In this eye-opening episode of Crow's Feet, journalist and thought leader Carl Honoré explores the complex world of status—how it shapes our lives, changes as we age, and can be reimagined for greater meaning. Drawing from his 5-part BBC series and personal experiences, Carl reveals how status is not just about professional achievements, but about human connection, community, and personal growth. Key insights include: Why status is fundamentally about respect given, not taken

• How social media has transformed our understanding of personal worth
• The importance of finding status beyond workplace achievements
• Strategies for maintaining dignity and influence as we age.

Carl challenges listeners to look beyond traditional status markers and embrace a more holistic, compassionate view of personal value—one that celebrates contribution, wisdom, and human connection.

For more information about Carl Honoré and his work, check out his website, where you'll find links to his books, podcasts, and videos.

And check out the insightful daily perspective by Crows Feet writers at www.crowsfeetlifeasweage.com.

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Betsy Allen talks with Carol Shamon about her divorce, the challenges she faced, what surprised her in good and not-so-good ways, and finding love again.

To read more from Carol, visit the following links:

On Substack:

https://carolshamon.substack.com/

On Instagram:

https://www.instagram.com/carol_shamon/

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With the rate of divorce happening faster than it is for any other demographic, an increasing number of adults over 50 are navigating the uncharted waters of singlehood. It can be a challenging ride as they adjust after a so-called “Gray Divorce.” For some, it’s a rough journey. Others cruise toward a new era of self-discovery and reinvention. But even under the best and most mutual of arrangements, it can be tough to keep things on an even keel.

Host Betsy Allen dissects the aftermath of Gray Divorce with clinical psychologist, psychotherapist, and author Dr. Judith Rabinor, including how to optimize chances for a positive way forward. You'll also hear from four older divorcees on the challenges they faced and the wisdom they gained from their experiences. This episode is the second of a two-part special on Gray Divorce presented by the Crow’s Feet: Life As We Age podcast. If you’d like to hear Part I (Split Decision: Busting the Gray Divorce), you can listen here.

For more information on Dr. Judith Rabinor, go to: judithruskayrabinorphd.com/

Book: Befriending Your Ex After Divorce: Making Life Better For You, Your Kids, and, Yes, Your Ex

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