"Welcome to the "Don't Pick the Scab Podcast. In this episode, I have the privilege of speaking with Dr. Gloria Vanderhorst, a seasoned psychologist, insightful author, and advocate for men’s emotional healing. Together, we dive deep into the challenges men over 40 face during divorce recovery and how they can rediscover themselves in the process.

💔 Divorce can feel like being cut in half, but you’re not alone. Dr. Vanderhorst sheds light on how society trains men from a young age to suppress emotions, making it harder to deal with the pain of loss and rejection. She explains how this emotional disconnection can lead to resentment, loneliness, and struggles in rebuilding confidence. But there’s hope! With the right tools, support, and mindset, men can reconnect with their authentic selves and thrive after divorce.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• Why men often suppress emotions and how this impacts divorce recovery.

• The importance of self-care 🧘‍♂️ and practical ways to start prioritizing yourself.

• How to handle adversarial co-parenting while keeping your kids’ well-being in focus.

• The role of therapy and men's groups in unlocking emotional growth and resilience.

• Actionable strategies for setting boundaries with your ex to maintain your sanity.

• Tips for managing loneliness and rebuilding confidence after a painful breakup.

Key Takeaways from Dr. Vanderhorst:

🔹 Men thrive in connection. Whether it’s through therapy, support groups, or friendships, building meaningful relationships is essential to healing.

🔹 Resentment is like quicksand. You can’t escape it alone, but with help, you can move forward stronger than ever.

🔹 Your emotions are your superpower. By reconnecting with your feelings, you can rediscover your identity and rebuild your life.

🎯 Are you struggling with divorce or feeling stuck in resentment? Start by taking small steps today. Whether it’s reaching out to a therapist, exploring a hobby from childhood, or simply being present with your emotions, every move forward counts.

💡 Call to Action:

👉 What’s your biggest struggle in divorce recovery? Let me know in the comments below! Your story could help others feel less alone. Also, don’t forget to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and SHARE this video with someone who might need it. 💪

📲 Looking for more resources from Dr. Gloria Vanderhorst? Visit her website at www.drvanderhorst.com for expert advice and guidance tailored to men over 40.

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🎙️ Welcome to the Don't Pick the Scab Podcast with David!

In this powerful episode, we’re diving deep into a story of resilience, transformation, and healing with former NFL player Daniel Esposito. At just 50 years old, Daniel faced a crossroads in his life: battling fibromyalgia, degenerative arthritis, and the looming prospect of four joint replacement surgeries. But instead of surrendering to the pain and limitations, Daniel embarked on a journey of physical, mental, and spiritual healing that has redefined what’s possible for men over 40.

🏆 Today, Daniel is a two-time USA Track and Field Masters National Champion and a world-ranked sprinter, proving that life after adversity can be stronger than ever. In this episode, he shares the secrets behind his revolutionary Undo Method, an approach that combines science-backed principles, nutrition, and mindset to help others break free from chronic pain and reclaim their lives.

🔑 What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• How Daniel turned his pain into purpose and became an advocate for healing through science and faith.

• The Undo Method Playbook, a practical guide for overcoming ailments like fibromyalgia and chronic arthritis.

• The role of nutrition and fasting in breaking down scar tissue and promoting recovery.

• Why chronic pain often leads to emotional challenges and how to navigate them.

• How men over 40 can balance physical recovery with emotional healing after divorce, loss, or trauma.

Daniel doesn’t just offer advice—he provides actionable tools and inspiring hope for anyone feeling trapped by their circumstances. Whether you’re struggling with the aftermath of divorce or dealing with chronic physical pain, this episode is packed with insights to help you take the first steps toward reclaiming your life.

💡 Key Highlights:

• Daniel’s journey from NFL fame to fighting debilitating pain and anxiety.

• The science behind enzymes, collagen, and inflammation, and their role in recovery.

• Why understanding your mental health triggers and DNA can lead to better emotional balance.

• How spirituality and faith played a crucial role in Daniel’s recovery and mindset shift.

🌟 This Episode is for You If:

• You’re a man over 40 navigating divorce recovery or major life changes.

• You’ve experienced chronic pain and are searching for holistic, non-medical solutions.

• You’re seeking tools to rebuild your physical and emotional strength.

👊 Your Comeback Starts Here! Don’t miss this incredible conversation with Daniel Esposito, filled with hope, healing, and the tools you need to take control of your life.

🔥 If you found this episode valuable, don’t forget to like, comment, and subscribe for more inspiring stories and practical advice for men over 40. Share your thoughts below—what was your biggest takeaway from Daniel’s journey? Let’s keep this conversation going!

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Welcome to the Don’t Pick the Scab Podcast, where we get real about what it takes for men over 40 to recover, rebuild, and thrive after divorce. I’m your host, David, and in this episode, I’m joined by Frank Sinclair—the Chief Encouragement Officer at Dream Again Business Consulting, acclaimed author, and host of the “Be Encouraged” podcast show.

Frank brings years of hands-on experience empowering men and entrepreneurs to find hope and overcome life's toughest setbacks—including divorce. In this candid conversation, we dive deep into the unique challenges men face after 40, from isolation and discouragement to rebuilding self-esteem, developing healthy habits, and setting new boundaries.

What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

• The Power of Encouragement: Why hope is the foundation of any successful recovery, and how to nurture it in your daily life.

• Frank’s Personal Story: From growing up in poverty to almost losing his wife—Frank shares how he turned life’s toughest moments into fuel for growth.

• Facing Your Own Role: Discover why true healing starts with honest self-reflection, not blaming your ex.

• Building Resilience: The role of “failing forward,” embracing mistakes, and why small, steady goals beat lofty, vague dreams.

• Self-Care for Men (Finally!): Why men often neglect their own needs, and practical ways to develop self-discipline, self-respect, and compassion—even if you’ve never done it before.

• Boundaries & Expectations: How to set and KEEP boundaries, communicate them clearly, and adjust your expectations for future relationships.

• The Role of Therapy: Breaking the stigma for men (especially men of color) and why seeking support is a sign of strength, not weakness.

• Recognizing Discouragement: Spotting the red flags (like isolation, fatigue, and loss of hope), and practical steps to reconnect and re-engage with life.

Frank also shares some of his favorite books and resources, including “Mindset” by Dr. Carol Dweck—tools that have helped countless men move from simply surviving to truly thriving after divorce.

If you’re a man over 40 feeling stuck, discouraged, or unsure how to move forward after divorce, this episode is for you!

👉 Listen now and start your journey toward hope, healing, and a better future.

💬 What’s been your biggest challenge or breakthrough in divorce recovery? Drop a comment below! Your story could help another man on his journey.

Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and share this episode with someone who needs a little encouragement today! And check the show notes for Frank’s book recommendations and links to his podcast.

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