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CPTSD: Breaking Free from Guilt and Shame - Real Tools That Work

CPTSD: Breaking Free from Guilt and Shame - Real Tools That Work

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 In this episode, we tackle guilt and shame - the twin monsters that follow trauma survivors like emotional shadows. We explore how these feelings aren't just emotions but survival strategies your brain developed to keep you safe in unsafe situations. Through real listener stories and neuroscience research, we'll understand why shame feels so overwhelming and discover practical tools you can use right now to break free from patterns that once protected you but now suffocate you. This isn't about toxic positivity - it's about becoming whole, not perfect.

Key Takeaways
  • Guilt and shame in CPTSD are survival mechanisms that have outlived their usefulness
  • Shame loses power when we break silence and talk about it with safe people
  • Self-compassion literally rewires your brain and increases motivation, not decreases it
  • Healing means coexisting with shame without being controlled by it
  • You're not broken - you're incredibly good at surviving difficult circumstances
What You'll Discover
  • How childhood trauma creates lasting physiological changes that can be reversed
  • The neuroscience behind why shame feels like a four-year-old's survival response
  • Real tools like the shame spiral circuit breaker and good enough practice
  • Why perfectionism is shame's favorite weapon and how to disarm it
  • How to build a shame emergency kit for those 3 AM crisis moments
Resources Mentioned
  • Dr. Brené Brown's research on shame resilience and vulnerability
  • Dr. Pete Walker's work on emotional flashbacks and Complex PTSD
  • Dr. Dan Siegel's research on neuroplasticity and the developing brain
  • Kristin Neff's studies on self-compassion and cortisol reduction
  • Dr. Gabor Maté's work on trauma, addiction, and toxic shame
  • The ACE Study (Adverse Childhood Experiences) and Dr. Nadine Burke Harris's research
  • Dr. Janina Fisher's work on structural dissociation and trauma parts
Next Episode Preview Next week we'll explore using affirmations to heal trauma - not toxic positivity, but trauma-informed ways to rewire automatic negative thoughts. We'll discover how to work with your trauma brain instead of against it.

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