Abortion is not shameful, controversial, or up for debate. It is normal, common, and a fundamental part of healthcare.

In this episode, I sit down with Sophie Nir, co-founder and CEO of the Abortion Positivity Project, for a bold, unfiltered, and deeply necessary conversation about abortion, stigma, and reclaiming the narrative. We talk about what abortion positivity actually means, why abortion is not a political issue but a politicised one, and how shame has been intentionally taught and reinforced in both culture and policy. Sophie breaks down the language we have been using for decades, from “pro-choice” to “safe, legal, and rare,” and why those frameworks actually distance us from abortion instead of supporting it. We also get into the real-life impact of abortion access, why abortion is overwhelmingly common and supported, and what it looks like to move from apologising for abortion to proudly standing behind it.

We talk about:

• why abortion is not political, but politicized

• the problem with language like “pro-choice” and “safe, legal, and rare”

• why abortion does not need to be justified to be valid

• how stigma directly impacts policy, access, and people’s lived experiences

• the reality of abortion access, restrictions, and who is most affected

• why the most common emotional response after abortion is relief

• how to start having confident, stigma-free conversations about abortion in everyday life

  
  

If you are ready to drop the shame, question the narratives you have been taught, and start speaking about abortion with clarity and confidence, this episode is your permission slip. You do not need to soften it. You do not need to apologise for it. You can support it, talk about it, and stand behind it fully.

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What if the end of your marriage is actually the beginning of your best sex life?

In this episode, I sit down with Amber Joy Simon, founder of QUIVR, for a real, funny, and deeply validating conversation about sex after divorce and what it actually means to choose pleasure over pressure. We talk about how so many women leave long-term relationships disconnected from their bodies, stuck in routine, and performing instead of actually experiencing pleasure. Amber shares her own journey from being in a formulaic sex life to rediscovering desire, safety, and curiosity, and why divorce can be the moment where everything finally opens up.

We also talk about:

• why your pleasure is your responsibility, not your partner’s

• moving out of “pick me” energy and into self-worth and boundaries

• how to rebuild confidence and feel safe receiving pleasure again

• the difference between performing in bed and actually experiencing pleasure

• why nervous system safety is required for real intimacy and connection

• how to listen to your body and trust what it is telling you

If you are navigating life after divorce, feeling unsure about intimacy again, or ready to experience sex in a completely different way, this episode is your reminder that this is not the end, it is a reset. You get to rewrite the script, choose yourself, and build a sex life that actually feels good in your body.

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What if the most important shift in your life is not the big, dramatic moment but the decision to start choosing yourself?

In this episode, I sit down with certified holistic sexuality educator and embodied intimacy coach Lauren Elise Rogers for a deeply honest, slightly unhinged in the best way, and incredibly validating conversation about the invisible season of becoming and what it really means to own your pleasure. We talk about what it looks like to slowly wake up inside a life that no longer fits, the conditioning that teaches women to abandon their desires, and the moment you realise that your pleasure is not someone else’s responsibility, it is yours.

Lauren shares her journey through a misaligned marriage, religious conditioning, and deep disconnection from her body, and how small, almost invisible choices helped her rebuild her sense of self, desire, and agency.

We talk about:

• the invisible season and why nothing feels like it is happening when everything is shifting

• how purity culture and societal scripts disconnect you from your desires

• losing yourself in roles and learning how to come back to who you are

• moving out of the martyr mindset and into self-led desire

• grief, loss, and rebuilding your life after everything falls apart

• learning how to choose yourself without guilt

• why becoming “selfish” might actually be the most aligned thing you do

If you are in a season where things feel unclear, slow, or quietly uncomfortable, this episode is your reminder that becoming does not always look dramatic. Sometimes it looks like choosing yourself in small ways, over and over again, and learning that your pleasure, your desires, and your life are yours to own.

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Opening your relationship is not a shortcut to better sex or fewer problems. If anything, it will expose every single communication issue you have been avoiding.

In this episode, I sit down with licensed clinical social worker and certified sex therapist Dr. Lee Phillips for a real, funny, and refreshingly honest conversation about ethical non-monogamy. We break down what ENM actually is, why it is not just about having more options, and how it requires way more communication, clarity, and emotional awareness than people expect. Dr. Lee shares his own experience navigating an open marriage, the realities of jealousy, and why most people get into trouble when they try to open a relationship from a place of disconnection instead of stability. We also get into dating apps, emotional availability, boundaries, and the difference between fear and caution when navigating new connections.

We talk about:

• what ethical non-monogamy actually means and the different forms it can take

• why opening a relationship will not fix communication problems, it will amplify them

• the importance of having a strong foundation before exploring ENM

• emotional bandwidth, time, and attention as boundaries people forget to set

• how different partners can have completely different approaches to non-monogamy

• why communication needs to be proactive, not reactive

• dating apps, red flags, and what emotional availability actually looks like

• fear versus caution when navigating vulnerability and new connections

If you have ever been curious about ethical non-monogamy, already exploring it, or questioning whether it could work for you, this episode will give you a much more honest picture of what it actually requires. It is not about more people, it is about more honesty, more communication, and a whole lot more self-awareness.

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What if I told you that you don’t have to have sex and that it's a perfectly valid and fulfilling way to live?

In this episode, we're flipping the script on one of society's biggest unspoken rules: that everyone wants sex, everyone should want sex, and if you don't, something must be wrong with you. Spoiler alert: that's a load of pressure we don't need.

I'm sitting down with the fabulous sex, relationship, and intimacy coach Jamie Azar to unpack the concept of compulsory sexuality. We're talking about why this idea flies under the radar, how it affects everyone (including sex coaches), and why saying "no thanks" to sex can be one of the most radical things you do. Whether you're asexual, going through a dry spell, or just feeling the pressure to perform, this conversation is your permission slip to do pleasure on your own terms.

We talk about:

- what compulsory sexuality is and how it shows up everywhere

- why not wanting sex doesn't mean that there’s something wrong with you

- the difference between sexual liberation and sexual obligation

- how to deal with mismatched desire in a relationship

- expanding your definition of sex and intimacy

- centring pleasure over performance

If you've ever felt like you're doing something wrong for not prioritizing sex, this episode is for you. Let's get curious about what actually feels good and not what we're told should feel good.

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Being a bad bitch isn't just about looking cute and doing self-care. It's about showing up for what you think is right, walking away from what's not working for you, and speaking the fuck out.

In this episode, I sit down with comedian, actress, and Bad Bitch Brunch creator Brittany Brave to talk about what it really means to embody confidence in every area of your life, including the bedroom. Brittany shares how she took back Bad Bitch Brunch from a misogynistic business owner, why she's an advocate for intimate partner violence survivors, and what she'll teach her future daughter about sex, agency, and consent.

This conversation gets real about domestic violence, sexual performance pressure, and betting on yourself as the foundation for everything.

We talk about

• what being a bad bitch actually means

• using comedy as reclaiming power after domestic violence

• Bad Bitch Brunch and creating spaces for women and queer talent

• dropping the sexual performance anxiety and just enjoying yourself

• why "I gave it up too soon" is patriarchal bullshit

• communication and consistency as the ultimate turn-ons

• raising daughters with body autonomy and sexual agency

• teaching consent, not shame

If you've been performing instead of enjoying, people-pleasing instead of speaking out, or wondering what confidence actually looks like in practice, this episode will remind you that being a bad bitch starts with betting on yourself.

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