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CPTSD: Building Real Support Systems - Quality Over Quantity

CPTSD: Building Real Support Systems - Quality Over Quantity

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 In this episode, we're diving deep into building authentic support systems for CPTSD recovery. If you've ever felt overwhelmed by the idea of asking for help or wondered why traditional advice about "reaching out" doesn't work for trauma survivors, this one's for you. Gregory breaks down the neuroscience behind co-regulation, shares real stories from our community, and provides practical tools you can use today to create meaningful connections. We'll explore why quality trumps quantity in relationships, how to identify truly safe people, and why your healing literally happens in relationship with others.

Key Takeaways
  • Support systems for trauma survivors look different than conventional friendship advice
  • Co-regulation with safe people literally rewires your nervous system for healing
  • Three to five quality connections are more effective than large social networks
  • Building support means finding people who witness you without trying to fix you
  • Your brain is designed for connection and healing happens in relationship
What You'll Discover
  • The two-question check-in method for identifying what support you actually need
  • How to use the vulnerability ladder to build trust gradually with new people
  • Why the support system audit helps you identify energy-draining versus nourishing relationships
  • The shared activity strategy for meeting like-minded people naturally through common interests
  • How to practice the gradual share technique to test safety in new connections
Resources Mentioned
  • Dr. Stephen Porges' Polyvagal Theory and co-regulation research
  • Journal of Traumatic Stress study on social support and PTSD recovery
  • UCLA Social Cognitive Neuroscience Lab findings on social pain and rejection
  • Dr. Kristin Neff's work on self-compassion and relationship quality
  • Harvard Study of Adult Development longitudinal research on relationships and health
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Next week we'll explore "The Power of Boundaries in Trauma Healing" and discover why boundaries aren't walls but gates with really good locks. We'll discuss how to set healthy limits without feeling like a complete asshole.

📩 Have questions or want to share your experience? Reach out at cptsd@senseofthisshit.com.

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