Episodes

  • Abi Feltham: Alcoholism, BPD, Crack and Brain Tumours

    Abi Feltham: Alcoholism, BPD, Crack and Brain Tumours
    Dec 11 2025
    TW: In this episode we discuss drug use, alcohol abuse, suicide and cancer. This week Reed sits down with the brilliant, brutally honest, and heart-meltingly funny Abi Feltham - the creator and influencer who talks openly about addiction, recovery, BPD, crack binges in Thailand, brain cancer, and somehow has you laughing through the tears. If you’re flirting with sobriety, trying to hold on to it, or just feeling shaky as the festive season ramps up, this one is for you. Gentle, honest, raw, and full of “holy shit” wisdom. And if you want the ad-free video, plus our cosy December check-ins and community support, join us on Patreon. We love you. We’re proud of you. And we’re sober-curious with you. Rate & Review if this pod’s ever made you laugh, cry, or rethink your bits — and support the show for extra juicy chats on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious 💋 Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious • @florencebark • @reedamberx Follow Abi: @abi.feltham and check out her Linktree with all the details Sponsored by Erika Lust - Use code SPICY45 for 45% off the ENTIRE catalogue of films on Erika Lust's website including our latest creation 'Tips and Tricks for Anal Dips'. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
    Show More Show Less
    1 hr and 11 mins
  • Squirting - JOYclub’s Step-by-Step Guide

    Squirting - JOYclub’s Step-by-Step Guide
    Dec 4 2025
    This week, Florence & Reed are diving vulva-first into squirting science with JOYclub’s brand-new step-by-step squirting course - and yes, they watched it live so you don’t have to… except you’ll definitely want to after this 😂💦 Have a sneak peak here. From “is it pee?” to “why does it feel like I’m about to pee?” to “HOW THE ACTUAL F**K DID SHE SQUIRT LIKE THAT?!”, we’re breaking down the myths, the muscles, the mess, and the magic. We learnt why squirting ≠ ejaculation, why relaxing is half the battle, and why your G-spot is actually a G-ZONE (yes, fckers, is an expansive pleasure!). Plus, we talk positions, toys, confidence, and how to unlock your own waterfall - solo or with a partner. Head to JOYclub’s sex-ed pages for videos on sensual pegging, masturbation, rimming, real penis sizes and SO much more: joy.club/ccs Find our Come Curious profile at joy.club/ccjoy, join the forums, get kinky with us, and explore the community. In the UK? Sign up at joy.club/cc for a FREE premium membership (usually £9.99/month). No code needed - just verify your account. Follow JOYclub on IG @uk_joyclub and catch our cheeky YouTube minisode pulling the best bits from this episode 💦✨ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
    Show More Show Less
    55 mins
  • Orgasmic Births & Pleasure Hypnosis with Lucia Nicolini

    Orgasmic Births & Pleasure Hypnosis with Lucia Nicolini
    Nov 27 2025
    This week Florence sits down with pleasure-hypnosis and orgasmic-birth practitioner Lucia Nicolini for a mind-melting journey into how hypnosis can transform pregnancy, pleasure, and even the way you give birth. From reconnecting to your body after trauma (Florence shares her own experience) to the wild truth about orgasmic birth, nipple-stimulation hacks, sexy self-hypnosis, and why your mind is the biggest birthing muscle you have - this episode is equal parts soothing, spicy, and seriously paradigm-shifting. PLUS: Don’t miss our new film Tips & Tricks for Anal Dips over on Erika Lust - Use code SPICY45 for 45% off! Follow Lucia on her website www.lucianicolini.com And via IG @choose_holistic To watch the full video AD FREE, see exclusive content and support the podcast join our Patreon! Follow us on Instagram @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
    Show More Show Less
    56 mins
  • Sex Trends Throughout Time

    Sex Trends Throughout Time
    Nov 20 2025
    This week Florence and Reed ride the ADHD mania wave straight into sex trends, porn obsessions, squirting reviews, and the hottest holiday horniness you didn’t know you needed. From orgasm-during-pregnancy revelations to airport sex stats that blew everyone’s minds, it’s chaotic, juicy, and very, very curious. And THEN - after the watershed - we flip the switch. The second half is XXXtra filthy and only for our Patreon babes. Think explicit stories, fresh-out-the-bedroom updates, and Reed’s newest naked adventures… unlocked only on Patreon. PLUS our brand new Erica Lust film ‘Tips & Tricks for Anal Dips’ drops TODAY! Use code SPICY45 for 45% off (yes, really) via watch.erikalust.com Be sure to check out Reed' upcoming workshops via her Eventbrite page here Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
    Show More Show Less
    36 mins
  • Why is having a boyfriend embarrassing? Meet the writer Chanté Joseph

    Why is having a boyfriend embarrassing? Meet the writer Chanté Joseph
    Nov 13 2025
    She broke the internet with her latest article 'Is Having a Boyfriend Embarrasing Now?' and now she's joining Reed to talk about the dilemmas of modern dating. This week we've got writer Chanté Joseph on the show to dive into why posting your partner feels cringe, the heterosexual repair industry, and how to date without compromise. From breadcrumbing to boundary-setting, Chanté shares her unfiltered take on why men need to do better and how women can stop accepting less than they deserve. Rate & review if you've ever hidden a situationship from your Instagram grid and don't forget to watch the full episode and support us on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious Reed @reedamberx Guest: @chantayyjayy & Strangers in the City @strangersinthecityevents Sponsored by Erika Lust ❤️ Use our special code for 45% discount: SPICY45 Head to watch.erikalust.com Join Reed on 17th Dec for her next online event 'Addict for 10 Years: Lets Talk Drugs, Porn, Booze & Love' - tickets available here Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
    Show More Show Less
    58 mins
  • Busting myths & maximising moans w/ Amari

    Busting myths & maximising moans w/ Amari
    Nov 6 2025
    This week, Florence and Reed are joined by certified sex educator and founder of Admin by Amari, the brilliant Amari Leigh, to bust some of the biggest sex myths and unlock the secrets to truly maximising your moans. The trio gets candid about kink safety, sex toys, and the forty (yes, forty!) types of orgasms you can have. Plus, we explore the stigma around bi men, discover kinky Swifties (yep, Taylor Swift sex parties are real), and learn why average can be amazing. Rate & review if you’ve ever learned something new about your sexy life from us and don’t forget to watch the full episode and support us on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious Follow us on Instagram: @comecuriousFlorence @florencebarkReed @reedamberxGuest: @sxcoachingbyamari & @adminbyamari Links to Amari's amazing guides: 40 Orgasm guides Lube guide Sponsored by Erika Lust ❤️ Use our special code for 45% discount: SPICY45 Head to watch.erikalust.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
    Show More Show Less
    1 hr and 6 mins
  • What Cancer Taught Me

    What Cancer Taught Me
    Oct 30 2025
    This week Florence sits down with Harley Dee - friend and inspiration - to talk about life, loss, and learning to love your body after breast cancer. Harley opens up about treatment, scars, and the emotional rollercoaster of facing chemical menopause in her 30s. Together, they explore everything from hair loss to egg-freezing, and rediscovering pleasure when your body doesn’t feel like it used to. It’s a raw, truthful and deeply important conversation about survival, self-love, and what cancer really teaches you about being alive. Get to know Harley on IG @theharleylama Rate & Review if this pod’s ever made you think, feel or be less alone - and support the show for extra juicy chats on Patreon: patreon.com/comecurious - listen and watch AD-FREE! Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious • @florencebark • @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
    Show More Show Less
    1 hr
  • What We Learnt Making Anal Porn

    What We Learnt Making Anal Porn
    Oct 23 2025
    This week Florence and Reed get cheeky (literally) as they spill all the behind-the-scenes secrets from directing their first anal porn film. From the beauty of real chemistry to the chaos of lube, fluff, and butthole talk - it’s a deep dive into everything they learnt about anal on and off camera. Expect laughs, lube, and a lot of love for the bum. Rate & Review If we’ve ever made you think then smash that five star, baby. Want more? Watch the full episode, get behind-the-scenes goodies, and support the podcast on Patreon: ⁠patreon.com/comecurious⁠ Follow us on Instagram: @comecurious and DM us your questions, stories and voicenotes! Follow Florence @florencebark Follow Reed @reedamberx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
    Show More Show Less
    51 mins