in our minds, but in our bodies, often resurfacing as physical reactions to everyday triggers. With warmth and clarity, Madison shares how her work helps people regulate their nervous systems and find steadiness again, even while still co-parenting or dealing with an ex.

Together, Olivia and Madison explore how post-divorce healing is nonlinear, layered, and deeply individual. Whether it takes six months or six years, Madison reminds us that wholeness is not only possible, but worth fighting for. This episode is a must-listen for anyone who’s quietly wondering why they don’t feel “done” yet—and offers concrete tools and hope for the long road home to yourself.

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