Many people living with anxiety aren’t just battling fear. They’re also carrying shame.

Not the kind that’s loud or dramatic. It shows up in small moments: needing reassurance, avoiding plans, leaning on someone just to feel okay – and then judging yourself for all of it. You start wondering if you’ve become too dependent and have changed too much from who you used to be.

This episode talks about where anxiety ends and shame begins to take over. Through one person’s story, it breaks down how quickly emotional survival can feel like personal failure, and how easily the brain turns symptoms into self-criticism.

It’s not about positive thinking. It’s about recognizing what’s actually happening in the body and learning a different way to respond – one that doesn’t involve constant resistance or self-editing.

Shame tells you to hide. This episode tells you something else. Tune in and find out what.

(This is an AI-generated episode inspired by my YouTube videos. I personally moderate these to share insights more efficiently, keeping the content informative yet completely free.)

Key Takeaways:

• Introduction (00:00)
• Anxiety brings deep shame and feelings of burden (00:26)
• Shame is often a symptom, not a truth (03:24)
• Avoiding emotions makes recovery harder (05:01)
• Vulnerability, when authentic, becomes empowering (08:53)
• Emotional mastery creates lifelong resilience (12:20)

Additional Resources:

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Most people think anxiety is caused by the symptoms themselves – the racing heart, the brain fog, the tight chest... That actually feels obvious: if the symptoms stop, the anxiety ends.

That’s what I used to think. So I did what anyone would do – I focused on the sensations. Tried to figure them out, fix them, and make them go away.

But they didn’t. In fact, the more I focused, the worse they got. Because the real fuel behind anxiety is your focus – and the meaning you attach to what you feel. (That’s something I realized a bit later.)

In this episode, I’ll walk you through a quick 2-minute experiment. First, you’ll see how focusing on a symptom makes it grow. Then, you’ll see how shifting the meaning around it makes the panic start to fade.

Once you see the cycle clearly, something in you softens. The sensations may still be there, but the fear around them disappears – and that’s when your body finally gets the chance to burn off the adrenaline and heal.

It only takes two minutes. Try it with me.

Key Takeaways:

• Intro (00:00)
• Logical problem-solving doesn’t work for anxiety (00:40)
• Focus amplifies perceived danger (01:52)
• Thought experiment: hyper-focusing worsens the symptom (02:50)
• Your brain fills gaps with fear-based meaning (03:53)
• Thought experiment: reframing the symptom as harmless (05:51)
• Symptoms are your body burning off adrenaline (08:12)

Additional Resources:

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Almost everyone on the recovery journey has that one symptom. The stubborn one. The one that convinces you: “OK, sure, maybe the other symptoms are anxiety… but not this one.”

Maybe it’s burning nerve pain, dizziness that never ends, heart palpitations, or bizarre itching. You throw it under the anxiety umbrella for a while… but it still shows up. And your brain whispers:

“What if this one is different?"

"What if this one never goes away?”

I get it. Mine were digestive issues.

I could accept the panic and racing thoughts as anxiety. But the bloating, nausea, food reactions felt too real. I tried cleanses, diets, supplements, everything I’d heard of… but nothing worked.

What actually changed things was understanding that my nervous system was hypersensitized. And that everything I was feeling was coming from that one place.

In this episode, I’m sharing why isolating that one stubborn symptom keeps you stuck and how putting everything under the anxiety umbrella is where real healing begins.

Believe me, you're not broken. What feels stuck is your body doing its best to protect you.

🎧 Tune in and learn how to stop fearing the symptom… and start truly healing.

Key Takeaways:

• Introduction (00:00)
• Everyone isolates one bizarre symptom – Shaan's was digestion (01:09)
• Symptoms stem from a hypersensitive nervous system (02:18)
• Stop treating symptoms as separate problems (03:24)
• Use the ALARM method for stubborn symptoms (05:32)
• The “Five Fs” amplify anxiety responses (06:51)

Additional Resources:

➡️ To accelerate your recovery journey, book a call to see if the mentorship with Shaan's team will help your specific situation

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At first, it’s just a symptom. A tight chest. A dizzy spell. A strange wave of nausea out of nowhere.

So you adjust. You breathe deeper… Leave the room.. Tell yourself it’s nothing, just a blip.

And maybe it is. But then it happens again. And again. And each time, the response gets quicker. More practiced. Until suddenly, it’s not just the symptom – it’s the pattern around it. Something happens, you react, it quiets down. But somehow the next one always comes back stronger.

That’s the loop.

It doesn’t shout. It just runs. Predictably, like a background process you never quite notice – until you're deep in it.

This episode looks right at that cycle. The back-and-forth between fear and relief. The things we do to escape it, and the signals those actions send.

If you’ve ever wondered why anxiety keeps showing up even when you're doing everything you’ve been told to do, tune in to this episode – it breaks down the loop and what actually starts to shift it.

(This is an AI-generated episode inspired by my YouTube videos. I personally moderate these to share insights more efficiently, keeping the content informative yet completely free.)

Key Takeaways:

• Introduction (00:00)
• Anxiety symptoms feel like the body attacking itself (00:50)
• Nervous system treats your reactions as confirmation of danger (03:30)
• Amygdala learns through action, not thought (06:05)
• Inhibitory learning rewires anxiety responses (09:09)
• Acting without urgency reprograms the fear response (11:03)
• One small action can change the brain’s belief system (16:12)

Additional Resources:

➡️ Want personalized recovery guidance on your healing journey? Learn more about working with Shaan and his team here

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➡️ Anxiety Recovery Masterclass: 9 Stages of Anxiety Recovery and Thriving

Disclaimer: The content in this video is for educational purposes only and is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. It assumes you’ve already been evaluated by a healthcare provider and told your symptoms are related to anxiety. Always consult with a qualified health professional before making any changes to your care.

When I was deep in anxiety – the panic attacks, the weird body symptoms, the obsessive thoughts – I kept thinking: ‘Once I understand what’s happening, I’ll be free.’

So I searched. Read. Watched the videos. I got it.

But I wasn’t getting better.

In this episode, I talk about why knowing what anxiety is – even being able to explain it in detail – doesn’t mean you're healing. I break down why intellectual understanding is just the first stage of recovery, and how people get stuck believing that more insight = more progress.

It doesn’t.

I’m sharing the real stages of recovery:

• what it means to actually apply what you’ve learned
• what “embodiment” looks like in real life
• why your brain – the very thing you’re relying on to get you out – is probably keeping you stuck

If you’re like, ‘I know all of this, so why am I still anxious?’ – this episode is for you.

Tune in!

Key Takeaways:

• Intro (00:00)
• The three stages of understanding anxiety recovery (00:45)
• Stage #1: Educational understanding (01:26)
• Stage #2: Experiential understanding (03:25)
• Stage #3: Embodied understanding (06:52)
• Recap (08:27)

Additional Resources:

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You’re washing dishes. Or walking the dog. Or just about to fall asleep. And then out of nowhere – bam. One of those thoughts.

What if I just lost control and hurt someone?

What if I’m a danger to my own kid?

What if….

It doesn’t make sense. It’s not who you are.

You try to shake it off. Or Google it. Or find some distraction. But somehow, the harder you try, the louder it gets.

This episode is about what’s actually going on when these thoughts show up. Why they feel so urgent, even when they don’t reflect anything real. And why our automatic responses – fixing, analyzing, panicking – might be fueling the cycle more than we think.

If you’ve ever felt like a prisoner in your own head, this one’s worth a listen.

Tune in!

(This is an AI-generated episode inspired by my YouTube videos. I personally moderate these to share insights more efficiently, keeping the content informative yet completely free.)

Key Takeaways:

• Introduction (00:00)
• Intrusive thoughts are symptoms of a sensitized nervous system (00:43)
• Thoughts are passive; thinking is active engagement (02:06)
• The “5 Fs” that fuel anxiety (03:30)
• The Alarm Method strategy (04:31)
• Recap (11:49)

Additional Resources:

➡️ Want personalized recovery guidance on your healing journey? Learn more about working with Shaan and his team here

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You were fine all day.

Not great, maybe. But fine. You made it through work, ate dinner, even laughed at something dumb on TV. No real signs of trouble. Then, out of nowhere, your heart jumps. Your stomach flips. You feel like you’ve been dropped into your body from a great height.

And it’s bedtime.

That’s the part that gets to you – not just the anxiety, but the timing. Like your nervous system is saving its biggest performance for when you’re finally trying to rest. You keep thinking, “Why now?” Like there’s something wrong with you for unraveling the moment everything’s supposed to slow down.

This episode leans into that question. Why panic seems to hit hardest in the quiet. Why sleep feels impossible even when you’re exhausted. And what’s actually going on in those moments when your body feels loud and your thoughts go dark.

The explanation isn’t what most people think. And neither is the way out.

Tune in.

(This is an AI-generated episode inspired by my YouTube videos. I personally moderate these to share insights more efficiently, keeping the content informative yet completely free.)

Key Takeaways:

• Introduction (00:00)
• Anxiety and sleep are deeply intertwined (00:17)
• Panic at night is often aan drenaline release (03:12)
• Trying to force sleep activates wakefulness (05:01)
• Step 1: Stay in bed, no matter what (06:33)
• Step 2: Observe, don’t fight intrusive thoughts (07:24)
• Step 3: Trust the process of recovery (08:11)
• Sensitized nervous system causes all symptoms (09:46)
• Desensitizing is the path to long-term freedom (10:02)

Additional Resources:

➡️ Want personalized recovery guidance on your healing journey? Learn more about working with Shaan and his team here

➡️ Access to Shaan’s Courses

➡️ Get access to the Desensitization Blueprint

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